Why you should never date the "nice guy" (Page 2)
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Pretty funny how nice something is misused.
That you mix together thing's that doesn't need to have to do with each other. (more common they don't have to do with each other)
1. If someone gets boring it's more like you are making that person boring. an other thing is that you are a mismatch and wasn't really interested or attracted to that person to begin with.
An other thing is that you have a certain kind of expectation how someone should be that doesn't correlate with reality (probably to much vivid expectations or attitude) .
I could go on with the other one's too.
See no point in it since people that usually writes thing's like this mytake has a lot of mental issues going on and blames others to hide their issues. also narrow minded and closed to learn to understand.
It’s a silly piece of writing
Some of the comments here are funny.. There is a vast difference between the "Nice Guy" and the "good guy". The ones you really want to avoid are the ones that constantly complain about being a nice guy that never finds anyone.. Desperation stinks as does insecurity. Same goes for the women that bitch about not being able to find a good man.. It is their fault they choose wrong.
This thread has kept me entertained no end
Well, damn. You seem to be describing a sociopath. You also make very extreme assumptions. E. g #1 about "not knowing who he is" - maybe he does, but is in a situation that is new to him. I can relate considering when I was 20ish.
#2 is a bit weird, to me at least. If there was no relationship to start with, what kind of ptsd are we even talking about? :D
This is just another "I dated a loser who I didn't really like" post.
Seriously. How many women can honestly say that they are actually interesting or give good gifts or don't get jealous?
These posts are tiresome. They come up every couple weeks from women who seem to think calling a man who just wasn't on their level a "nice guy". The truth is you'll never find a perfect guy. Every man has some flaws or things you won't like. Some men don't want you texting your 13 ex boyfriends. Some men don't think sharing their feelings with you is smart. Some men give bad gifts because they think asking you what you want will kill the surprise. Some men take break ups hard because some men don't have support systems (I sure as hell didn't from the age of 2 to 19).
Okay, this is very true and it is descriptive of the beta male types. I can understand why women are repulsed by them. They reek of desperation and the willingness to be a door mat for so called acceptance. How do I know this? I was one of those a long time ago. Had to go around the block a few times and let my balls drop. Here is the deal. Life is trial and error. People need to first of all become comfortable in their own skin. This means all that sickening desperation of a p*ssy whipped puppy needs to go away. Man up! Don't be afraid to stand alone for a while. Do you. Get your own program going. The right people will gravitate towards you. There is no reason to senselessly pursue anybody, period.
Not all nice guys are like that.. I believe im dating one.. he's definitely not boring and he's got many hobbies he enjoys.. We didn't know each other long before he asked me out... he took time to figure out what I like.. dont plan on leaving him.. he's allowed to come into the bathroom with me.. none of us have kids.. maybe I have an exception to the rules :P
myTake is your opinion and your opinion alone.
For the girls who read this, make your own mind up, form your own opinions by living life how you want to live it, make your own decisions and learn from them, that's the beauty of life, it's a game with no freaking manual and you only get one shot at it.
Live it, love it and don't have any regrets for the decisions you make. What works for one doesn't work all, we may all be the same species but we're all so very different.
I remember I used to be the "nice guy", or more specifically, that was the only way I dared to act around girls. Then, for some unexplainable reason, I managed to get a girlfriend and even though the relationship didn't last very long, it made me a lot more comfortable around women.
There are genuine nice guys. Not the creepy kind you describe. You do realise these are like 1% right? I’ve noticed women like to assume an actual nice dude is going to be like this. It’s the weirdos giving the rest a bad name.
It's the middle eastern and other terrorists ruining what is good i the west by always attacking the kindness
I was the nice guy when I was younger. Unless a woman was stupid enough to get beaten, preggified, or dumped by the bad guy. Then I wasn't so nice. Just laughed in their faces. Sorry I just found their stupidity amusing. Like that reporter in Denver who hugged the street dog and got her face bitten off. Duh! I never chased after the woman who needed bad boys. Pain in the ass idiots. There are plenty of smart women out there who aren't into that game.
Does a nice guy laugh in people’s faces? 🤔
As I mentioned I was the nice guy that you described above. But after years of seeing my female buddies go after the same guys who would beat them, hurt them I just got tired of having a wet shoulder all the time. That's not what I wanted in my life. Now I have no tolerance for that. Too many wonderful, smart, fascinating women out there to get to know !😊
That’s when you chuckle to yourself though. I always say there’s no need in wasting energy laughing at people karma or stupid life choices. We all make dumb choices whether that be in your career or love or whatever else. It’s life it’s the way we learn. We are all on our own paths and life’s too short to be smug when others fall
Good point! 👍 😎
Girls need to understand that there are nice people that happen to be guys. Find a nice person and you'll be fine. "Nice guys" aren't nice, "hot girls" aren't hot. Find a person who is what you like and if their gender is not you preference, then you got a friend.
It sounds like you always knew something was off but couldn't place it. Now it all makes sense, but then again, it doesn't.
You just discribed a full blown Narcissist. I think this guy is most likely a sociopath.
Google how to spot a sociopath and in a relationship. If you feel like you could have wrote what your reading. Run
true in every word!
Supposably or self-proclaimed "nice guys", spend so much time chasing women, crying about women, being depressed about women. The worst part about it is that these nice guys ( or girls for that matter) always have some preoccupied moral high ground in everything.
Have a healthy life within you. Dating is just one aspect of life, not many people do good in this, same as not many people do good in careers or something else.
One true thing I was once told and which I still live by is "if you can't love yourself, why would anyone else love you?"
In assuming that your talking about fake nice guy that think if they are nice to u they deserve your affection and I agree those types of guy are awful. But authentic nice guys who give gifts hold doors dont aspect anything except a thank you. im personally like this I have away money to a girl because she was short o did not expect anything in return, if bought gift to cherry up both guy and girl just because I can and iv took shifts so a coworker could be with their family and I don't expect anything. In fact if I do get something it's a thank you so before you start file all athuntic nice with secret motive nice guy just realise not all are like that. And being nice Is a normal human trait. This is why guy give up on dating because of people like you.
What a total load of crap from a feminist trying to justify being attracted to bad boys. All these stereotypes have nothing to do with being nice, Being a nice guy has noting to do with being insecure, in fact many bad boys use their aggression/toughness to mask their insecurities.
It depends on what kind of nice guy. If it's the kind of nice guy who is actually a jerk and is featured on r/niceguys, then no, stay away. If it's a guy who's actually nice, then go ahead.
Enjoy the sociopathic and occasionally psychotic bad boys who will abuse you and/or pump and dump.
You deserve each other.
The men who wanted someone to love are moving on. Every day, more walk away.
By that logic dating a nice girl is also bad
1. boring
2. frustrated over old boyfriend
3. always jealous
4. Same shit u wrote
Something u forgot to write about nice people
1. Faithful
2. Never betray u r emotions
3. Will always try to keep u happy
4. Will do anything for his babe
Just because one guy seemed nice and was a manipulator doesn't mean all nice guys are like that. Plus never steroe type a persons personality many times steroe types can go wrong
Women like what they can’t have. They ride the carousel and monkey branch to whatever is available that they shouldn’t go after and avoid what they should. Women have never valued good men. Even on dating apps they just swipe for whoever because they are in a relationship and need reaffirmation that they are still attractive enough because they actively seek excuses to cheat. If they receive likes from men they think are attractive they aren’t depressed anymore.
You've got us nailed! lmao