Yes, we have all kissed someone at one point in our lives. If you haven't had your first kiss, chances are you will soon.. Note that this is not an article on how to prepare yourself to kiss a girl, it is an article dedicated to all those girls you kissed and left behind, all those hearts you broke and all those things you told your friends about them.
BEFORE you kiss a girl, think about her. Like really, look into those eyes and see how much hope is filled into them. Ask yourself, do you really like this girl or are you just gonna kiss her because you're bored with life or because you haven't had any action in months or simply because you love the chase and don't believe in the game. Think about how you would feel if you had something special going on with on with that special someone and she comes up to you and says, "I think we should stop this, I've grown tired of you and body." How would you feel? Betrayed, hurt, humiliated? This is what most girls go through at almost every point in their lives.
Supposed you ignore the first paragraph and are reading one. This is an absolute must for all guys, PLEASE BE CLEAR OF YOUR INTENTIONS FROM THE BEGINNING. Most girls would love to know why the guy they like is kissing them. If you tell why you do even if its the wrong reason, she would not hate you, she would accept and be thankful to you for telling the truth. However, we hate it when guys just tell us "Can this be a one time thing?", right after they have kissed us. The worst scenario is when you lead a girl into thinking that the two of you have something special and then finally leaving her to mend her broken heart because you never cared in the first place.
Please do not lie to your friends about what you did with us, while it may be elevating your status it ruins our image.
Think of it like this, I sure no guy would like it if a girl rated their experience with them and told everyone about the things they did. Maybe for her, what you two had was intimate and private, but now you are just putting out for the whole world to see.
When she says NO, she means it. If she doesn't want to kiss you, she will be clear about it.But if you're just a jerk and think is just playing hard to get, chances are she is not. I have never heard of girl saying no to kiss a guy they liked. (First kisses might be an exception for them saying no) You should never ever force to kiss you. She will stay up all night thinking about how weak she was and how she was a coward because you didn't get the message.
I hope you get the message and seriously think about these things before doing something that might ruin another person's life.