Someone Liking You Isn’t Always A Good Thing (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

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I agree reasonable care for eachother is fine but obsession in long run is not a good sign

[NathanDavis]

and then, there's those liking you too much... stalkers

[Anonymous]

As for my experience of someone really liking me he turned out to be very abusive and controling and didn't let me wear tight cloths or makeup or speak to other people and he was very possessive.

[AdithyaR]

That's good advice.
Fortunately I'm safe from that. Ain't nobody gonna like me 🤣

[ManOnFire]

There's somebody out there for ya, bro. It'll happen.

[AdithyaR]

Thanks for the support but i gave up on that a long time ago. It's better this way

[Heolurt]

Might not always be a good thing but it's always better to have someone want you than to have no one ever even like you.

[ManOnFire]

Think about this: it's better to have your peace of mind even in being alone, than to have your whole world shattered after you meet somebody who supposedly wanted you - or at least they did at first - and then used and discarded you or fucked up your psychology all together from what they did.

[nspencer]

@ManOnFire that is so true unfortunately I learned that the hard way. I’m gradually getting better but damn is a long and painful healing process. I will say though you learn how to be content on your own, which is always a good thing cause the only person you can truly 100% count on is you.

[Heolurt]

@ManOnFire @nspencer but those are now things you've got experience with. I've never had anyone like me for either good or bad reasons, I've just always been alone and rejected and I had to learn early on to be content and comfortable with being alone. I've gotten too comfortable that if some beautiful female told me she liked me and wanted to date me wether her intentions are good or not, I'm not sure I'd be able to believe her or even say yes, despite always wanting to be a husband and father someday. I wish I knew what it felt like to be wanted even if for the wrong reasons.

[ManOnFire]

@Heolurt I will tell you this, man: being wanted for the wrong reasons hurts like hell. And I've been through it. Once you experience it you literally will wish you never even connected with that woman.

Life is different for everybody. I can't tell you if you'll ever meet somebody who likes you or not, but you never give up hope. You gotta put more focus into improving areas in yourself that need it, and less on why women aren’t liking you. You become more attractive when you're working on You and carrying that confidence, even of you aren't the greatest looking person in the world.

[nspencer]

@ManOnFire so true! Confidence is one of the biggest factors of what makes someone attractive.

[ManOnFire]

@nspencer Always. Hell, I've met girls in the past who weren't that good-looking yet they had a confidence that made you want to fuck them lol.

[Heolurt]

See everyone tells me that lie that it's all about confidence, I had confidence once upon a time despite everyone from my own mother to randoms calling me ugly, confidence did nothing for me, working out also does nothing for me the only reason I do it is because I can't allow myself to be ugly and fat I just can't.

That entire confidence rule is for guys who are already good looking to a degree.

I have yet to meet another person who knows what it's like to be at the gym get approached by a girl from behind only to turn around see a look of utter disgust and disappointment when you turn around and they see your face. It hurts a lot so much so I had to start working out around mirrors or using equipment where my back is towards a wall.

Confidence doesn't work for a guy who is so ugly randoms need to mention it and every female just rejects them.

Trust me I've dealt with this shit my entire life, confidence only helps if you're somewhat attractive, and not looking like some creepy creature.

[PinkRose24]

Lol I wouldn't buy a guy crap and sure as heck wouldn't have sex with him.

[Jltakk]

I'd like it just to have experienced it once in my life.

[strateguy632]

that happens all the time! yes.

[Explorer91]

Spot on

[PainusNdeeAnus]

We get it🙄 you are bad with women.

[Anonymous]

Interesting but luckily nobody is interested in me