Guys Don't Play Games, Girls Just Think They Do! (Page 2)

[WhereIsMyMind]

I honestly don't see the point in these myTakes, they're so standardized. Every person is an individual and they're different, it's true a lot of young men can play games because they think you like them, they find it's an ego boost to keep messing you about and stringing you along. But from my experiences some are also sweet and genuine about their feelings.
Moral of the story: some people are assholes, others are not. So don't generalise men as if they all have the same 'guy' thoughts.

[xmark76]

Both sexes do it because its not a boy/girl thing, its a personality thing. but u either didn't include for some reason or dont know about other psychological issues that can imitate what u call 'games'. i was called a whore while i was still a virgin n never had a girlfriend. i was shy as hell, low self esteem, etc, which mimicked all sorts of bad crap. i didn't blame jenny,1st girlfriend for dumpin me. lol, or mel, stef, etc. i cared deeply for or loved each 1 but it probably looked otherwise.

[rjroy3]

While I do believe it's mostly women who play games, because it's common for women to test men they like. But there are guys that play games too. That said a lot of the times girls will read into a guys straight forward actions of having deeper meaning or being a game, because that's what she does.

[EpicDweeb]

I play games with girls all the time xD My favorites are Jenga and Balderdash =D

(sorry for being trolly... it just felt like the perfect opportunity and I'm tired with no inhibitions at the moment).

[FakeName123]

Its called psychological projection. The girls who DO play games assume all guys do as well.

[TadCurious]

I totally agree with this statement.

[HaveQuestions]

She seems to know a thing or two about game playing. Caution in where you get your info... www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a36246-what-i-learned-from-being-a-cheater

[ATuairiscean]

There is a lot of truth in this but often I find that sometimes shyness is misread as "games" - I think I will just throw in every guy is different and there are probably a few game players in both genders.

[Anonymous]

Real men do whatever the fuck they want and so do real women.
Just because some guy has been playing with your feeling doesn't mean he's not a real man. You don't get to decide who a real man is. Humans who are born with a dick and have XY chromosomes are real men.

[JustCallMeLeon]

We would also play games if our daily fb pms was full of pussy and boob pics and full of girls asking for hookups, dates or marriage. Maybe not that much but still we would and its only easier if choices number2, number 3... number 40 are waiting for you legs spread, around the corner.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Another fucking generalization

It's not about having a cunt or a dick, it's about the person's self, their character!

This is so damn annoying. I would automatically delete all these Takes and Questions related to this.

[steveguitar]

A 'real man', I hate that phrase. such a bullshit cop out. Anybody who speaks like that is not to be listened to

[Djaaay]

And you are?

[scorpioDude]

whats a fake man

[HaveQuestions]

This is when I stopped listening to her - www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a36246-what-i-learned-from-being-a-cheater

[steveguitar]

@HaveQuestions I feel like I remember that take, but I honestly don't follow too closely to remember who wrote what, and when. That post was last ear or something lol

[HaveQuestions]

I only remember because it was a series of them. One, justifying it. Two, defending it. Three, and at everybody who said it wasn't okay and everybody should be nicer because "people change." Only bring it up because source credibility matters.

[Djaaay]

Thats absolutely correct , I'm very straight forward and unforgiving sometimes. I will straight up tell you my intention , it's then up to you to take a step forward or backward quickly or... Games rob you of precious time in your life , and I don't appreciate someone taken the liberty to waist my precious time in my life. Anyhow I'm happily married...

[Djaaay]

Everything I see from males and females on this whole take , and the game playing immaturity level along with the mentality to go along with it , reminds me of K-12 at school. Sad...

[Anonymous]

Ding ding ding ding ding... we have a winner. Great take and spot on.

I will add that many women like to say men are simple as if it is an insult. The simple (pardon the pun) truth is that it's a very good thing because it means we are honest and logical. I will leave you readers to deduce what that says about women who are not simple...

[Opinion Owner]

By the way, it's nice to see you writing something positive and productive (and accurate) for a change.

[Prof_Don]

The first point is the code of my existence. Strike first before someone else does! That's why when I see a girl in passing somewhere, I'll approach, give some light banter, and get her contact info... then continue on with my day.

[Z-Spark]

men play games under one condition : if a girls starts playing games

usually if i like a girl i try talking to her more and meeting her, but when idont i message her once a while to keep her around or something

[Unit1]

Very true!
But it still doesn't mean, that the bad of us don't play those games on women. There are some, who do just about anything in order to rush into their pants and move on.

I would be happier if women were as straightforward as we are.

[Wolframium]

„Real men don't play these games” Oh, come on. Sure, games are BS, but…if some guy is different, he isn! t real man? SRSLY?
No, dirrect approach, honesty and so on, that's the best, I agree.

[AdamThomas]

They don't play games if they're genuinely interested - but many of them do play games. Women aren't much different. Basically, just don't bother with someone who seems to be playing games.

[Browneye57]

Right on.

Guys communicate overtly. Girls communicate covertly. The guys are just very nuanced, they don't read between the lines very well. If you want them to understand something clearly you have to be really direct.

[MarcoIsAFailure]

Actually, I do know some guys who play those games. Idiots tho and I guess "REAL men don't play these games" still stands true.

[fabulouspancakes]

Yeah, they do. Maybe not if they're mature and genuinely interested, but nonetheless, some guys do play games just as some girls do.