I haven't been able to attract a single girl via this method, so I am assuming it's true. That doesn't mean I'm giving up, it just means women are hard to please.
I don't know, if still sounds like they need "game" by the end of this take. Your snowball effect idea was right on point though
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THIS IS BS There are so many single, available and interested people to meet that you will never ever "run out" If you are ugly no one will want to meet you, so fuck you
@SpinningDude69 it's the reality of my life. Why are girls so nervous around me? Why do they stare from a distance? I feel like I scare girls so I don't talk to them.
No cause then you'll limit your options. You can't assume anything about a girl until you get to know her. Give a girl a chance to get to know you amd like you by going and talking to her.
There are signs that girls give to random guys to show their interest. For instance, I was talking to a girl in the bar I went to Saturday night. I did not know her, but when she walked up, she brushed against me. Okay... who cares about that? Well it kept happening over and over again. We kinda got into a playful nudging war that ended with me finally talking to her. Little things that most people miss are the signs that should stick out the most.
There was another one on Friday night at a different bar that brushed her hand against mine a couple times. I finally just placed mine on top of hers and she did not pull away. We held hands for a for a couple moments until I turned to her and said "You know, we haven't said a word to each other but we're comfortable enough to hold hands!"
Other little signs may be: -holds prolonged eye contact with you - always stands near you (can look kinda awkward at times) - I've had a girl jab at my side before lol - smiles at you
These signs exist but not every girl shows them, they also differ a lot from girl to girl and then there are girls who flirt just for fun or to make someone else jealous, etc... It's always going to be a risk and I'd say in more than 50% (more with hot girls, less with ugly girls) of cases they turn out to not be signs.
@Shorty1991 Keep in contact and then they flake or ghost. Only ones who wanted to stay with me were either very clingy, and I mean very clingy where I couldn't have my own life, or I just wasn't attracted to them.
Hmmm. I see, clinginess would be a deal breaker for me too and attraction is important too. No use going with someone your not attracted to. Maybe the women you seem to attract aren't really after a serious relationship and maybe that's why they don't stick around.
@Shorty1991 Yeah one of them was so clingy and insecure that she'd ask if I still wanted to see her even if I agreed to a date or rescheduled. She'd also blow up my phone and fish for compliments by sending nudes and pics of her.
Well one that I genuinely liked recently ended up shot me as a rebound and ditched me after sex. Then others would flake after a date or two. I don't know if it's because I met them online and they have so many options.
I don't use online dating anymore, I got the feeling that all three of my last dates were only interested in one thing. The last one wanted to see me again, probably because he thought he'd get lucky the second time around. I'm not into sleeping around, so I won't do that until I'm in a relationship or if I have feelings for the guy and I'm sure that he has feelings for me too. People can be good at sweet talking you into getting with them, then they ditch you when they've got what they came for. I hate users.
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I haven't been able to attract a single girl via this method, so I am assuming it's true. That doesn't mean I'm giving up, it just means women are hard to please.
Or you're just not good-looking.
@objectivetruth Please.
The only thing I disagree with is "no more" in the title. There never was a need for it.
Money + Status = Game
I'm a
((Potential + Effort)(Experience + Effort) / Age) + Smooth Words^2 X Quirkiness = Game
kinda guy
I don't know, if still sounds like they need "game" by the end of this take. Your snowball effect idea was right on point though
THIS IS BS There are so many single, available and interested people to meet that you will never ever "run out"
If you are ugly no one will want to meet you, so fuck you
So aggressive, haha.
It's all about looks. That's why l will always be single. I'm an unattractive guy.
Don't be so hard on yourself man 馃槀 馃槀
@SpinningDude69 it's the reality of my life. Why are girls so nervous around me? Why do they stare from a distance? I feel like I scare girls so I don't talk to them.
So only approach girls who you know like you and leave the rest for the rest? Do I have that right?
I'm asking because I'm constantly hearing stories of girls being approached by random guys and just immediately lusting after them like crazy.
No cause then you'll limit your options. You can't assume anything about a girl until you get to know her. Give a girl a chance to get to know you amd like you by going and talking to her.
There are signs that girls give to random guys to show their interest. For instance, I was talking to a girl in the bar I went to Saturday night. I did not know her, but when she walked up, she brushed against me. Okay... who cares about that? Well it kept happening over and over again. We kinda got into a playful nudging war that ended with me finally talking to her. Little things that most people miss are the signs that should stick out the most.
There was another one on Friday night at a different bar that brushed her hand against mine a couple times. I finally just placed mine on top of hers and she did not pull away. We held hands for a for a couple moments until I turned to her and said "You know, we haven't said a word to each other but we're comfortable enough to hold hands!"
Other little signs may be:
-holds prolonged eye contact with you
- always stands near you (can look kinda awkward at times)
- I've had a girl jab at my side before lol
- smiles at you
@Baumber
These signs exist but not every girl shows them, they also differ a lot from girl to girl and then there are girls who flirt just for fun or to make someone else jealous, etc... It's always going to be a risk and I'd say in more than 50% (more with hot girls, less with ugly girls) of cases they turn out to not be signs.
My issue hasn't been getting women attracted initially but more or less keeping them in the long run.
What do you do to try and keep them?
@Shorty1991 Keep in contact and then they flake or ghost. Only ones who wanted to stay with me were either very clingy, and I mean very clingy where I couldn't have my own life, or I just wasn't attracted to them.
Hmmm. I see, clinginess would be a deal breaker for me too and attraction is important too. No use going with someone your not attracted to. Maybe the women you seem to attract aren't really after a serious relationship and maybe that's why they don't stick around.
@Shorty1991 Yeah one of them was so clingy and insecure that she'd ask if I still wanted to see her even if I agreed to a date or rescheduled. She'd also blow up my phone and fish for compliments by sending nudes and pics of her.
Well one that I genuinely liked recently ended up shot me as a rebound and ditched me after sex. Then others would flake after a date or two. I don't know if it's because I met them online and they have so many options.
I don't use online dating anymore, I got the feeling that all three of my last dates were only interested in one thing. The last one wanted to see me again, probably because he thought he'd get lucky the second time around. I'm not into sleeping around, so I won't do that until I'm in a relationship or if I have feelings for the guy and I'm sure that he has feelings for me too. People can be good at sweet talking you into getting with them, then they ditch you when they've got what they came for. I hate users.
Lol, the day I listen to theories on "game" from a guy on this site. smh
In other words talk to them lol.
Agreed. Great take, man! 👍
cool,
thnx for the take love