1) Would you ever pick an asian guy to be your boy friend or husband?
2) What are your general perceptions of asian males?
3) Also which kind of asian guys do you girls prefer more? The ones who are locally born, or have been in the same country as you are for a long time (who can speak good English and more open) Or the ones who just freshly arrive from Asia? (broken English, shy but elegantly dressed, skinny/ pretty boy type)
4) Suppose you know there is an asian guy with a medium white guy sized "engine" 6 inchs (aka me), would that make an asian guy appear more attractive to you? (If that was your problem with asian male).
The term asian = Eastern asian. Black hair, light and tanned skin
eg Chinese, Japanese, Korean, and the like.
please comment and be blatantly honest!
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Hei, I lived in France for about 3 years or more. I want to notice that now a lot of European girls like Asian guy especially in France, Poland, Italia. however the inverse situation from European Boys heartjailed with Asian girls (Thai, Chinese, Viet and Philipino or even Indonesian).
Since there is a physical judgement that Asian is to short, small eyes, not romantics and nerdy. So it goes to different way and judge all of Asian guys like this. I am quiet tall as an Asian with Chinese ancestor but this is not main problems. Physical is not the biggest issues in my opinion.
In my view, the main problem is we as an Asian that seems to be shy and don't know girls give a signal to be approached. I use to be re-mind that some girls are try to flirt me from some general signal to the one "caught up". I remember at Frankfurt airport there is French or Germany girl was staring at me until I looking her back and suddenly she was totally nervous.
I never approached this girl either... Hi (give your hand), would you mind take some coffee? or excuse me what how many minutes the gate will be opened?
As an asian, I don't want to play with girls. I do want to have one and until now I never got one special in my life, hopefully in the following months. My reason why don't approach this girl is because I have my own destiny, having a good job and become stable in financial and emotional.
Some Europeans does not have this notion, why? may girls said you should try first and let the time will goes by with your planning. For me, yes and no. I've been raised in really poor family. In my mind, if I don't have a future why should I take one person to be with me and I still put the stone on the concept (Man is the back bone of the family),
Maybe in my case, I am too shy or underestimate myself. That's true nevertheless, I still keep my Dad and Mother points, you as a man must be responsible what you do, what you want and what is your future.
Back to the European girls, our "asian culture" is not seems inline with European culture. So sorry to say, we're the loser. But yet, if any European girls date with asian, I assume a lot of them saying, one of Asian quality is familly orientied (FO). My explanation above is one of the detail how this FO comes from.
Conclusion, if you want to get any girls (not only European), try to balance your self. I mean try to hook up and be more active. imagine, every girls had feeling to be touched on their heart or their girlie (Man goes first and ask date to girl) eventhough Scandinavian girls is one of the though and strong one. but deep inside their heart, still a girl that need to be "shaken". The story of a warrior with a horse and sword try to safe a girl, is still in every girls heart.
Try to talk, try to approach and don't forget use your Asian culture (treat every girl like your mother or sister).