I mean that everything you've said was the typical counter productive advice that women give. Because they're more concerned with maintaining their elevated status than actually actually helping anyone. Men, when was the last time a women helped you do ANYTHING?
No, I don't and I don't know how many times I have to say that. And, there's nothing wrong with my spelling or punctuation. I re read what a write like 100 times, so I don't make any mistakes. Guess I can't be as perfect as you are, huh?
You keep having to say it because that is the impression you've given with what you wrote here. In some cases you suggest anything other than your view is wrong. Some people will date just for the sex! So long as both parties are in agreement, who are you to say it's wrong? With the Alpha/Beta thing, you dismiss it as being stupid while admitting you are totally ignorant as to what it even is! How can we take your opinion seriously?
You need someone else to proofread for you. This is always a good idea: a second set of eyes will pick up on stuff that you likely won't. Since you've been looking at your piece for so long, you won't spot mistakes as readily as someone coming into it fresh.
I don't care what people do, if people choose to twist what I say then so be it. But, I didn't say any of that.
Do you have people proof read what you write on here? I really wish I could be as perfect as everybody else on here, but I guess God didn't bless me with perfection.
You are not displaying many qualities befitting the title, to be honest. When you put something up on this site, you are inviting feedback and not all of it will be positive. You will see this on sites up to and including the New York Times, and responding angrily or defensively is not the way to do it.
You have some good points, although I don't agree with every point you made. But to each their own =]
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I agree with most of your points, however being physically attracted to you SO is important, and that means that race, height, and other physical characteristics are all going to be considered
strip away all those things you mentioned, and you have a person who has next to no preferences. People just aren't like this. These things are likely here to stay in the dating world for quite some time
lol I understand where you are coming from, but it starts to get irrational when you explain factors that you shouldn't base your dates on such as going to the gym, playing video games.. To me that is a preference and it should be enhanced in order to distinguish different people and the type of guy you are going to date. The two people should be compatible, I agree maybe height and race should not be judged but everything else defined your personality. Maybe if a guy had childish bedsheets, I might overlook it, if they have the qualities I prefer, but if they act childish 24/7 then he may not be the guy for me.
I think you misunderstood that sentence, I meant it's wrong to not want to date some because they play video games or because they choose not to go to the gym. To me, none of that stuff is important. I'm an unconditionally person and I take a person as they are. Whatever it may be.
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Same ole delusional total lack of self awareness here guys.
What do you mean by that?
I mean that everything you've said was the typical counter productive advice that women give. Because they're more concerned with maintaining their elevated status than actually actually helping anyone. Men, when was the last time a women helped you do ANYTHING?
You're wrong about that, but you you're allowed to believe what ever you want.
So essentially considering physical attributes should be irrelevant when searching for a partner.
I will have to kindly disagree.
I never said that.
Definitely agree! And I'm so glad the admins finally promoted a take that was just pictures they posted themselves of nipple clamps and what not lol
Alright, for now on I'll only date women based on their favorite novels. Any girl who doesn't mention "The Alchemist" is not worth my time.
You disagree with other people's right to have preferences? That's almost as bad as your spelling and punctuation.
No, I don't and I don't know how many times I have to say that. And, there's nothing wrong with my spelling or punctuation. I re read what a write like 100 times, so I don't make any mistakes. Guess I can't be as perfect as you are, huh?
You keep having to say it because that is the impression you've given with what you wrote here. In some cases you suggest anything other than your view is wrong. Some people will date just for the sex! So long as both parties are in agreement, who are you to say it's wrong? With the Alpha/Beta thing, you dismiss it as being stupid while admitting you are totally ignorant as to what it even is! How can we take your opinion seriously?
You need someone else to proofread for you. This is always a good idea: a second set of eyes will pick up on stuff that you likely won't. Since you've been looking at your piece for so long, you won't spot mistakes as readily as someone coming into it fresh.
I don't care what people do, if people choose to twist what I say then so be it. But, I didn't say any of that.
Do you have people proof read what you write on here? I really wish I could be as perfect as everybody else on here, but I guess God didn't bless me with perfection.
I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I'm also not putting up featured Takes with the title 'Editor' next to my name.
Being an Editor doesn't mean I don't make mistakes, I just wish everyone on here would get off my case.
You are not displaying many qualities befitting the title, to be honest. When you put something up on this site, you are inviting feedback and not all of it will be positive. You will see this on sites up to and including the New York Times, and responding angrily or defensively is not the way to do it.
Anyway, I will get off your case.
I'm not angry, I'm just tired. Sorry if I seemed defensive.
loved it ! , well some comment there did make sense but all in all with the comments i enjoyed this a lot <3
who are you to tell people what their individual dating preferences are?
You have some good points, although I don't agree with every point you made. But to each their own =]
I agree with most of your points, however being physically attracted to you SO is important, and that means that race, height, and other physical characteristics are all going to be considered
I think you should change your title to "Things that SHOULDN'T have a place in the dating world"
I like the title I have , if people want to twist into something it's not. So be it.
You live in quite the perfect world, haha
How so?
strip away all those things you mentioned, and you have a person who has next to no preferences. People just aren't like this. These things are likely here to stay in the dating world for quite some time
I don't have any preferences though, why is that bad?
its not bad. its just unrealistic to expect these things to leave the dating world. Its too engrained in the psyche of people to let go of
I don't think they will leave the dating world, I specificly said those were things I think have no place in it.
ah, okay. Though i dont think having some of those preferences are necessarily a bad thing either. People like what they like
Hmm you make some interesting points. You seem to have too much logic to exist on planet Earth.
I think this is a great take. Too bad there are some stupid users on here that don't understand your points.
Thank you.
are you saying i should date every guy?
No, why are people taking this the wrong way lol. I never said that.
lol I understand where you are coming from, but it starts to get irrational when you explain factors that you shouldn't base your dates on such as going to the gym, playing video games.. To me that is a preference and it should be enhanced in order to distinguish different people and the type of guy you are going to date. The two people should be compatible, I agree maybe height and race should not be judged but everything else defined your personality. Maybe if a guy had childish bedsheets, I might overlook it, if they have the qualities I prefer, but if they act childish 24/7 then he may not be the guy for me.
I think you misunderstood that sentence, I meant it's wrong to not want to date some because they play video games or because they choose not to go to the gym. To me, none of that stuff is important. I'm an unconditionally person and I take a person as they are. Whatever it may be.
I don't agree with any if the things you've said
Nobody does, because they're taking it the wrong way.
No, this is just a bad take
No, this just my opinion that people took the opposite of what I meant.
Yes, yes, yes. Love this.
You seem to be the only one lol.
No, no, no, yes, yes.
This should be in braille.
Hahahahaha, comments like these is why MyTakes need a MHO option! xD
Thanks mate :)
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That picture is so hard to choose from!! D: