The inspiration to create this mytake was from a girl I had interest in. We were texting one day and she accidentally sent me a "naughty text" and I found out that she was fucking with other dudes who all had bodies of gods. I told my friends (some the same age and some older) and they said that they are going through the same experiences as me. Why do girls like the Hollywood type body? Why should I wait until I'm jacked to get girls? These are questions that a lot of men are concerned about and today I will answer them:
Why do girls like the Hollywood-type body?
This is because Hollywood has poisoned the mind of women of this generation. Movies, like Fifty shades darker, cause women to believe that men are normally like this. They become so delusional that they start to only date guys who are of this body-type. Women care too much about what other people think of them. That's why that "nerd" from high school doesn't get the hot popular girls, because if they were to date then the popular girl would get gossiped about and it would "ruin her social life". So they want a really ripped looking guy so they can be proud of theirselves and brag to their friends about it. Now on to the next point...
Why should I wait until I'm jacked to get girls?
This can be traced back to the beginning of time. Women have always wanted a strong man who can provide. Having big muscles visually shows them that you can provide for them because you are physically fit, which means you can provide for yourself. Don't listen to the girls that say "ew, I hate big muscles, my boyfriend is skinny" because 98% of the time they are lying. Women like to cover up stuff, they never like to confront about something up front, they beat around the bush so that they don't sound like total bitches when in reality most girls are like that. Girls, however, don't like it when a guy is too big, like Arnold in his prime. If you are "too big" then that puts them off, but if you have that Hollywood-type body then you're golden. You will also have a less likely amount of chance that the girl will cheat on you. This is because guys who are jacked are the highest tier and the only reasons she would cheat on you is because of personality reasons or a guy who is facially better looking than you. If she does cheat on you with a skinny guy or a fatter guy, then you can laugh it off because you're stronger than them and you would know that you wouldn't have a hard time finding another woman (sorry skinny and fat guys I'm not trying to make fun of you, I'm skinny myself)
So in conclusion I believe if you are between the ages of 16-28 then you should follow my advice and do what I'm going to do, wait until I'm jacked to get girls, otherwise they are a waste of time. I don't know about you guys, but I sure as hell can't trust girls anymore and I'm only 18 years old. They like to mess around and cheat on their boyfriends and you can't tell the difference between the loyal ones and the ones that cheat. So, to be on the safe side, I would wait until you are jacked, so that in the event that you do get cheated on, then you will know that finding girls won't be a hard time for you.
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I disagree. If the girl you are with is only with you because of your looks, she's not worth it. Also, if she's only with you because you're jacked what's to say she won't cheat on you when she finds someone hotter than you or more muscular.
Did you and your girl have good communication? Do you guys talk when things go wrong? This is on both of you. If she wasn't feeling fulfilled, she should have talked. And if you noticed something was wrong, you should have talked.
At 18, I noticed most of the girls who the guys noticed and dated were the sluts, the ones who wanted to sleep around. They were the popular girls, the ones with the drama, the pretty ones who wanted a cute guy. Perhaps you are dating the wrong kinds of girls.
The fact that you're saying 'finding girls won't be a hard time for you', kind of makes it sound as if a girl is interchangeable for another. If your girlfriend broke up with you, even if you know you could find someone else you wouldn't just laugh it off because you cared about her and it hurts. And if you do feel that way, it's no wonder she cheated, you didn't make her feel secure in your relationship or cherished so she needed to fulfill that emotional need somewhere else. It sounds like, being cheated on hurt your pride more than it broke your heart, and this post is a reaction of ensuring your pride will stay intact in the future.
Also guys cheat too, I've had many friends come crying to me because their boyfriend cheated on them. Everything from new boyfriends to we've been going out for 6 years to we've been married with two kids and he cheated on me with my best friend.
Be more careful of the girl you date. Look deeper than the surface. You should also talk about what you guys are and aren't okay with (since some people are into open relationships, need to make sure it's clear that it's off the table). Make her feel secure, ensure her physical and emotional needs are met.
Some tough love, you're 18, get over it. Girls have been cheated on too and we cry, pick up the pieces and learn to pick out the signs so we don't date a douche again. Stop being so melodramatic. Nothing happened to you that didn't happen to millions of girls. And to all the fat/skinny guys out there, don't listen to this guy's bs (although to fat guys, exercise for your health). I have fat, skinny, and jacked friends who are in happy relationships. It's not the physical appearance that matters but the person, who you are and who she is. Good luck.
Guys and girls, don't listen to her bs. She's trying to use big words to make you guys believe her. The truth is, you have less of a chance of attracting a girl when you are fat or skinny. Ripped guys get the girls. And to answer your questions. She wasn't my girlfriend, just someone I talked to. We both were attracted to each other and she decided to flirt with my friends and fuck other dudes on the side. It had nothing to do with me, and all of those dudes are bigger than me. She didn't hurt me, she only made me realize that girls like to "mess around" as she put it. Their theory is, why not suck one dick when you can suck five dude's dicks? The only way to beat the game is if you are jacked. Of course if you broke up with your girlfriend and you're jacked, you will be hurt at first, but then you will realize that your chances of getting another girlfriend are huge.
Wait, you're pissed that this girl that you weren't even in a relationship with had sex with other guys? Boy, you need to grow up. She flirted with you and your friends, made no commitment, who she has sex with is none of your business. Flirting is not a commitment. What are you talking about trust and cheating? She didn't commit to anyone, there's no cheating and no trust being broken. She's in a phase where she's sowing her wild oats, if you're going to sow oats of course you're going to sow it with a hottie, guys do it all the time, they sow their oats with the hot girls. Does every guy and every girl feel the need to sow their wild oats, no.
Also, attacking me for being intelligent and using 'big words', hon, none of the words I used were overly complicated, but since you can't digest those 'big words' let me put it in bite sized pieces for you, grow up and stop acting like a whiny toddler. The problem is with you and not her, doesn't matter if you're jacked.
If you are flirting with someone and you two are making a strong connection, then it's wrong for her to go and fuck other dudes. This girl had me believing that she wanted to be my girlfriend. Then she went and fucked other dudes. Her last relationship she was in, she was fucking a dude on the side. She's a hoe, just like most girls. They want to go and mess around and not actually want a guy who will treat them right.
I'm not insulting your intelligence, I'm just pointing out the fact that you are using bigger words to make people believe you. And by the way, I fully understood the meaning of every word you said in your novel that you wrote back. That problem is with girls. The more jacked you are the easier it is to attract girls.
Flirting and having a strong connection is NOT a commitment. Perhaps it seems like it is one because you are young and only 18. In our modern world, even going out on a date IS NOT a commitment. You have an overly romanticized view. When is it wrong to have sex with other people, when the two of you are exclusively dating each other. Usually that's a few dates because by then you'll know if you actually want to be only with this person and even then you HAVE to ask and talk and CONFIRM. You can't just assume that after date # x that the two of you are exclusive because people have different expectations. Once again, COMMUNICATE. You have a mouth, you apparently know words, use them.
It is a commitment. It's not strong enough for you two to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but it's strong enough that you won't cheat on each other. I can comunicate as much as I want to, but that won't change the fact that girls will go and sleep with another dude if you aren't jacked.
Flirting is not commitment, it is only showing you're interested. Say you're at a bar and you flirt with a girl, this isn't saying you're committed to just her and won't talk to any other girls or flirt with any other girls. An analogy is, you're shopping for a house (since most people only purchase one house in their lifetime, seems like a reasonable analogy), you like house A but that doesn't mean you aren't going to visit house B or C or D, and maybe you like both houses A and C and talk to the realtor about the possibility of putting in a bid, and then house X goes on the market and you realize, that is the house and instead put in a bid for that house and purchase that one. Interest in something does NOT mean commitment.
you're right, but i don't think you're going to win that argument with him somehow.
@_Atreides Haha, thanks, and you're right, it's not a conversation if the other person isn't actually open to dialogue. It's really for the benefit of someone else who might read this. :)
true. unfortunately he'll be disappointed a lot if he keeps thinking flirting and having a good connection makes you as good as committed to each other.
@_Atreides Or because it's true? If you are damn near about to be in a relationship with her and she goes off and has a threesome with another dude, then you'd e hurt too. Only muscular men can keep this from happening to them because girls swoon over them.
Complete bull...
Sorry to say. But you keep working out, honey.
Please explain why it is complete bull? I'm not being mean or anything I'm just wondering why you think that way.
Reason being: the guy had no abs. It sounds stupid but it's true. If you put Jeff Seid in that same pool you best believe girls would be sworning over him.
OMG, this is so perfect, hat's off to you sir.