Why Don't Guys Want to Pay for the First Date Anymore? (Page 6)

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DWornock Follow
Yoda Age: 33

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1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I alway pay for dates and I can't imigine otherwise unless a girl invites me over for home cooked or something similar.

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Anonymous
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OK stop giving me reasons to believe there still a hope for improvement in female gender.

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  No 😈
  
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Yanoa_Yanza Follow
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""They feel as if girls don’t want true equality, and only want the benefits.""

This line... THIS LINE!!!

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Liisjak Follow
Xper 7 Age: 37

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Again? It's a general rule, the one that asks the other out pays.

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  If u want to go by that rule than u can I'm not telling u what to do
  
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GoodLuckCharlie Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24

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This doesn't apply to all men. I'd willingly pay for the first date.

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Yeah I know. :)
  And that's great. You do you. :D I know many guys who don't have a problem with it.
  
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Maxemeister Follow
Master Age: 25

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I say whoever asks pays and then from then on split it

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  You cx figure that out yourself when you start dating.
  
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blondfrog Follow
Master Age: 34

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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

This was great and you have everything right.

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Thanks
  
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Djaay Follow
Yoda Age: 65

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444 opinions shared on Dating topic.

That's why I never date. Just straight into a relationship instead. Why pay for someone to be your probation officer.

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sweetshyguy Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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Because we want to feel like the girl loves us too not just we love them.

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Read the myTake
  
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CryWolf Follow
Xper 5 Age: 38

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Blame feminism.
But still some of us pay for it, the food, the taxi, everything.

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Kelfuma Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

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That was really good!

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Thanks
  
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Anonymous
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Well sometimes we don't because of how often people ghost after the first date. Makes me more selective.

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Abe90 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 36

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We get it already. Men should pay for the first dates. This is like the third or fourth post that I've seen about men paying on the first date. Drop it already and ask other things or talk about something different

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  You didn't read one word. You just saw the title and deciding to give this ignorant response. Go and actually read what I wrote because I was actually DEFENDING men and their right to NOT pay. Thanks. That's why you should read past the title, no? -_-
  
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- Abe90
  
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  Right, cuz I'm ignorant for being annoyed with seeing something that's constantly been asked this past week.
  
  Call me an ass, rude, or whatever, deep down, I don't care. I didn't read past the first sentence because of redundancy. A lot of the times, I get a laugh at people's responses because they easily get offended and it makes laugh. Use creativity, stop being a follower and ask something different. Oh yea, I forgot to mention, you're a moron
  
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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Well that's on you. :) You shouldn't call people you don't know morons because you're mad something that happened in your life. It's not my fault you're miserable on the inside.
  
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- Abe90
  
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  I call people morons because a lot of them ARE morons and idiots. Sorry but not sorry if that bothers you. I became miserable about things because I don't believe in life being always happy. Unfortunately, I've been at the raw end of the stick about certain things that really matters to myself. You either don't understand me or won't understand. But it doesn't matter, so I don't care. Toodles sweety
  
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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  And I'm smarter than you babe because I don't use personal attacks on the internet to people I don't know. :) I think you just need a hug and some flowers 🌺 Thanks for taking the time to comment honey ❤️😊
  
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- Abe90
  
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  Just because you don't insult people, doesn't make you smarter honey. You have a lot learn, and you're gonna be put in your place sometime in your life. Best advice I can give you is don't have such high expectations and losenthe ego thinking that you're smarter or above than others. Because it's gonna bite you in the ass dear.
  
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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  I wasn't hun. :) I just said that because you called me a moron. And I saw your posts and honestly? I hope you get better. Have a great night. ❤️ I'm going to sleep now because it's 4 in the morning and I'm exhausted.
  
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- Abe90
  
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  Good night then love
  
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- JuicyBrain
  
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  You are being an asshole. Read the whole damn thing if you want to have a moral right to answer PERIOD. She does not have to have your permission to write a take about ANY subject she wants. You are free to not read her, but then, don't comment. You acted like an ass here, just fess up and move on
  
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- Abe90
  
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  @JuicyBrain shut up! This didn't concern you nor does it now. The conversation died last night so take your opinion elsewhere. And I am aware that I'm an asshole
  
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- JuicyBrain
  
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  I know, I wanted to remind you. lol
  
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- Abe90
  
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  @JuicyBrain oh thanks! I have a list of things to do that I could use your opinion on based off of my decisions. I'll email them to you
  
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ColinHarvey Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

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Why won't women take my anal virginity on the first date? This is ridiculous, I have needs.

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Anonymous
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Guess it depends on the guy

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Yes.
  
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YourFutureEx Follow
Master Age: 31

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741 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Because... 'gold diggers'

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10dsw Follow
Yoda Age: 35

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973 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Nicely said!

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Thank you!
  
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JuicyBrain Follow
Yoda Age: 48

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933 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Wow, you nailed it!

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Thanks :)
  
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Anonymous
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I don't know what the US is like but in Europe Most guys pay for the first date.

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FinnishBeautyGirl Follow
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Nailed👌👌👌

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- RainbowFanGirl
  
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  Thanks girly 😊❤️
  
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- FinnishBeautyGirl
  
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  No problem 💖💖
  
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