definitely fall into the too busy/too lazy category. I'm usually quite busy with uni during term but when I do have free time I just want to relax, play some video games, watch some movies or hang out with some friends. Although I do maintain a steady workout regime so I'm not exactly sedentary which is good.
Most men are single because women have super high standards that most men don't meet. Then when they hit 30, they realize they over valued their worth, and where pretty much just sex for the top males. Which makes them settle for the males they rejected before. Hopefully By this time, these males shun them and go for younger women.
@Harry_Richard Feminism is not directly mentioned as many are extrememly opinionated on it. The bad side of feminism I refered to though was both in the other article and when I mentioned the girls that want rights yet give in to people who don't and date only them. It's those feminists who are hypocritical if they really are feminists. However, many feminists actually have similar goals in mind as anti feminists. The main enemy they don't realize that is ruining things for both side are the complete assholes both man and women. Men have historically been in power and some women hurt whoever they want so they can share some. If feminism is done right, it isn't a bad thing. Modern day feminist and anti feminists completely don't get each other. Common on both sides though is this: 1. If women want to be front line, let em 2. Let them make money and work 3. Women can pay for dates too 4. Society fucks the roles up. Men fucked in court. Women fucked in pay or stereotypes. Ill add more
Wow you're ignorant cat calling is due to the fact he knows that he will get rejected. Men are single because either they are too nice or women want a dude that makes 6 figures. I'm happy being single, no sweat off my back. No more need to hear women whining about her day and having buy her gifts just to make her happy. Dating is bs. Due to social media and online dating women are getting more attention than they would get in real life. Women are too entitled, they expect men to do most of the work. I really don't give a fuck if I couldn't get a woman to date me. In fact I want to be left alone.
Bro. I think you didn't read everything and wanted an excuse to raise bullshit. I literally said 75% of what you said in a different way. Who's the ignorant one?
I hate to burst your bubble most men don't want to date women. Men aren't even dating anymore let alone wanting to get married or even having a girlfriend. Not because we're lazy or anything like that. Women are too masculine Men are done trying to fix problems. Too many men fucked over in divorce. No you did not. Come on. It's not even half of what I said. If I said everything I was thinking you would have reported me.
Exactly! Men don't want to date hence why they are single and it's ok to do that. I didn't expand on exactly what you said because I pointed the CAUSE rather than what it causes like you said. Are you for real here to just start shit? If you were to get reported because you can't be a decent human being, then that's what you'd deserve. I don't talk to people sitting behind their screen ready to unleash the wrath they build up because they can't control their anger or see other viewpoints. I respect that you at least held it in, but this is why I asked at the end for people's opinions meaning what I left out and shit. If you want a better mytake, get off your ass and write one.
Good take - I suppose you get a lot of analysis especially here with the nature of the site but I have often found the less I think about it the more successful I am with women.
sexual selection. every single woman has loads of guys to CHOOSE from. Most of them choose the best looking guys and then share them. As a result, 10% of men are fucking 90% of women, while 30% of guys stay virgins, while other get fuck trough relationships or are single. So much about sexual market.
Here in my country in general we have a theory 20% of men do 80% of women. This makes sense, they are becoming more demanding and hypergamic.
The truth is if you not be straight foward you are totally screwed. They don't care because they have Lots of guys wanting to date and have sex with them.
Some guys simply do not like committment and all the dram taht comes with dating and being in a serious relationship so they want to avoid all taht and also they want to enjoy their freedom without giving accoutns to noone.
I don't have a problem with commitment, in fact I prefer it. I have zero patience for bullshit and drama, at the first signs I consider it a red flag. Queens don't treat Kings like peasants. Rather be single and lonely than miserable in a relationship.
I'm single because I'm shy, Most women ignore men like me. Being shy is who I am, It is a part of me and I would never reject a Girl because of her confidence level wherever it's at. See how many Girls like shy Guys...
if many women want to be single why should men not want that? the catcalling creepy guys aside, men can be whatever they want. we shouldn't lable people as "single" etc... .
Thanks. Dating feminist not a man hater actually was very fun and educational. She emphasized that a lot. Funny thing is, she now tells me I didn't learn enough. *face palm* Pretty sure a shitton of guys have opposite or near opposite opinions of many things I said. So Im baffled credit isn't given where it's due. Doing and thinking the right thing though isn't always rewarded. I do it anyway.
Ya we do in some ways. But like I said, it's certain people that ruin it. If everyone with a good heart was cherry picked to live and the rest were to die, likely people would lile to date more often. That won't happen anytime soon. So it's best to avoid the damage thats a huge risk by dating or getting into the other gender.
@Harry_Richard Not true, there are men who have great luck in dating and some not so much. It's not always a losing game.. you just gotta keep playing until you win.
Dating is waste of time for me, then. Personally have had no good relationships. I've given up. Women are a waste of time, most of them don't know what they want and when it finally shows up they don't want it.
They will continue to expect men like me to listen to them when everything goes wrong in their life, however. Men like me are expected to sit and listen to her whine where have all the good men gone meanwhile she's ignored people like us our entire lives. Oh, I'm 31 and now she wants to give me a chance? Nah, I'm good, I'm not interested in giving my freedoms away to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect me.
We rather not date a thottie who everyone knows, ain't no fun in that or a girl who will cheat on us the moment she feels we are not giving her the proper "attention"
If you want me to be honest being a douche helps me get women on average being nice and respectful doesn't. I don't wanna be that way but it helps me survive
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy that's why i said on average because the average woman does seem to be that way. If I did meet a woman who I could just be nice and honest with I would but the average woman isn't like that. Also I'm not interested in long term at any point. I don't trust the modern woman of today to be in long term relationships, westerm woman have fallen pray to stupid shit and darkness
I often thought that I couldn't stand being with a girl since I figured she might take too much time, and even though I'd want to be with her at times, I'd fear her smothering me with her love.
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definitely fall into the too busy/too lazy category. I'm usually quite busy with uni during term but when I do have free time I just want to relax, play some video games, watch some movies or hang out with some friends. Although I do maintain a steady workout regime so I'm not exactly sedentary which is good.
Most men are single because women have super high standards that most men don't meet. Then when they hit 30, they realize they over valued their worth, and where pretty much just sex for the top males. Which makes them settle for the males they rejected before. Hopefully By this time, these males shun them and go for younger women.
Guys are single for 3 main reasons:
1- Confidence. Afraid to go for it. Wuss. Thinks too high or too low. Rejection.
2 - Sex. They just want to fk but avoid the drama. Fk, cum, wipe, cya next week.
3 - Inexperienced/virgin. You prefer gaming and jerking off to mrsbigtities69 videos UNLESS you have experienced an awesome fk!
You forgot feminism.
@Harry_Richard falls into number 1.
@Harry_Richard Feminism is not directly mentioned as many are extrememly opinionated on it. The bad side of feminism I refered to though was both in the other article and when I mentioned the girls that want rights yet give in to people who don't and date only them. It's those feminists who are hypocritical if they really are feminists. However, many feminists actually have similar goals in mind as anti feminists. The main enemy they don't realize that is ruining things for both side are the complete assholes both man and women. Men have historically been in power and some women hurt whoever they want so they can share some. If feminism is done right, it isn't a bad thing. Modern day feminist and anti feminists completely don't get each other. Common on both sides though is this:
1. If women want to be front line, let em
2. Let them make money and work
3. Women can pay for dates too
4. Society fucks the roles up. Men fucked in court. Women fucked in pay or stereotypes.
Ill add more
Wow you're ignorant cat calling is due to the fact he knows that he will get rejected.
Men are single because either they are too nice or women want a dude that makes 6 figures. I'm happy being single, no sweat off my back. No more need to hear women whining about her day and having buy her gifts just to make her happy.
Dating is bs. Due to social media and online dating women are getting more attention than they would get in real life.
Women are too entitled, they expect men to do most of the work.
I really don't give a fuck if I couldn't get a woman to date me. In fact I want to be left alone.
Bro. I think you didn't read everything and wanted an excuse to raise bullshit. I literally said 75% of what you said in a different way. Who's the ignorant one?
I hate to burst your bubble most men don't want to date women. Men aren't even dating anymore let alone wanting to get married or even having a girlfriend. Not because we're lazy or anything like that. Women are too masculine Men are done trying to fix problems. Too many men fucked over in divorce.
No you did not. Come on. It's not even half of what I said. If I said everything I was thinking you would have reported me.
Exactly! Men don't want to date hence why they are single and it's ok to do that. I didn't expand on exactly what you said because I pointed the CAUSE rather than what it causes like you said. Are you for real here to just start shit? If you were to get reported because you can't be a decent human being, then that's what you'd deserve. I don't talk to people sitting behind their screen ready to unleash the wrath they build up because they can't control their anger or see other viewpoints. I respect that you at least held it in, but this is why I asked at the end for people's opinions meaning what I left out and shit. If you want a better mytake, get off your ass and write one.
Good take - I suppose you get a lot of analysis especially here with the nature of the site but I have often found the less I think about it the more successful I am with women.
I think probably the biggest factor here is unatractiveness, Given how judgmental women/girls are in that regard.
sexual selection. every single woman has loads of guys to CHOOSE from. Most of them choose the best looking guys and then share them. As a result, 10% of men are fucking 90% of women, while 30% of guys stay virgins, while other get fuck trough relationships or are single. So much about sexual market.
Here in my country in general we have a theory 20% of men do 80% of women. This makes sense, they are becoming more demanding and hypergamic.
The truth is if you not be straight foward you are totally screwed. They don't care because they have Lots of guys wanting to date and have sex with them.
Womans wants a huge cock of Black Men for addicting sex, why White men has a small cock.
White mens needs training the Cock to scale.
@YBarros attractive looking guys, not cock. cock is secondary.
Some guys simply do not like committment and all the dram taht comes with dating and being in a serious relationship so they want to avoid all taht and also they want to enjoy their freedom without giving accoutns to noone.
exactly some are just lone wolfs that enjoy their freedom.
@levantine99 for me that is a current problem if the guy I like thinks like that
I don't have a problem with commitment, in fact I prefer it. I have zero patience for bullshit and drama, at the first signs I consider it a red flag. Queens don't treat Kings like peasants. Rather be single and lonely than miserable in a relationship.
I'm single because I'm shy, Most women ignore men like me.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/bioT2Z8USG0Being shy is who I am, It is a part of me and I would never reject a Girl because of her confidence level wherever it's at.
See how many Girls like shy Guys...
if many women want to be single why should men not want that? the catcalling creepy guys aside, men can be whatever they want. we shouldn't lable people as "single" etc... .
Girls aren't worth men, thats why
@pusyok12 noone is superior lets just not fool ourselves.
modern girls just care about how big guys cock is and how fat his wallet is.
Agreed?
I've never actually seen catcalling once in my life. However I have sometimes seen guys try to start conversations with women in very awkward ways.
If a guy is trying to improve his confidence and face his fears at least he is trying.
I like the "confidence without arrogance" bit. 👍
Thanks. Dating feminist not a man hater actually was very fun and educational. She emphasized that a lot. Funny thing is, she now tells me I didn't learn enough. *face palm* Pretty sure a shitton of guys have opposite or near opposite opinions of many things I said. So Im baffled credit isn't given where it's due. Doing and thinking the right thing though isn't always rewarded. I do it anyway.
#4) looking in the wrong places
Online dating is getting tiring but I'm sure it's that way for both genders
I'm single because my dick is too big and it scares women away. Why was I cursed with such a monstrous dick?
THIS.
https://i.imgur.com/nO0PtPn.jpg
Girls are pushed by education and society to turn guys down.
Otherwise they're called hoes.
Now a days, I think a lot men just want to be single. O well...
No we def do not
@anametouse I'm just going by what I'm seeing lately. A lot of men don't mind casual but not relationships.
Ya we do in some ways. But like I said, it's certain people that ruin it. If everyone with a good heart was cherry picked to live and the rest were to die, likely people would lile to date more often. That won't happen anytime soon. So it's best to avoid the damage thats a huge risk by dating or getting into the other gender.
Dating is a losing game for men.
@Harry_Richard Not true, there are men who have great luck in dating and some not so much. It's not always a losing game.. you just gotta keep playing until you win.
We're also in a time now were a lot men don't want to commit to just one person/relationship.
Dating is waste of time for me, then. Personally have had no good relationships. I've given up. Women are a waste of time, most of them don't know what they want and when it finally shows up they don't want it.
They will continue to expect men like me to listen to them when everything goes wrong in their life, however. Men like me are expected to sit and listen to her whine where have all the good men gone meanwhile she's ignored people like us our entire lives. Oh, I'm 31 and now she wants to give me a chance? Nah, I'm good, I'm not interested in giving my freedoms away to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect me.
Girls aren't worth men, thats why
We rather not date a thottie who everyone knows, ain't no fun in that or a girl who will cheat on us the moment she feels we are not giving her the proper "attention"
Uh, my reasoning is because I get lead on then rejected. Not sure about this "girls aren't worth men" shit
Modern day women are utter garbage, I'd rather spend my valuable money and time banging high class hotel hookers.
... now and again I might also do an outcall to my house and bang a call girl there lol
Confidence/lack of belief in myself is the reason i've always been single.
If you want me to be honest being a douche helps me get women on average being nice and respectful doesn't. I don't wanna be that way but it helps me survive
Being disrespectful will get you a little b**** of woman. Always be nice, respectful, confident, clean, smart and you will get a nice lady.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy 100% agreed. You get what you give.
Yep. I wrote about that like 6 or 7 months ago.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a36792-quit-with-the-stupidity-you-re-the-one-at-fault
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy that's why i said on average because the average woman does seem to be that way. If I did meet a woman who I could just be nice and honest with I would but the average woman isn't like that. Also I'm not interested in long term at any point. I don't trust the modern woman of today to be in long term relationships, westerm woman have fallen pray to stupid shit and darkness
Interesting take, I'm still single but I'm still looking
I often thought that I couldn't stand being with a girl since I figured she might take too much time, and even though I'd want to be with her at times, I'd fear her smothering me with her love.