What is your name? I am a recovering #shy guy. I have missed dozens if not hundreds of opportunities to date beautiful women because of my shyness. Eventually women gave up talking to me in the real world. It was bad situation for me. I want to help women understand shy guys. I am older now and know all about sex. The female body is not a mystery to me any longer.
I was raised in an ultra religious household. I think you folks can fill in the rest on that matter. I also had an older sister that worked against me to make sure I did not date pretty girls older than me. Many older girls were interested me but I was blocked from dating by my older sister. I had zero self confidence until my Junior year of high school. By that time the damage to my self esteem was complete. There was no turning back though. I would be a recovering shy guy the rest of my life.
Girls were interested in me at a very young age, however, a woman's body was a mystery to me and my home life was real bad. I had no idea how women were physically and how much they like boys. I never could get the hint from girls or was scared that women would not like my unit if we hooked-up. By the way my unit is just fine and I should have used it early on.
(Picture from Pixabay and not of author.)
If pretty girls blatantly hit on a shy guy for several days and he does not respond it means he is not ready and you can't make him ready. Probably his home, school or work life is bad and he never was given the self-confidence needed to date girls. This makes girls angry, however, you can't change him. Let him be. Never call a shy straight guy gay. He will hate you for the rest of his life if you do. He will never forgive.
So how do you know if a shy guy is ready to date or hook-up? To start with you have to hope he has at least some self-confidence and is away from his family or co-workers that are abusive. Too much drama if he is still around a bad environment. If you know the guy lives alone and he is shy you have a very good chance of hooking up for a super wild romp if you know what to do.
If you catch a shy guy looking at you, he gives you a half smile and then nervously looks away you know he is interested. You have to do is figure out his living situation though. Do you really want to try and fix his home situation if he lives with his parents or lame roommates? You do not want that. If he lives alone or with all girls then you are in if he locks eyes, gives you a half smile and looks away nervously. If sh.y guy does that you need to pounce like the sexy kitten you are and makes the moves like he is your mouse except the eating him part. No smile from shy guy means he is still too shy to date. You are after a half smile and look away minimum. A full smile and not looking away means he is ready to go to your place right then and do it, however, you have to be the lead and walk up to him.
Now let's talk about when a shy guy stares but does not approach you. Run away from that. Staring at a woman is an insult from a shy guy unless you have already hooked-up with him. Staring is a sign of total direct and disdain of you from a shy guy. In some cultures staring is considered rude across the board. Shy guys look away when you look at us hence the name shy guys. Once you hook-up and he stares at your hot body then it is a compliment but not before.
If you can't get a shy guy too respond move on. Some guys are shy for life because of stuff that happened at school or home when they were a kid. Oh and most shy guys are total horn dogs when they are comfortable around their girl or girls. Don't try and change a shy guy. Only he himself can change. Most shy guys don't change so just go with the flow and go for the challenge of bedding a "healthy" shy guy.