Look, if you're in the friendzone it meams 2 things: 1. she's not attracted to you either physically or mentally. 2. You didn't show her your good side
I had sme bitch try friendzoning me TWICE and BOTH time i told her to FUCK OFF its those two simple words you literally say to her and it slso helps if you give her the finger when you say it
I have no problem showing a guy know I'm interested in him. I'm completely straightforward. When a guy is in "friendzone" with me, it's because he's putting himself in that place. He can choose to leave or stay.
Never allow yourself to be put in the friend zone in the first place. Every female you meet, if you are sexually attracted to her, let her know and make your move. If she reciprocates you get to bone her for a while, if not move on and don't look back. She is dead to you with that moment.
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not sure why all the women on here are complaining about this "playing" when playing is ALL women do. lol. The whole dating shit is a big game for them and they manipulate the hell out of guys to get what they want. What's wrong with guys playing the game back at them?
Great take. Yeah I think that the main thing that holds most guys back and lands them in the friend-zone is this lack of sexuality and fear of showing interest.
Or just skip all that and go try to meet someone who you don't need to manipulate to get them to like you in a romantic sense?
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All that reading and I can dish out the TRUTH much quicker.
1 Be attractive.
That's it.
If you are not, women will not want to be around you. Personality, charisma, confidence, any other positive trait women claim they want will do you no good at all if they don't think you're attractive enough. A woman would rather date an attractive child molester than an unattractive good guy. Any that claim otherwise are lying.
@candycanehearts Why do women like you think any accurate criticism equals sexism? Reminds me of a black student who never does any class work claiming racism when he fails that class. Money, power, various personal issues. And there are many times more unattractive 300lb women who are married than unattractive guys and you know it.
It is sexist bc ur saying all women are shallow and they only care about looks which they do NOT, obviously they matter but being attracted to someone is actually not the same as thinking someone is good looking.
You can become attracted to someone u originally thought was good looking and that isn't true about more women being married & unnatractive its just ur opinion
@candycanehearts you can go to any shopping center and just look around. And you can ask any guy about the chances of any woman even talking to an ugly man Heck, look at the polls here asking women about ugly men... sorry kid, but you're definitely in the wrong here.
Lol, ya that's exactly right. Either seduce her into more than friends by being attractive and fun, and showing your true interest. Or move on. Sticking around and pretending you're a super nice guy while she walks all over you makes no sense!
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Or... move on, because clearly you don’t value the friendship with her.
Women get a lot more out of a “friendship” with a guy than vice versa. A LOT more.
How?
I thought a friendship wasn’t one sided. If you’re there at her every wish and whim, you are her slave and you’re getting used. Not her friend.
Look, if you're in the friendzone it meams 2 things:
1. she's not attracted to you either physically or mentally.
2. You didn't show her your good side
I can escape it in one. Just don't be their friend when they reject me.
Hahahaha! Well I can sorta see the logic in that!
I think most guys in the FRIENDZONE never get to the rejected stage because they never take enough steps for her to even say "no thanks"
:D
I always get to the rejected stage and say "thanks anyway"
That's a solid man move. I like it.
I had sme bitch try friendzoning me TWICE and BOTH time i told her to FUCK OFF its those two simple words you literally say to her and it slso helps if you give her the finger when you say it
Never put up with a bitch’s shit you let her know from the start if she doesn't then tell her to fuck off amd move on fuck this friendzone nonsense
I have no problem showing a guy know I'm interested in him. I'm completely straightforward. When a guy is in "friendzone" with me, it's because he's putting himself in that place. He can choose to leave or stay.
Never allow yourself to be put in the friend zone in the first place. Every female you meet, if you are sexually attracted to her, let her know and make your move. If she reciprocates you get to bone her for a while, if not move on and don't look back. She is dead to you with that moment.
not sure why all the women on here are complaining about this "playing" when playing is ALL women do. lol. The whole dating shit is a big game for them and they manipulate the hell out of guys to get what they want. What's wrong with guys playing the game back at them?
Great take. Yeah I think that the main thing that holds most guys back and lands them in the friend-zone is this lack of sexuality and fear of showing interest.
Or just skip all that and go try to meet someone who you don't need to manipulate to get them to like you in a romantic sense?
All that reading and I can dish out the TRUTH much quicker.
1 Be attractive.
That's it.
If you are not, women will not want to be around you. Personality, charisma, confidence, any other positive trait women claim they want will do you no good at all if they don't think you're attractive enough. A woman would rather date an attractive child molester than an unattractive good guy. Any that claim otherwise are lying.
Then why r so many unnattractive guys married? And by the way its not a one-way street, there are shallow guys too stop being so sexist
@candycanehearts they're rich
@BonnieBunny not all of them but i didn't think of that one lol
@candycanehearts Why do women like you think any accurate criticism equals sexism? Reminds me of a black student who never does any class work claiming racism when he fails that class. Money, power, various personal issues. And there are many times more unattractive 300lb women who are married than unattractive guys and you know it.
It is sexist bc ur saying all women are shallow and they only care about looks which they do NOT, obviously they matter but being attracted to someone is actually not the same as thinking someone is good looking.
You can become attracted to someone u originally thought was good looking and that isn't true about more women being married & unnatractive its just ur opinion
@candycanehearts you can go to any shopping center and just look around. And you can ask any guy about the chances of any woman even talking to an ugly man Heck, look at the polls here asking women about ugly men... sorry kid, but you're definitely in the wrong here.
I guess we just disagree then lol
@candycanehearts fair enough
Can girls do this too if they are in the friendzone with a guy? Or is this only for guys who are in the friendzone?
Ha ha. We need more mytakes on female perspective too. Right?
Or just accept that she isn't attracted to you and respect the fact she has no go obligation to.
Or just accept that he doesn't want to be your friend and will not be your friend. Why should you get what you want when he doesn't get what he wants.
@AlgaeEater it's simple.
And how is she trying to force him into a friendship he doesn't want?
If he is there trying to get her to like him, after she stated she is noy interested it's his choice.
In one situation someone wants to get something the other is not willing to give.
No one is entitled to sex or a relationship just because they feel unilateral attraction.
Sum up
Step 1 : Stop being her FRIEND.
Step 4 - Start seeing other women.
That's it. You don't need the other shit.
Those who don't try, never succeed.
If you are friend zoned she obviously doesn’t like you like that so why do the most just to get rejected?
I'm using the word Friendzone here as an unexpressed purgatory where the guy has never expressed his real interest.
Obviously if she's already said "don't pursue me" then he should let go of his romantic intentions and either remain cool friends or move on.
I'm just suggesting guys start being more play and fun and HONEST instead of hiring their true intentions. :P
Okay 🤷♀️ a lot of guys don’t do that tho.
Ah yes, that's a problem. :(
i have a shorter one. it just needs one step:
1. stop being friends.
Great take, but not being a pussy in the first place really helps.
Or just kick fucking rocks and not stay there and be available to be taken advantage of !
Lol, ya that's exactly right. Either seduce her into more than friends by being attractive and fun, and showing your true interest. Or move on. Sticking around and pretending you're a super nice guy while she walks all over you makes no sense!
What loser still hangs around when he's in the friendzone? He should just move on and find someone else
Let me save everyone’s time
How to get out of the frienzone
1. be attractive
If you failed step one then you’re screwed
Only 1 step needed...
Girl: 'Aww you're so cute! we can just be friends'
Guy: 'No thanks... see ya'