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Trying to kiss me or have sex on the 1st date dramatically decreases your chances of getting a 2nd date
He said that you have to ask.
It depends on the guy. If he's tall, confident and handsome we all know what's going to happen but if he's a average, nice guy he will never get sex :D
@Mamamialetmego Not true. I got sex. I waited 6 months (my choice), but I got it. She was a virgin, but I don't think that matters since we're still dating. I am not tall 5'4", or particularly handsome. I would score me at a soft 5. Once I actually ask a girl out Ism fairly confident with her, but nervous up until she agrees to go out with me.
@Mamamialetmego it doesn't depend on the guy for me. Intimacy on the 1st date is just too soon
@Twalli it would probably still decrease their chances
Just asking if they can kiss you, if the date was really good?
@Twalli I wouldn't say no to a 2nd date because of that alone, but in my mind it's a red flag and I would be cautious moving forward. We don't even know each other and you're trying to kiss me, that's a big no in my book. It makes me question your intentions
The guy probably finds you hot and really enjoyed your date.
@Twalli well yeah, we're on a date, I would assume there's some kind of interest there but it's the 1st date. It pretty much tells me that they put their mouth on anyone.
Would it be different if you were friends first?
@Twalli I don't know
@Twalli maybe not
Jus remember to use a condom better safe than sorry if u know what I mean there's worst things that STDs my friend😁😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks a lot! Good Point! Thats why I have chosen to do more self pleasure and unfortunately become more gentlemanly. You know.. actually get to know chics. Its just too easy to have sex with anyone.
Sure why not you're on a date getting know each other more some people go by how good you are in bed so on the first date if you think things are going well with you you and your guy or girl you're with next step find out if you two are sexually attracted to each other if so might as well start a relationship
You do you. I NEVER do either on a first date and get a second date over 90% of the time that I want one.
Thats cool. Well done!
Dating is about getting to know each other. Unless you establish it upfront don't expect to get laid on the first date.
You can do both. The article is not about expectation. Its about asking consent. Just asking increases the possibility of a 2nd date. Just say, "Want to come to my place for a drink?"
I think there is more to your statistical analysis than you are aware.
Enlighten me.
wow you have every stat except if tommie lived 1.5 miles from the train depot and Billie lived 1mile away but was now legged dam homie questioning 14 of those dates cause with all the percentages and numbers your ass ain't got the time for ur self let alone woman who would stay long enough to be a stat step back and take urself out and evaluate urself you might not want a second date with u
I think I had a stroke while trying to read that.
I am not sure I understand what you wrote. But thanks for reading and for the reply.
I donāt think there are any hard and fast rules that apply 10% of the time it all depends on the relationship and the people
if you dont have sex on first date how do you know if you like her as whole? but women are slightly used this era be careful little brother
YOu make a good point. Thats why my best relationships were when I had sex right away. Because at that point the relationship really starts. YOu have sex out of the way and so if you keep hanging out its because you actually enjoy one another non sexually.
In other words. We are most honest after sex than before sex.
COMPLETELY agree.
men are always right
The bigger the dick
The better the chick
Nothing less nothing more
Who told you about my size? Haha
Thats not anything new everyone knows that the better looking a guy is the better chances he has
And the bigger the D is the better the sex is like come on
You dont have to be a genius to know that two š°
True. But wallet size is king
If you are looking for hoes for one night yea i agree
Completely agree. This is spot on.
In my experience waiting is only a slowly dwindling fire. It fizzels or she finds someone else.
I will get back to you shortly to see how waiting has played out for me recently with one girl I have been talking too. Think it backfired this weekend but won't be sure until next week.
No, I totally disagree, it's not a race. The idea is to get to know each other. Not a quick way to sex...
Nothing above says dont get to know them
I suppose it's OK to try. Just don't be pushy about it.
Just ask for consent. Thats all. I never thought asking for consent was so controversial. Lol
I believe consent is implied more than given after being asked. I don't believe men very often ask, "May if fuck you?" because the success rate would be rather low. Instead they start with a touch and proceeds further and further if the woman's responses are favorable.
Haha. THats actually a good point. When you are making out with a check and she is taking off your clothes and pulling down your boxers? haha.. yeah..
Typically when i have have sex on the first date I don't plan to have a second one lol
That's a toss up for me a kiss of course as long as it feels right, sex if the vibe is right and if your not looking for something serious, serious relationships should take things slowly other wise they always will find it in a downward spiral and ending badly
Nope! Any man who makes those moves on me, shall get dumped and will never get a second date.
I dont want anymore women who fuck on the first date. I've been there too many times and at this point 99% of them were NOT wife material. I've even had girls not see me on a second date because I dont want sex the first night (ironic huh?) and later on I hear they have a history of cheating and other bullshit.
I get the kissing, but sex for me will have to wait. I don't care if we do oral mutual masturbation or really anything that doesn't involve penetration below the waist. I will wait at least 3 months before sex. Sex needs to be forca reason, and I don't think you really know the person before 90 days. If you love them, then, by all means, have sex, otherwise keep it away from those two holes.
Is it just me what thinks you should wait a while and keep each other wanting more? Like work out if there chemistry or if you have mutual interests? What's point in jumping straight into bed with someone you've just met? That's like having your dessert before the starter. Yeah its obviously fun but shouldn't you get to know them abit at least. Lads who can't wait a while for it are obviously only out for one thing
Nope, not sex. Kiss? Maybe. But only if the vibe is strong and substantiated with evidence. Not gonna force what isn't there. That only leads to ugly things happening next.