Many of you have experienced it. You try to set a definite date with a lady with a day and an exact time to meet. Her response is, "Sure, I probably can make it."
Or the following scenario:
Guy: Where do you want to eat?
Girl: I don't know
Guy: Okay, lets go to this new bar I heard about
Girl: I don't feel like going to that new bar. Let's go somewhere else.
Girl: I don't know.
Or the other example is its 30 minutes before your date and she calls saying, "Hey, I can't make it to your place tonight. But you can stop by my place."
Listen guys. Do not fall into this trap. Assert your masculine dominance here. She is testing you to see what type of boyfriend you are going to be. Will you be her rock or a pushover?
A woman has respect and intense attraction to a man who's word is his bond. He means what he says. His actions are congruent with his words.
Ladies are going to hate me when I say this but it is true. Standing your ground when women do this elevates your value. You are no longer some weak puppy dog waiting all day by the phone with NO LIFE. You instead are a busy and accomplished man with maybe even other lady options too. She must respect your time.
Say to her, "Let's try out this place for a drink or two and see how we like it."
Or, "You know what, I am good. I just don't feel like going out tonight. You said you would stop by my place. If you still want to come that is cool. Otherwise, you are beautiful and its good to hear from you. I hope you have a good night."
SHE WILL GET PISSED OFF. This is because guys put her on a pedestal and don't talk to her like that. But deep down she will sense the strength of your character and she is going to find it sexy as fuck. She will either go along with your plan anyway or treat you better later on.
I dont know if women change plans on purpose. I think some do. I think other women do this based on biological instinct to find the strongest value man.
Do not be the doormat, be the PRIZE gentlemen!