It just seems that every time. No matter what, and in any social situation, guys seem to go for my best friend. While I don't even get a look in. Which sucks, because it feels. And I loathe to admit it, like that while she's around I'm gonna be alone forever.
I'm quiet, a bit shy but I have a good sense of humour. I'm a bit of a book nerd and passionate about writing. I don't think I'm the ugliest person in the world. Just average. I don't wear makeup, or skimpy clothes because I'm just not comfortable in them. I'm slim enough. My friend is more confident, and finds it easier to make friends. People always like her. She's a bit oversensitive. But she has a good heart. So do I. She's curvy in ALL areas.
Why is it that men don't even look at me. I try my best. I flirt, I laugh. But it all seems in vain with her around and the one guy who showed an interest dropped me the moment he saw her.
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Ha, I had a friend and a situation just like yours. He ALWAYS had girlfriends in high school and after, I and spent my 20's alone. It sucked. What you need to do is go out on your own, it will be hard but I think you need to be more aggressive. I sat back and did nothing and all it got me was alone. If you hang with her, you may just end up being a wingman. I know EXACTLY how you feel.1