Just lmao @ bitter guys who get butthurt after rejection. So much that they need to make themselves look even more butthurt by insulting them.
Hey you're really pretty, let me take you out. You're not like the other girls.. So beautiful!
Sorry, I'm not interested.
Oh well... you're a whore and an ugly sloot anyways.
Didn't he just say I was pretty?
**Way to make yourself look even more insecure and socially retarded**
Guys, if a girl rejects you take it like a man. The amount of fucks that you give to a situation like that should be described in integers. It’s their mistake.. Get on to the next 10 chicks that are ready to jump into bed with you.
Stop Thinking With Emotion and Think With Logic
Logic checking in here. If a girl rejects you that means she is not attracted to you. Why would you want to spend time and effort on a girl that is not attracted to you and doesn't value you? Do you have no sense of self value at all? If you do this then you pretty much conveying to this girl that you no self respect and you're a weak desperate man because if you weren’t desperate, you would of moved on like it was nothing.
Accepting the Friend Zone Will Turn Her Vag Bone Dry
You are prostituting your feelings by accepting her invitation to the friend zone. You should demand respect and hold yourself to a higher level than that.
This girl just told you that she is not sexually attracted to you but responded with- "we can still be friends though..." You submissively agree and say to yourself "Okay, that’s not what I want but I guess I’ll settle and hope she changes her mind.”
Her...
You...
That is so WEAK. You’re actually doing yourself a disservice if you submissively agree to the friend zone. I promise you that will dry out her vag very quickly and ruin any chances you have with her. If you get rejected, playing it cool is literally the only possible way she will change her mind in the near future. Don't be her emotional tampon.
Here You Are Again Boyo.
Be Straightforward About It
The most powerful negotiating stance in a relationship is the ability to walk away and mean it. This will actually turn her on. If you get friendzoned try this conversation with her...
I really do enjoy my time with you and genuinely like you but I'm not going to be able to see you anymore. I don't want to just be your friend and I feel I'm disrespecting myself by settling to that. I really hope everything works out for you.
BOOM.
Her Reaction...
Bro..
If you have the balls to say this you just earned major points with her. You just told her that you have value and other options. You told her that you will not settle for anything less than what you want. You let her know that the door is still open if she changes mind yet she knows that it's not the end of the world for you if she doesn't. You just told her that you're a man on a mission and don't bullshit around. You did this in a mature way without being a dick. Bravo...
When you do this you need to follow through. When she hits you back up through text be cool and casual about. If she asks you out then tell you're busy that night and reschedule. She is now working for your time and trying to impress you. Dat dere is a beautiful and empowering feeling boyos.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been initially rejected by a girl and conveyed to her I didn't care only to have her send a text of “Hi” two weeks later. A pretty girl's mind will go crazy if their rejection literally meant nothing to you. 1000 scenarios will run through her mind and that's a good thing because she will be thinking about you. She will be mad... then she will feel insecure... then she will feel mad again... then she will start asking herself questions about you.
Once you start taking rejection with this mindset integrated in your head it will in time become reality. You genuinely will not care anymore after time and time again. I get rejected almost every time I go out lol but I still come home with a girl because I didn't let those other girls bother me anymore.
Stop Acting So Beta With Your Cringe Self Pity
Just Lol... ^
Do you see me on GAG making questions "Why are women so cruel.. should I join MGTOW?" every time I get rejected? Stop digging yourself in a depressive hole by hanging around girls that are not into you. It's much more fun and emotionally healthy to date girls that are really into you. Stop dehumanizing these girls and becoming bitter- everyone has their own taste. Know that often times women will reject you just to test your strength. Women will often have these little shit test for determining how strong a man is. Stop acting so defeated because it's a huge turn off.
I'm telling you the truth when I say it's much more fun to be with a chick that's digs you. Nothing is better than having a girl text you after sex almost begging to get it again after she gets done with her shift at work. Just lmao @ dudes chasing after girls that don't want them. Wake up boyos.
Most girls don't outright reject men and say they aren't attracted. They tend to hold men on a string with false hope that she is interested but timing just wasn't right and if he ask her again she will go out with him. So men end up in the friendzone without even realizing it.
I believe most men if women stated she wasn't attracted to him would cut their loses and find another girl but most girls don't do that because they like the attention and special treatment they get from these men without having to put out any sex.
The last girl I asked out said she wasn't ready for a relationship as she had broken up recently. She then invited me to talk in private online and was very sexual and flirty, but after a few months stopped responding except to mention she forgot about me.
Beauty my friend, beauty. Rejection should be taken as a learning experience if anything, turning around and being a little shit about it only further proves to a gal that rejecting you was the CORRECT decision because you don't have the nerve to handle negative reactions with an ounce of tact and pride.
He says some helpful stuff as a lot of dudes need to chill out when being rejected. But I'm surprised you and other women were fine with him dropping women who friend zone a guy and just want to be friends. I thought a lot of women felt guys and girls can be just friends and don't like how some guys seem to just want the only to do with women is romance or sex and not just a friendship. I think friends is fine in some ways, but yes can be a problem if a dude keeps falling in it. It's probably him being to passive or just needing to work on himself. But I think guys aren't seeing the big picture too if they are ready to just end a friendship a girl wants because she's not attracted to him when he is to her. The biggest think for people getting dates, relationships, sex, etc is meeting new people. There's different ways, but many meet... well through friends. The big picture is opening it up, like networking. If a dude is cool and said girl who just sees him as a friend, but she thinks he'a good dude. She might like introduce one of her cute gfs who is single and may be attracted to said guy.
Or her meets out with the girl that friendzoned him as girls often come out with their other girl friends. I don't think a guy should be a lap dog and just be there waiting trying to change a girl's mind that isn't interested and wants to be friends. He can do his own thing, but it might be foolish to always through away a friendship or cut it off just because a girl is not interested. He could close off a nice friendship and like I said plenty of possible opportunities from his friendship with said girl. Like I said before, networking.
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How great is this take, and finally from the mouth of a guy saying as much. I remember writing a question as to why guys feel its okay to do exactly what your example says, which is one minute chat up a girl and tell her she's gorgeous but god forbid she says, no thanks to their offer, and suddenly she's a whore? The guys went nuts about how thankful women should be to have been asked anything at all and some were down right creepy in how they implied women owe men. Both sexes like what they like, and no guy simply accepts every girl that comes across his path either as evidenced by who exactly they go chat up. It's not every girl in the row... its certain girls... girls they are attracted to, so yeah, you are going to get rejected sometimes.
I don't want some guy that doesn't want me, so why as you point out, do so many men crawl around for women who don't give them the time of day. It's just as pathetic as the women who are like, oh he's cheating on me with these 3 other girls, but he "respects me." Um, no.
Well i'll never see you have the same attitude when a guy posts about how women run around screaming "MEN ARE ALL TRASH" after she dates a guy who she doesn't like.
Haha, the first part reminded me of a short conversation with a guy on a Facebook-inspired social media network for a music group I liked. He messaged me, telling me I was gorgeous and had beautiful eyes, and then said we should get to know each other better and see where it goes. He lived clear across the country, so I politely declined. This is where he went into a rage and practically had a mental breakdown, saying he hoped I died in a car crash, that I was nothing but a pathetic, nasty whore that nobody would ever want, and last but certainly not least, threatened to spit tobacco juice on me. I just laughed and blocked him. It was so stupid! This guy was 25 years old, keep in mind.
The only guaranteed way to avoid rejection is to don't take initiative to ever ask anybody out. Just have the mindset of that you'll never really be friends with any ladies, that they're all pretty much already taken anyway, much less even partners. Don't bother making any more time and effort to chase after any one, and just focus on other more important things with your life.
Instead be preoccupied by shit tons of other things to do and worry about that you totally forgot that you had been single for more than 30 or 40 years and by then you should have gotten used to being single that you'd probably won't really give a fuck any more as you've already given up long time ago.
Depressing? It's all a matter of perception. I think it's not much of a point unless guys absolutely want to marry and be somebody's father or something. Each to their own. Besides everyone and everything eventually will die either way, it's almost like as if nothing really ever mattered other than because that we wanted it to matter. Depressing either way right?
Anything in life that is meaningful such as the "good" things like sex are only because we think that they are meaningful and want them to be meaningful in the first place.
For some "not dying a virgin" is their absolute goal in this world and life, well there are always many other ways they can accomplish this and not have to worry about "rejection".
They can always pay for the sex if they want lol.
I guess being single just isn't for the non-deep thinking crowd or those that aren't able to think so deep about things. Because if and once you do think real deeply, then it becomes very difficult to NOT be single.
Fucking amen. The only thing I'd add is that if a guy isn't used to *real* rejection (ie: he's actively meeting women and playing the "numbers game"), then those initial rejections may hurt in the same way physical pain does (neuroscientists have proved this). So he needs to develop a healthy sense of loss adjustment and develop a tolerance to rejection... so that he ultimately can process it in the healthier way you describe. (Although loss adjustment implies he's "lost" something, which isn't really the case at all, as she was never "his" to begin with... but I digress). Good take.
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@redeyemindtricks I liked it but it's so hard to use it. Here, girls don't friendzone that much. Most of the times, they'll reject you and won't talk to you again (unless you try again, then half of them will say "yes" duh) or they'll become "more than friends" and then gradually get official after testing you. Friendzone is a rare case in this conservative country. So, that's why I am so desperate to see what kind of reaction she'll give. I'm not going to use those same sentences, but I know what to say. Sounds fun.
If you take rejection with a smile, you have no self-respect. Nobody should melt down over a rejection, but that doesn't mean it's good to smile about it like some Asian who's trying to "save face." That's like the door-to-door salesmen who go around begging people to buy some junk nobody wants. They'll also tell you you have to learn to take rejection with a smile. Those people have so little self-respect that they're willing to make themselves look like fools and don't care that they put themselves in a position to be constantly humiliated and run out of people's neighborhoods.
Its advice like this that is so goddam passive aggressive in nature that it actually causes the writer to grow a vag gain 20 lbs and question their attraction to their cousin who is a Male slut I mean thanks for really being there for the men actually beat you punk ass the men dont need a bitch like you around throwing in your 2 cents just to what get a sympathy lay
@valentine74 If you're actually 45 years old, I feel sorry for you. You should be mature enough by now that you don't melt down over other people's opinions on the internet.
I think the usual response to rejection is being hurt. Not being butthurt. Not insulting her for being such a whore, just being sad about being rejected. That is not weak, that is completely normal.
Get on to thr next 10 chicks that are ready to jump into bed with you? Well, what if I don't want to jump into bed with them? What if sex is not the goal? Falling in love is not as easy as jumping into bed with some random.
If a girl rejects me that means she's not attracted to me. Yeah, I know that. I don't want to spend time and effort on a girl like that, but why can't I be sad about the fact that she doesn't value me?
Nothing takes down a girl's sexual value, so even a fugly girl like her will be hit on by 20 diff guys a day while an okay looking guy like @naturaldeven will have to put in the extra effort even for a chubster
Well, we have to take rejection as much as you do. It goes both ways. Go after the girls who do show some interest, look at you, smile at you, get closer, etc. If you're 5'6", while with a grey beard and the girl is the same height and posted on her dating site that she is looking for a Latino, clean shave who is taller than 5'9", don't go after her. There are many women 5"-5"5 and other options. Everybody has different tastes and interests.
I rate this troll a 9/11 Perfect use of Alpha/Beta/Omega terminology, mentioning testosterone as currency and even trolling youngsters who disagree with you. Your opinions are a perfect mix of serious and retarded and they nearly come across as legitimate.
Women of today are not worth seeking out relationships or friendships with, I often see some fat neckbearded provider-type hanging out with them and I've even seen these creeps be friends with them, even openly talking about the nudes these bimbos have given them. Gross overweight human slime should not be getting so much male attention. These guys are absolutely pathetic.
But, firstly, have the girls applauding this article actually read it? I'm surprised they haven't condemned it as 'misogynistic'.
Secondly, almost all guys fit into one of two categories. Either rejection doesn't bother them much, or they basically never approach anyway. So, the target audience of this article is rather small.
I agree, rejection is part of life and if anything it helps develop thick skin, if a girl rejects you it's not the end of the world I mean there are only billions of them around world, literally everywhere and chances are at least 100-1,000 of them would go out with you or not outright reject you lol.
And if for some reason being rejected does cause you pain go to the gym and turn that pain and mush ( if you have any ) into muscle.
lmao i always try so hard to not laugh when guys tell me that they blow off by trash talking to chicks that rejected them. I've met some sour women too but it doesn't compare to men ratio hahaha I've been embarrassed after being rejected once, but i just accepted it and moved on.
I could not have put this better , never been in the " Zone " , once simply said to one woman , " OK , enjoy your life !! " & walked off. Years later , she came up to me in the street & remembered me , but I had long since forgotten her , so she looked a bit embarrassed by my seemingly cold reaction , so another incentive for keeping it gracious & non-needy. Semper Fi @FearlessBanana , excellent take , a salute from a former British paratrooper..." NOW GET ON YOUR FACE ! "
This one was completely accurate, great advice. I don't know how much of an impact it will have on the guys of gag tho lol everyone's so bitter on here
No man.. This myTake owner nailed it. I am glad I read the take :) @Fearless_banana
That line " A pretty girl's mind will go crazy if their rejection literally meant nothing to you. " ... it is pretty much etched into my mind now. I totally loved this take. I wished I read it 8 years back :(
@Careless_Whisper Indeed, the feminists have him under their spell... we must give him the red pill before its too late. Quick! someone call Dick Masterson up.
Absolutely not, feminists have him indoctrinated and I have the cure to save him from the White Knight syndrome. You see White Knight-ism is a woman made disease and MGTOW is the cure. There is also other diseases women are creating where some men are infected with mangina-ism or simp-ism. My God! these mangina's just can't stop buying gifts or pussy worshiping these women!
I agree completely with him that men should not waste their time on women who don't like them but imagine having even the tinest fraction of the rejections they had to take. Imagine the impact on your self-esteem, and imagine being stuck in a world where you are the one who always has to approach and one where you have no emotional support system and have no way and no one to vent your feelings to. That is the world those men are coming from. I might not agree with them but I have to sympathise with them.
It's easy to handle rejections if you've been in a relationship because you have an easier time believing someone for you is out there but if you are like me who has never had a girlfriend then you'l never get over seeing people on social media, on street flirting, holding hands kissing etc. This take doesn't count for people who haven't been in a relationship before.
These are all pussy stuff agreed. But guys shouldn't accept being made a fool of either. When your being honest about your feelings to her showing some honesty back isn't a lot to ask for. There's a difference between no and being made a fool of. If a girl responds to me with lies like "I have a boyfriend" when I actually checked if she did yh i'm gonna be pissed off at her. It's also ironic because girls don't want to be on that end and well if they were their reaction would be far worse.
I used to refuse to believe that there were "men" who did that shit--then I was allowed to read the correspondence that a few women received on their dating profiles (by the women in question). Oh, my. Well. Okee dokee. Maybe some people shouldn't just do them.
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