As you may have guessed this is about the male gender. I was mentioned for the challenge what I find attractive and for me it is the male gender. Since we live in a society where things aren't as before, my standards are higher and there are certain things I seek in a man and wouldn't consider otherwise.
Now what do I mean with masculinity? Every man is masculine since they have a penis right? Big nope, a penis doesn't make someone masculine in my opinion. It's more a mindset to me than a body part. The picture bellow kinda shows what masculinity is to me. I'm not attracted to babies who think they're holding back their emotions and neither am I attracted to those who cry a lot. It's a big turn off. I've always believed men are dangerous yet aesthetically pleasing creatures. They're made in a way to handle stressful and difficult situations (look at their physique in their best form though damn). They're more leaning on anger than sadness. I'm not saying sadness doesn't exists, don't get me wrong but in my personal experience I saw guys getting earlier mad than sad in difficult situations and they were looking for solutions instead of crying it out and seeking help like the typical woman does. You may be familiar with the fact that many men refuse and don't ask help.
This one is very important to me. Who doesn't like someone who handles situations in a mature way? I avoid every immature person in my daily life because I cannot stand them. Maturity means also to me that one values deep connections and conversations more than the superficial small stuff. It takes intelligence to be mature and intelligence is the next thing I want to talk about! Also, with maturity I don't mean an older person. I'm pretty repulsed by older men. I mean guys around my age with a mature mindset.
Who doesn't like quality conversations about whatever subject? I've never understood people who love to gossip and who have those horrible conversations about fashion, celebs and shit. It's a big waste of time and one doesn't learn anything from it. Stupidity is a deal breaker. I need to be intellectually challenged.
In order to attract me, I need to feel respect towards someone. With manners I obviously mean: respectful, honesty, loyalty, etcetera. You know the full package of good things who are needed in a healthy relationship. It sounds like a nightmare to end up with someone who hasn't the slightest of what we call manners. I see people dating such people and I think they're either dumb or just like them.
I don't find a high maintenanced man attractive and that's also not what I'm referring to. I absolutely love a man who just takes care of himself (also who takes care of his body, I'll talk about appearance bellow), who dresses neat, doesn't like a trashy house, who uses you know soap and the basic stuff. A trashy dirty person is a deal breaker for sure.
6. High libido
I find it incredibly attractive when a man has a high libido yet isn't into the hook up culture and doesn't do casuals or one night stands but rather prefers to do the thing in a strong committed relationship. I have a high libido so it's smarter if that matches too.
7. Fit physique
Obesity, steroids pumped up chickens or anorexia won't attract me. Not even in the slighest. I'm attracted to fit, lean, toned, natural, muscly bodies. Abs etc are a bonus but what matters to me is that the person has a healthy weight. Muscles are just a bonus.
Every person I've found attractive so far has a chiseled jawline. It's the first thing I look at though and it could play a big role in whether I find someone attractive or not. There is just something so beautiful about it and masculine.
The second thing you might catch me looking at are hands. I don't have a fetish for male hands or anything but goddamn big angular veiny hands sure do something to my heart. I love to look at them, they're attractive.
You probably saw this one coming. I like my man tall. No, I don't mean at least above 6'0" tall. I'm pretty short and all I like is that I can look up to someone. A 10cm difference or more is alright (170cm+, I'm 160cm).
Yes, you read that right. I have an ultimate weakness for the male back just like hands. No idea why but it's really attractive in my opinion. It's more attractive than abs or else. I'm not talking about fat backs but well toned ones or even muscly.
This was my take of the challenge. I mention whoever follows me (I don't know the names sorry lmao)
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