Why The "Bad Boy" Gets More Women Than The "Nice Guy" (Page 3)

[michael45]

I didn't act like a bad boy and was nice to my girlfriend... We've been together for almost 3 years now.

[skytatoe]

The terminology is cringy to no end lol 'bad boy' hahaha

[narusasuyaoixoxo]

Nice take, dude.

Also, props on being a virgin voluntarily.

[anametouse]

I don't understand why I have to follow all these damn guidelines to date. Makes it seem like it's not at all worth it

[lilaqua]

it's not really that complicated. It's basically in a nutshell, stop being a weirdo/start acting normally, treat women like human beings and do not focus on getting into a relationship. I feel like this is kind of obvious but some people miss that.

[anametouse]

@lilaqua Nah, it's more like wait in line cause you are just an option. I already do that shit and nothing happens

[lilaqua]

Maybe you should find different girls

[anametouse]

@lilaqua No idea where to look

[lilaqua]

go outside? tinder? mutual friends? work? anything.

[anametouse]

@lilaqua Tinder lol. Yea ok. I'm sure it's easy for you but not everyone has your luck

[lilaqua]

my luck? hahaha. I don't use it personally because I'm scared of being catfished and killed on a date but some people find it helpful.

[anametouse]

@lilaqua I tried it. No one knew how to message on it. And yea I get that lol. I'm just saying as a girl it's easy for you because guys are the ones that come to you socially speaking. You have the options, I don't. So the fact that there are these "rules" to give you an edge are nothing but false hope to me

[lilaqua]

There are very similar rules for girls as well, no matter how hot she is no one want the "crazy" girl, which is basically the behaviour so many of these men are undertaking. I along with my friends have also been in the position for most of our lives in which boys were not interested in us.

[anametouse]

@lilaqua Sure, but if we were to do a side by side comparison, I have no doubt in my mind you have been more approached than I

[lilaqua]

Possibly, but again I know girls who would be in the exact position as you.

[parttimelover]

it isn't worth it. the point is to control your urges and be a normal human being outside. be yourself and someday you'll find a girl.
unfortunately not all girls want a relationship and more boys are wanting
although not all boys want a relationship either. its just that sexually, boys mature earlier. as we get older the tables turn. boys aren't desperate for relationships anymore and girls are the ones looking to start a family

[misaqi-s-fan]

I think there is only a reason.
~ Females are crazy about love (or choosing boy)😂

[parttimelover]

whut?

[misaqi-s-fan]

@parttimelover u can't understand it becus ur sex😂

[misaqi-s-fan]

Sorry😂

[Anonymous]

Everything's about getting pussy now. Instead of relationships that won't end. Now wonder there's no hope.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, didn't mean to sound one sided - "Everything's about getting pussy and cock nowadays".

[Anonymous]

I use to be too nice too... its all about boundaries

[Calix]

Nice guys are losers and bad boys aren't, that's the truth

[Anonymous]

Looks to me like they are trying to teach guys how to be little shit heads. "Don't put pussy on a pedestal." Wow. It's a shame that guys think there are only nice guys or intolerable assholes.

[Sara413]

This is so bang on dude.

[myTake Owner]

Much appreciated!

[loganj]

bad boys always get us

[Coconut_Man]

Just be yourself.
Authentic is attractive.

[Westy616]

Even if authentic is being a genuinely nice guy 😂

[Coconut_Man]

@Westy616 that's the point

[Westy616]

Yay! 👍😁

[WTFliberals]

Very Good Take !

[Anonymous]

OMG the flashbacks!