To all those women that are never approached by men: Do you think we are the problem? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Yes. I do have guys flirt with me pretty often so can't relate but I wish I could. I HATE humans and I hate People who flirt leave me alone. I just wanna be in a dark room alone.

But a lot of People are shallow so can be that and also you can always improve yourself. You gotta give to get.

[AynonOMouse]

You could try approaching a guy that you like instead of expecting the man to always be the one to do it.

[myTake Owner]

But why do other women get all the attention and I’m always avoided and alone? That’s my issue.

[Q-tipBoy]

Try to create cheerful atmosphere around you and make yourself get noticed.

[AynonOMouse]

It may be that the kind of guys that are interested in you also happen to be the kind of guys that don't normally approach anyone. So there may have been multiple guys that liked you, but they were hoping you would have initiated something with them instead. They may be shy or something like you.

[nameuser1]

I'm gonna tell ya as a man there's a lot of very attractive ladies I could have approached and didn't a lot of it is self doubt and that she's to good for me thing or outta my league now that I'm older I speak to everybody it's probably not you it's guys trying to figure out themselves and being just as self conscious as anybody else idgaf what they say

[Anonymous]

"And to those men that avoid the invisible women, you all are the issue and I hope you enjoy being single or date a women that makes your life miserable."

Now that ^^ is funny!

Rather than blaming men for your own failure and unwillingness to actually DO anything about your problems, why not let go of your ridiculous bitterness and actually try approaching guys and not sitting on your hands like some incapable little child who can't do anything for herself?

[Number39]

A lot of males assume that looks matters (Yes it does in dating) so most men hardly approach these days out of fears of rejection and the radical feminism as well.

[Despite]

Depends on where you're looking for guys or vice versa. But no I don't women think women are THE problem.

[myTake Owner]

Oh I know they’re not lol

[Despite]

I was never really approached much by females in high school or college either (so join the club of guys), like actually approached though. But oh boy if she did approach or even if a woman does now then watch out - babe alert. But she has to be a kind, considerate, and gentle girl generally for me to take a liking to her advances. Girls can be inconsiderate when approaching guys (much like guys can) but many times her being inconsiderate is cute even. It's cute regardless because I respect her power to tell me things so that we can both move along together or not together. I feel like some guys are not as used to being receptive towards a woman's approach like women do when a guy that they like approaches them. Overall, pls approach and tell your friends.

[mistixs]

Yes because it's impossible for a man to approach me if I never leave the house

[Amitooo]

Hmmm... True... for some extent

[DovaahKitty]

No one is to blame but sometimes women should do the approaching.

[myTake Owner]

Are you sure no ones to blame?

[DovaahKitty]

Yea no one is. If you aren't getting approached then do the approaching.

[MoneyBeets]

there's an epidemic of weak beta males and radical feminists.

Men need to act like men.

There's problems with feminist women but who would date those losers?

[Anonymous]

I never get approached by men either. I really don't know if I am the problem or not. Sometimes, I know I don't look presentable. But even when I do wear makeup and dress up a little, I still don't really get approached.

[Kiran_Yagami]

It's not just about looks. It's about being approachable. Do you come off as someone people want to be around? Do you project a personality that makes people feel comfortable? Looks are only half the battle.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Obviously you have to either learn to approach or pick from what you got.

[Anonymous]

I never approach a woman because if they don't like me then I will end up sharing my personal feelings to someone who doesn't like me.

I don't want people to know about it.

And because it will cause further embarrassment that I don't like.

[Opinion Owner]

And because I think it's not my age to be with someone.

[intjgamer]

These days it's better if the woman approaches the man. Men rarely reject a woman's advances. So go and try it out. If he is a real man he will be polite and at least talk to you for a while.

[nojokecarmichael]

It might be your body language. Use open body language that says your approachable

[Sweatyotterr]

Times are changing women should approach men more often

[Gedaria]

You can be part of the problem. Making your self as if you don't want to be approached.. And guys too frightened to say hello...

[brittslitt]

I dont want to be approached unless he's hot, has a career and fat wallet. No I'm not the problem I have standards as I should

[LongKock]

You have self esteem issues. Who cares what these Beta Males say? Love your life. Look at my profile pic. Do you think I give a fuck what others think about me? No! I am the Captain of my ship.

[marcult]

I would describe myself as very Intelligent, patients, loyal , kind , love , compassion , passionate , understanding, sincerely , honest and I have big heart.. am easy going man with sense of honor, creative, and humorous