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Who should really be paying on dates? (Page 5)
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My dad should be the one paying for the date cause I am poor and my imaginary girlfriend won't split the goddamn bill.
Simple... The person doing the inviting is the person that should be paying. I wouldn't ask someone to my house for dinner and expect them to bring the food. Maybe a good merlot or beer.
but the person agreed to it, the person inviting should not have a financial obligation to pay if you dont enjoy the date, otherwise people will just go for free food. you agrred for the person to take you out, they didn't force you.
I pay most of the time because my friends don’t have money. But if they have it they pay. It’s not a big deal unless it’s huge amount of money or really romantic dinner. Then he pays
Traditional dating sucks, it's a waste of money since lots of women use men to get a free night out.
If I ever go on a date I will pay , I don't want a woman to pay for me
Who ever invited the other person.
I'm of the old school where the guy pays !!!
You're much older anyway.
Didn't mean it in a bad away. We all prefer the culture of our own generation. When we young people will have kids in the upcoming years, they will call us old 😂
I know but it's part of dating. You ask a girl out then expect her to pay, I just don't get that !!!
It normally had to do with the fact that women also earn money now and they are also as much capable of paying for dates as men are. But yeah the one who invites should be paying.
Optimally, the date should cost me nothing, monetarily.
Nobody should, they should wait for the waiters to turn their backs then make a run for it
Fantastic Take. thank you for some common sense.
Pay for your own meal. I dont care if it's a date. She is still a stranger at the end of the day
What if it's with your girlfriend or wife? You should sometimes take your woman out as well right?
Sure no problem if you've already established a functioning relationship.
But if it's for the first couple of dates? No thanks. you're still literally having dinner with a stranger. What if it doesn't work out and you've already paid for all the dinner dates? Money wasted for nothing.
It's just dating. It's not his to think like it's a wattage if you don't make it or something.
Men should date it's a nice and kind thing to do for your date
Men should date because it's a nice thing for date?
No one
They should split the bill
I was brought up the guy pays
I would be embarrassed if made the lady I dated pay
Split it equality boi
Women spend more on getting ready for date, so they should pay less for the food then... so both spend even amount on the date. C'mon bro fight for equality!!
We do spend a lot of money getting ready for these dates! Nails, makeup, outfit, etc.
like it all adds up.
Then we have to shave, do our hair, nails, act accordingly...
All for finding ass or finding love.
The least y’all could do is drive us and pay for our meal— possibly give us good d and not lie.
I’m happy I’m not dating right now. The anxiety. Always having to spend the day getting hot as hell for these fools. Working my schedule around a dude. Like y’all never sacrifice for us.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy i can't tell if you people are joking or not you dont have to ever date if you dont want or you can date women and niether of you will pay lol
I think it depends on people who are dating
Exactly! One method that could be ideal for you and your boyfriend could be very unfair and terrible for me and my boyfriend. People have to decide by themselves and be responsible.
Whoever initiated the date should pay.
There's always someone initiating but what if the decisions are taken mutually?
The person who said it first. I know if invite someone somewhere then I pay for them because I’m the one who invited them.
The person who asks the other out.
Someone has to initiate on every date, so even if they decide mutually to go on a date?
A mutual invite means both pay.
The reason the person who invites the other out for dinner is because the other may be low on funds in that moment in time so it avoids a polite refusal for a date or any embarrassment regarding money.
Both should pay or at least contribute
fucking 50/50 thats all
Not always ideal as I mentioned on my take...