6 Reasons Why I'm Giving Up On These So-Called "Men" (For a While) (Page 2)
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Men on GAG are appearantly the most emotional whiners out there lol, if men are like that in real life then we should all go homo!! 😃
I know I'm a male but can I join in your homo utopia.
@LiveFreeorDieHard lol
Clearly the men of GaG are hurt by your words. :p
Anyways- taking a break sounds like a good idea.
{(and in fact, all men), which has resulted in a whole lot of pro-MGTOW posts and "it's the woman's fault that she won't go out with me." What a steaming load of self-loathing, defeatist, pathetic bullshit."}
I AGREE!!! Whenever a date goes wrong for me i don't whine I try to improve its not different than going to the gym.
While I do agree with this specifically (up top), it looks like you're doing the same thing these whiny ass MGTOW homos are doing...
I can tell you've been dating boys and NOT MEN. Like attracts like my dear, being single might help you find a MAN... Continue to improve on yourself and find a MAN...
Your go-girl-power-men-are-babies mind set is fleeting. With age comes maturity and earned perspective so this too shall pass. Society has programmed us against our natural instincts and everyone is suffering. All vent it differently; e. g. this my-take/article and possibly the “men’s whining” my-takes/articles you mention. Unfortunately, this trend of social degradation will continue until some worldwide life-changing event occurs. Hang on and hope for the best when it happens.
Maybe men aren't interested because MANY women are out of shape slobs with kids that have no father, they're uneducated, uninteresting, not very helpful or charming, but they act like they are some kind of madonna. So we men don't marry them because why would we?
So are you saying women see no fault in themselves and only ever question/look at fault of men?
@BubbleBoy69 No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying one of the reasons we're seeing a decline in marriage is that men don't want to marry some of these women.
wtf!
On #5, I'm choosing to be a virgin until marriage. I just hope that isn't a deal-breaker for too many women. :(
As far as the whole feminism thing, as mentioned in #4, I don't care if she *is* a feminist; but one of my BIGGEST deal-breakers is women who hit men (or who justify it) - unless it's in self-defense, including for sexual harassment. They're the first to yell at the top of their lungs that men shouldn't hit women, and I can't date a girl who will treat my gender as slapping & punching bags of meat for her own gender to physically vent their aggravations on for any reasons that they see fit.
#3... As I said, I'm a virgin; but I really feel like I can go my life without sex if it means being with my true love.
You're 31, in a couple years your vagina would be more dry than a barbie's vagina, so you better stop acting like those men you're complaining about.
Barbie's have vagina's? They must have changed since I was a 5 year old looking under the skirts of my sisters Barbies.
A lot of older women say their sex drives went through the roof after 30. How, I have no idea since lots of people have health conditions and severe hormonal issues by then but...
@SovereignessofVamps I honestly think that's a fantasy. They're might be an emotional rush to get pregnant while they still can. Or psychological factors like wanting to feel attractive again after being mom and raising kids for years. But the idea women become raging sex addicts in older age, from what I can tell is largely false.
It makes more sense that older single women who hope their looks hold out long enough to get a man are more loose, because they're trying to lock in a guy vs actually being hornier than when they were younger. I know a lot of dads that will tell you their sex life did not increase with age.
She is already in the process of hitting the wall.
After a few years of self-imposed solitude, she will discover that her sexual market value has plunged to zero, because she will be too old to have children (reliably and who are not defective).
I have to respect her decision, though. It is hers to make and I can understand her thought processes.
One important question that the author did not ponder was. . . why.
Why did men change, or go away?
Consider the following.
A shit test of almost 60 years of unrelenting hatred spewed forth by women at men has to have consequences. #maletears #killallmen #toxicmasculinity #abortboybabies and more.
Throw in divorce, property, custody and child-support laws that favour women to a grotesque degree; the passion-killing affirmative consent rule; false rape and sexual harassment allegations; all amid unending demands from the same harpies to 'man up'.
Manning up translates as laying down and letting the Feminist haters kick us to death.
The 'real men' are still out there.
They are the men who have looked at demonstrated female group preference and taken note of other female behaviours, as well as the changing legal, educational, employment and social environment, which discriminates against men and sometimes criminalises normal male behaviour. For example, there is an anatomical reason why we need to sit with our legs slightly apart.
These men have carried out a rational cost/risk/benefit analysis of interaction with women and come to an evidence-based conclusion that modern Western women have made themselves to much hard work, too legally dangerous and all round far too toxic for any form of interaction with them to be of benefit to a man.
Consequently, they walked away and they are still walking. They will not return to the plantation.
lubes are available
No... lots of them know they can't get preggo because they're 40 plus. I do think a lot of it is a need for attention though, if I'm being honest. menopause, other health problems... but your sex drive is high? I'm young and when I'm sick or my hormones/cycles are off the last thing I want is to fuck. @rjroy3
So a woman loses her worth as she ages? the fuck dude?
@lovemedammit I don't think you need a master's to know that women age, and with age you lose attractiveness. If you think most 35 y/o are as hot as those who're 25, you're probably delusional.
Then you live your life superficially. I still think any man or woman can find love at any age. They don't have to put aside their self respect just because "their time is running out" on their "hotness scale"
@lovemedammit Yeah, but acting like a little baby isn't gonna help her either.
@lovemedammit
Yes, the sexual market value of women declines in proportion with their age.
See:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68OVHoZ8KaA
An epic Criagslist post must be repeated here.
"What happened to the Nice Guy? YOU did..."
www.craigslist.org/.../483318927.html
Another one paraphrased:
www.pointsincase.com/.../this-is-what-happened-to-nice-guys
"1. Guys have just become man-babies"
*looks at the guys comments section*
YIKES! You are so right!
Oh well.
It's perfectly fine, that you decided to give up on males for as long as you see fit. I don't see a problem with it at all. Do whatever feels right for you.
And gee, with what kind of men have you been. It's sad.
Good luck for your future!
You haven't given up on men, you've given up on boys. From the above it seems as though you haven't had the pleasure of dating a man to be honest.
As someone who is older than most of those that have replied, so here are my thoughts on what you wrote.
First and foremost I feel your more mature than those around you. The next and biggest thing is ladies like you who are stang and independent are harder to take advantage of so , a lot of guys don't think that. personally I give you a big thumbs up for saying what you feel and think. If someone doesn't like you for the person you are , they don't deserve to know you at all.
Im one of the guys on hear who complains and have pretty much given up on women. I've approached over 500 women and 98% of them wouldn't give me a chance and when i did get a first date, i did something she didn't like and poof, she left. Women have unrealistic standards and expectations of men nowadays. I've dated several women, most in wanst attracted to but i still gave them a chance, women on the other hand dont. I've lost count how many real numbers girls have given out and didn't respond back, whats up with that. How about women chance, become more datable, stop blaming men, and approach us for a change. I hate dating and dont like modern women, they suck!
actually the real way of asking this is.
"where are all the REAL WOMEN?''
it seems your all dumb bitches who dont have compassion and dont see how cruel you dumb fucks are.
so go ahead stay single no one will ever love you. anyways.
Enjoyable take - It seems you have had a bad run of late - Okay I don't know if they are a minority or a majority but they certainly are vocal - I believe there is a good proportion of decent guys out there - I hope you get things sorted out whether single or not and meet a good guy who makes you rethink some of the points above - Best of luck
Its cool to see my world coming to their senses. The truth is people need to know themsevles first!!! Our society is in the endge of a revolution! Dont engage until your heart dreams come true or fuck me u know wtv but me I myself after my wonderful girlfriend I have I will stay single and honestly fool around and enjoy my fucking self! I know of what I am capable of and wtv, girlfriends, friends, family, people just fuck with your mind!
Maybe the problem is that you only find yourself attracted to losers. Maybe there are real men and the one who's scared of commitment is you.
It happens, I mean don't feel bad. I married a foreign girl who ultimately wanted a sugar daddy and a green card, but wasn't upfront about it. We all go through being deceived or burned at one point in life, it's what makes us wiser and stronger in the end.
You presented a reasoned argument.
As a MGTOW, I respect your decision.
Oh lookey here, a girl made stupid decisions and dated a series of bad guys then decides to blame all men.
Grow up. 31 year old acting like a teenager.
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