ah I don't care about money My biggest crush was a pizza deliver with a motorbike. He was super handsome and muscular and very nice and gentle at the same time. So he wasn't a rich boi but it didn't really matter
I certainly don't care about a guy's bank account. Like at all, seriously. It doesn't hold value in my relationships. As long as he gives my his love then we'll be fine. ❤
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So you lose your job or get sick and your boyfriend has no job and no income... who's paying for the rent if you don't care about money... like at all? This is precisely what I mean about this fairy tale that money has no meaning to anyone. I specifically said that it isn't about your guy being wealthy, but he does need to have money.
If you go after the super ambitious type you will always come second to his ambition. Sure he is charismatic and attractive, but you will pay the price for it.
My friend girl doesn't care about a guy's bank account. She always says she will never ask her fiance for money because she wants to support herself.
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When one is in a relationship, you aren't just supporting yourself though. If you live with the person especially, it would be quite strange to say, this is mine, this is yours, I will buy my own food, you buy your own food. I totally agree, regardless of your gender, that you should on your own, be able to support at least yourself because anything could go wrong---death, loss of job, major injury, alien abduction (lol), but where your friend is going, which is a marriage, it's not that you're asking for money like an allowance, but you do share things equally or otherwise with your partner. It's a couch for both of you, lunch for both of you, the apartment/house, for both of you.
I dunno, I never let a woman access my bank account.
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Maybe not "just" but definitely care about it. It's a deal breaker for a lot of women. Only they say things like "I need a man that will take care of me" Meaning money.
@WaterRat Do women care of realize how hard it is for a guy to find a 1st shift job that pays above 50k/yr and isn't 6 or 7 days a wk? I've had to put out over 550 applications and still haven't been able to get one of those jobs? How do most people do it?
Smartman12, most women probably date men who make less than 50k bc that's reality. The point is to aim higher than what a girl makes and what is average.
@abcdgg haha I wouldn't know, that's not my range. People vary of course. Women take care of men financially a lot of times, I see that often. If that's the case than the guy has to obv pull his weight in chores, kids etc. If with health problems at least be nice and emotionally supportive. Sadly some people are mentally ill and can't. It goes both ways of course.
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ah I don't care about money
My biggest crush was a pizza deliver with a motorbike. He was super handsome and muscular and very nice and gentle at the same time. So he wasn't a rich boi but it didn't really matter
Women fuck power (money/providers) and men fuck women. Biology 101
That's all I need to say.
But I agree with one thing. If my daughter had to be with some dude, i hope he had some direction, drive and yeah money for support.
Exactly my comment above.
I certainly don't care about a guy's bank account. Like at all, seriously. It doesn't hold value in my relationships. As long as he gives my his love then we'll be fine. ❤
So you lose your job or get sick and your boyfriend has no job and no income... who's paying for the rent if you don't care about money... like at all? This is precisely what I mean about this fairy tale that money has no meaning to anyone. I specifically said that it isn't about your guy being wealthy, but he does need to have money.
If you go after the super ambitious type you will always come second to his ambition. Sure he is charismatic and attractive, but you will pay the price for it.
My friend girl doesn't care about a guy's bank account. She always says she will never ask her fiance for money because she wants to support herself.
When one is in a relationship, you aren't just supporting yourself though. If you live with the person especially, it would be quite strange to say, this is mine, this is yours, I will buy my own food, you buy your own food. I totally agree, regardless of your gender, that you should on your own, be able to support at least yourself because anything could go wrong---death, loss of job, major injury, alien abduction (lol), but where your friend is going, which is a marriage, it's not that you're asking for money like an allowance, but you do share things equally or otherwise with your partner. It's a couch for both of you, lunch for both of you, the apartment/house, for both of you.
That's what I tried to tell her. and she was like your right. But she feels very uncomfortable asking for money from him.
I don't care because I never had a man in my life long enough to figure out if I do or don't.
"Wealth is great."
No it is not.
Looks like your trying to justify greed. You failed.
I dunno, I never let a woman access my bank account.
Maybe not "just" but definitely care about it. It's a deal breaker for a lot of women. Only they say things like "I need a man that will take care of me" Meaning money.
I can make my own money. That bank account won't love me.
Well, most people don't want someone with no future prospects and a lot of debt - no surprise there.
Yes. Last 2 women I dated were more concern with "Whats in my wallet" than whats in my heart.
yes, they won't date u if u dont have a good job that pays above 50k/yr.
do you think this is for all girls or just girls born wealthy / girls with solid jobs?
@abcdgg that's a good base # for girls who make 30-40k. It's gotta be a stable career too. Preferably not a truck driver or labor job.
@WaterRat Do women care of realize how hard it is for a guy to find a 1st shift job that pays above 50k/yr and isn't 6 or 7 days a wk? I've had to put out over 550 applications and still haven't been able to get one of those jobs? How do most people do it?
@WaterRat
How about for girls who make 60-100k?
I can help. PM me a resume (you can erase your name, address, etc for privacy)
@abcdgg i can do that
but i dont it will fit in on here
email me kee106039@yahoo. com
@abcdgg ok, my email is: smartman2012gz@gmail. com
Smartman12, most women probably date men who make less than 50k bc that's reality. The point is to aim higher than what a girl makes and what is average.
@abcdgg haha I wouldn't know, that's not my range. People vary of course. Women take care of men financially a lot of times, I see that often. If that's the case than the guy has to obv pull his weight in chores, kids etc. If with health problems at least be nice and emotionally supportive. Sadly some people are mentally ill and can't. It goes both ways of course.
Cunts. Cunts do, real women don't.
It doesn't matter what you say every woman to some degree or another care about a man's money. The ones who say they don't are clearly lying.
Not true. Some of us actually don't and are never lying about it. Maybe don't be so narrow-minded.
The women who do are not my gender
sounds like a dolg gidder
I do.
and it's all about money.
Who'd date a homeless person anyway.
Me. ✋😐
i personally don't care it