After I ended a 4 year relationship with my college sweetheart, I never thought that I could start over again. It was devastating to say the least. My life was full of heartache, that's why when I met Louis at a coffee shop, I put aside my inhibitions and gave him a chance.
We had 28 years difference in age, he was recently divorced with 2 girls (7 and 12 years of age), and seemed like a gentleman. He took me out for dinners, we would spend hours talking. I really thought that he was a different man than what he made himself out to be. But after 3 months I realized I was making a huge mistake.
Talking about his ex wife. At first I thought that he was venting and I could recognize the pain in his voice, but after a couple of months went by and that didn't change I started to question whether he actually was over her? He would go on about what a lousy person she is, and what she liked and didn't like, and how she made him suffer.
All of his money goes towards the children and their college fund. Louis' plans were to save money for his kids. No retirement fund or anything. After the wife cleaned him out, he was without focus- and I guess that's what happens to some people.
The children themselves never accepted me as anyone. The two girls although cute, never enjoyed my presence, and I felt like a stranger. Although I was close to Louis i would never be able to fit in or play a motherly role.
The sex was dull. He wasn't into sex like i was.
He was going through a rebound, and I was the next best thing. Towards the end I realized that maybe he was more into getting a young girl than actually anything else.
A lesson learned. Never again.