Note that this Take is all for fun of course. It's not like I'm gonna date anyone from here or generally not looking for dating at the moment anyways.
I know I'd probably get hate for this as well, because well... it's the interent and all, but please do remember it's for fun.
Also! I decided to separate this Take into two different ones. Bad qualities, and good qualities! These are the bad ones 🙊
1. I'm clingy
I just enjoy the attention from my man and I'd want it most of the time. I cry when he isn't around but I get suddenly super happy when he is. I'll miss him even after few minutes of not being around.
2. I can be childish
Hmm, I don't really know what to say about this. I wouldn't say I'm immature at all, but I still enjoy things that are considered childish. Like having too much stuffies on my bed......
3. I'm possessive
My man is MY man. I'd want to be the only one desired and wanted by him, so sometimes I can get jealous and sad if he's enjoying other girl's company. I wanna be the only one he's enjoying with. However, I don't express it badly. I just usually get really sad about it but then when he shows he's enjoying me more, I'll be great about it lol.
4. I'm insecure
Now that's another "bad" quality of me. I'm insecure about most things. I'm trying to get better, but I still have days where I feel ugly and unwanted.
So this makes me think that my man is too good for me, and I don't understand why would anyone even want me. It's a bad quality because, I'm pretty sure at least, that guys like confidence much more.
If my man makes it clear to me that I am good enough for him, I wouldn't have much of a reason to think otherwise, but still sometimes I'd think that way. That can get me really down sometimes.
5. I'm emotional
Pretty sure anyone who has seen me on GAG, saw me getting sensitive over nothing lol... I'm a really emotional person. I can take things too seriously sometimes and it gets me hurt.
So that means, I can cry pretty often. But the good part of being so emotional, is that I can also understand someone's emotions better. (I mean, I would think so?)
6. I'm vulnerable
I'm the strongest physically lol. I'm pretty small and weak, which isn't a good quality at all. I can always change it, I guess, by working out a lot and getting more muscles, but I don't feel like doing that, so that quality is gonna have to stay for now.
Anyways, the bad part about it as that I need protection. I need my man to stand up for me and defend me when needed. And it's not always physically actually, but also when someone has an attitude towards me or being very offensive. In everyday life, I don't have the guts to stand up for myself.
7. I can be very energized
I'd consider it kind of a bad quality, because that can be really tiring sometimes lol. When I'm in a good mood, I'd want to do everything that's fun!! And my man is gonna do it all with me.
8. I need help when it comes to eating
I know it sounds really stupid at first lol, but my eating isn't that great. I need more motivation to eat, and someone to care about how much I eat a day. So if my man can notice more about my eating or generally just tell me to EAT, that'll be great 😂
9. I don't like public display of affection
It makes me feel super uncomfortable and I feel like everyone's watching. With my ex, it got me kind of stressed because he really enjoyed showing affection in public.
I just wanna do it at home or anywhere else that is empty of other people. Then I could let myself more comfortable to be even too affectionate 🙈 lol
Also, another small little note, I'm pretty sure a lot of these qualities are totally coming from having daddy issues, which is another thing that I think is a bit important to know about your partner before dating them.
Thank you for reading and have a great day! 🙂