1. Looks
Height:
Women want a guy that is average to above average height. Luckily for some of you, most will accept a height of 5’9” if he’s great in almost every other way.
Body:
Best way to explain the kind of male body your average girl likes is through a visual. Do NOT bulk up more than what is shown in the following image cause it’s disgusting. And notice how this guy, while in good shape, still looks so, so soft and so, so cuddly.
Face:
Of course, a strong jawline and good cheekbones are highly preferred. Many women have a slight preference for lighter eyes, however dark eyes will do just fine. We aren’t that picky! We also, ideally, want a man with dark brown/black hair. It is important that you do NOT cut your hair too short. We like a little something to grab onto just as much as men do. Also, do not get a way too fancy haircut/hairstyle. Natural is better, especially for men. One good example:
Style:
A dark style is what you should go for. This means nothing that looks like something that could’ve come from the Victoria’s Secret PINK collection. Remember, you can only go right with black in a girl’s eyes. Some other good colors are darker shades of red, blue and green. Even white can work when paired with colors like black and brown. Your clothes should fit well, meaning not too tight and not too loose. Also, it’s important that your style seems pretty effortless. Women want a man that seems to have more important things in mind, like, uh, the theory of relativity... or something. Take Albert Einstein himself as an example:
2. Personality
Demeanor:
It is important that, as a man, you take up a good amount of physical space. When you sit especially, make sure to keep your body relatively open and wide. Do NOT cross your arms too much and never, ever cross your legs (unless specifically told to do so in order to make space).
Attitude:
Do NOT smile for more than 10 seconds every hour or so. Do NOT let out more than a chuckle when you find something funny, which shouldn’t be a problem because, as men, I think it’s generally harder for you to find things amusing anyway. Don’t generally show too much emotion, whether it be positive or negative. Women want a man that can keep calm and collected (most of the time).
Facial Expressions:
The following pictures show a few facial expressions that you can’t go wrong with (if you’re good-looking and do them well).
I could go on and on, but there’s a good reason this is my first myTake - I hate writing for too long.
Anyway, this myTake fully demonstrates what I desire in a man, and may or may not always demonstrate what most women desire in a man (although I’m pretty certain it does). So, men, please try to get as close to the above description as you possibly can. The more ideal men there are to choose from, the happier women will be, and I know that you guys want nothing more than for women to be happy. 😊
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