Some guys will feel insecure and judge that you dated an "asshole" and will not date you, also most girls date this guy for a few years in their 20s... Taking the best years away from the girl.
I beg to differ. Those werected definitely not my best years. Man or no man we learn and with time comes wisdom and no way in hell would I go back to my twenties. We are stupid at 20. ("Most" just from lack of experience) A lady told me the other day her 40's where amazing. Your confidence, sleep esteem, and it's like one day it just hits and you don't give a shit. You live for you. I'm prime meat!! What are you talking about :P
It's not easy with the world the way it is but you have to change the way you look at things. Don't let them feed you the illusion most everyone even me at times gets sucked in to. You want this certain look just so SOME girls find you attractive and want to use you for sex? Or eye candy? You have to learn to love yourself just the way you are, and that's not easy. First off who are you comparing yourself to? We are all so different with all different shapes and sizes. So if you must maybe try finding people you know you have it way better than so you will appreciate the looks you have. Then start to realize someone loves those people very much. Now stop comparing yourself to other people. True love is blind to the appearance in my opinion and attractions to appearance is lust. Is having true love with lust a bad thing no, but true love is what most all of us seek. Natural human desire.
As for confidence you know even the most beautiful and most smart have insecurities. Everyone else is no different in this than you. We all live a different life but we all have the same ending. Fake it until you make it.
YOU have to date an ahole because you hate yourself
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People pick who they date based on what they think they deserve in their subconsciousnness. So anybody that is stuck with an asshole should reaaally think about themselves.
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Some guys will feel insecure and judge that you dated an "asshole" and will not date you, also most girls date this guy for a few years in their 20s... Taking the best years away from the girl.
I beg to differ. Those werected definitely not my best years. Man or no man we learn and with time comes wisdom and no way in hell would I go back to my twenties. We are stupid at 20. ("Most" just from lack of experience) A lady told me the other day her 40's where amazing. Your confidence, sleep esteem, and it's like one day it just hits and you don't give a shit. You live for you. I'm prime meat!! What are you talking about :P
@Goodnightcharlie I Don't have any confidence or self esteem :(
It's not easy with the world the way it is but you have to change the way you look at things. Don't let them feed you the illusion most everyone even me at times gets sucked in to. You want this certain look just so SOME girls find you attractive and want to use you for sex? Or eye candy? You have to learn to love yourself just the way you are, and that's not easy. First off who are you comparing yourself to? We are all so different with all different shapes and sizes. So if you must maybe try finding people you know you have it way better than so you will appreciate the looks you have. Then start to realize someone loves those people very much. Now stop comparing yourself to other people. True love is blind to the appearance in my opinion and attractions to appearance is lust. Is having true love with lust a bad thing no, but true love is what most all of us seek. Natural human desire.
As for confidence you know even the most beautiful and most smart have insecurities. Everyone else is no different in this than you. We all live a different life but we all have the same ending. Fake it until you make it.
And remembering most people just suck
hahahaha
some good points
there are jerks everywhere even within your friends
Why you have to date an asshole? You been hurt in the past by an asshole right? And now you want other girls to make the same mistakes you did.
Now I'll be able to use this to change my techniques when I find my next victim. Thanks.
YOU have to date an ahole because you hate yourself
People pick who they date based on what they think they deserve in their subconsciousnness. So anybody that is stuck with an asshole should reaaally think about themselves.
TL;DR : She just wants the D.
Lulz.
@Chief16 interestingly, she made up 5 reasons, still didn't tell the truth :P
@YourFutureEx the truth is just too bitter for some people. If you catch my drift. :p
In a nutshell say you like to hookup with assholes.
I don't feel bad for women who date assholes as they don't know any better.
Date an asshole and shit is all you'll get.
why do you have pictures of good looking guys for this myTake?
Somebody say "excuses?"
Because this is what turns chicks on.
Pshaw. Just look in the mirror. :)
I dated plenty.. LMAO!
Kind of an odd way to get guys to date you, OP.
I wish all asshole so handsome ! O. o
$$$$ cuz he's rich
Penis not $
Mostly karmic
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