Maybe you WANT women to think of having sex. I don't. And I'll kick any guy to the curb if he gets fresh with me! Guys usually don't respect women who give it up too soon, anyway. Nobody wants to be used and abused.
lol... yea.. once upon a time. Now after the destruction of that dating way and rules... its actually the opposite. Im not surprised you dont know that... after all... its your gender that destroyed the very same thing you are talking about.
That is correct. The one girl I know who is waiting until marriage.. oops. actually there are two girls who are waiting until marriage that I know. One girl is 30 and single and not married. The other girl is 31 and single and not married. Both have never had sex. One of them came close but that was me. haha
This is retarded because if you look at successful marriages i guarantee a large amount did not start with sex on the first date. Are you dating to fuck or to find the one? That is the question.
There is nothing sinful or wrong about sex. There are many Christians that have sex on the first date. There is nothing wrong with that. I dont believe in slut shaming.
Actually there is something wrong for Christians. Technically speaking, if you have sex before marriage you are going to hell.
It is a sin that can't be taken back. Unless you possibly repent and never have sex again until actual marriage, basically taking an oath of celibacy in the meantime.
Because if you wait and play slow they will think you are nice, timid guy but if you act more aggressively they will think you are confident guy and that's sexy. Women desire aggressive men sexually. If you don't act you can't get.
Well if your inferring we women look into men’s pockets to look upon how large those said pockets are you may be correct. Cause I don’t know about any other girls but I don’t get to experience large pockets on any of my clothing if there are pockets at all. However I get the hint that your are not inferring to actual pockets, more like money you find inside. Which I would like to point out women cannot be just categorized into hoes or money grabbers. Personally I prefer paying for my self with everything. I don’t like to feel like I owe anyone anything, I prefer things to be equal and fair. (Seriously though, why do you guys get pockets on everything, us chicks over here got stuff to carry too lol)
Also you can’t apply your experience onto other men because for others it does not work. On top of that, not all women are similar to the women you dated.
You are correct. This is not a scientific statistical sample. This is GAG. People get advice from regular people based on experiences. Its not a phd dissertation. So yes, you are right.
I don't think there should be any time line for these kind of things, it should come naturally and organically, like when you both feel the time is right, just my opinion though.
It is funny that you call me a slut. I am not offended by what you say. It just amuses me because I never lost my virginity until 27 years old. For much of my life I was the nerdy guy who was in the friendzone. Now I am being called a slut. I think if I told that to my 18 year old self I would be flattered. I used to wonder if I would ever have sex.
The modern times where women are free individuals and not forced to Marry someone they aren't attracted to because they can't work and support themselves. God forbid they can choose what to do with their lives, things were better when they were oppressed and couldnt choose or vote or work (sarcasm)
Ypur story is pretty cool man. The only thing that sucks about it is missing out on the body of 18-24 year old girls. I'm assuming you're doing the 28-32 age range.
That's a real bummer. I think girls reach their prime between 20-22. 23-24 is coasting/plateau. 25+ starts the decline.
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Maybe you WANT women to think of having sex. I don't. And I'll kick any guy to the curb if he gets fresh with me!
Guys usually don't respect women who give it up too soon, anyway. Nobody wants to be used and abused.
lol... yea.. once upon a time. Now after the destruction of that dating way and rules... its actually the opposite. Im not surprised you dont know that... after all... its your gender that destroyed the very same thing you are talking about.
This is good info and I wholeheartedly agree. If I don't get sex or a BJ on a first date, there likely won't be a second.
Orrrr you could wait until marriage.
Amen at least someone who respects our lord
That is correct. The one girl I know who is waiting until marriage.. oops. actually there are two girls who are waiting until marriage that I know. One girl is 30 and single and not married. The other girl is 31 and single and not married. Both have never had sex. One of them came close but that was me. haha
This is retarded because if you look at successful marriages i guarantee a large amount did not start with sex on the first date. Are you dating to fuck or to find the one? That is the question.
Ur advice is great if u dont believe in a higher power and dont give a fk about anything but pleasure
There is nothing sinful or wrong about sex. There are many Christians that have sex on the first date. There is nothing wrong with that. I dont believe in slut shaming.
Three words
Fake. Ass. Christians.
I do slut shame and back when society generally did, kids had stable families
It is true that in the old days there were more stable families.
Yes lets opress and control women so they can't act freely
Good shit
Actually there is something wrong for Christians. Technically speaking, if you have sex before marriage you are going to hell.
It is a sin that can't be taken back. Unless you possibly repent and never have sex again until actual marriage, basically taking an oath of celibacy in the meantime.
It's the very reason I do jot support Christianity.
I disagree. I'm not looking for that type of woman.
Because if you wait and play slow they will think you are nice, timid guy but if you act more aggressively they will think you are confident guy and that's sexy. Women desire aggressive men sexually. If you don't act you can't get.
This is true if dating hos but dating other women they look into your pockeys only..
This is true of all women bro. Try it. And you are correct.. relationship wise its all pockets.
Well if your inferring we women look into men’s pockets to look upon how large those said pockets are you may be correct. Cause I don’t know about any other girls but I don’t get to experience large pockets on any of my clothing if there are pockets at all. However I get the hint that your are not inferring to actual pockets, more like money you find inside. Which I would like to point out women cannot be just categorized into hoes or money grabbers. Personally I prefer paying for my self with everything. I don’t like to feel like I owe anyone anything, I prefer things to be equal and fair. (Seriously though, why do you guys get pockets on everything, us chicks over here got stuff to carry too lol)
@ktaillieu its not about large pockets. Its just elevation of current status. Does that make sense?
No. Not interested.
Also you can’t apply your experience onto other men because for others it does not work. On top of that, not all women are similar to the women you dated.
Your reasoning is flawed.
Ask 10 guys how their relationship started. I promise 7 out of 10 will say a kiss or something happened in the first two dates.
I can ask 20. That’s not enough of a sample to project onto the larger population.
You are correct. This is not a scientific statistical sample. This is GAG. People get advice from regular people based on experiences. Its not a phd dissertation. So yes, you are right.
Where are these stats from what source because that’s a damn lie.
I think it's his own personal experience.
I know that’s why I probably didn’t get a response
Haha all good.
There must be something with the type of women you attract.
I don't think there should be any time line for these kind of things, it should come naturally and organically, like when you both feel the time is right, just my opinion though.
NO and because I have to write more because I can't submit without more I'll say it again. NO
Lol, somthing says your a walking advertisement for valtrex.
A short peck of a kiss? Maybe. Anything more than that should wait, including sex after marriage.
Good on you.
It was an interesting read.
There's nothing wrong.
It's all an experience.
I hope one you find your other half.
Welcome to the "ladies" of modern times.
This was written by a man.
It takes two to tango.
@SydneySentinel Yes, he is obviously a slut as well.
@SydneySentinel That is actually a good point. I think in our life today we are all hypersexual because it is so accessible.
It is funny that you call me a slut. I am not offended by what you say. It just amuses me because I never lost my virginity until 27 years old. For much of my life I was the nerdy guy who was in the friendzone. Now I am being called a slut. I think if I told that to my 18 year old self I would be flattered. I used to wonder if I would ever have sex.
The modern times where women are free individuals and not forced to Marry someone they aren't attracted to because they can't work and support themselves. God forbid they can choose what to do with their lives, things were better when they were oppressed and couldnt choose or vote or work (sarcasm)
Ypur story is pretty cool man. The only thing that sucks about it is missing out on the body of 18-24 year old girls. I'm assuming you're doing the 28-32 age range.
That's a real bummer. I think girls reach their prime between 20-22. 23-24 is coasting/plateau. 25+ starts the decline.
Not if you are looking for marriage and if you value Christian women.
as always, the burden of making a move first normally falls on the guys shoulders
This is very interesting.