im kind of embarrassed about it. I'll discuss it with friends and its not a big deal but now that i think about it, i dont know if this is such a good thing.
Im 22 and i'm a virgin. I dont think that's that big of a deal. The bad part is that i have never even had a boyfriend or even dated anyone at all. ever. I dont know if that will hurt me or something. I'm really shy. I was worse before. Now i think the shyness kind of helps. People actually talk to me and think i'm adorable and all that crap. i blush easily and i stutter when i get nervous.
The thing is that im not sure if this will scare guys away. there's one guy i like in particular. and im not sure if it will help me or hurt me if i tell him i've never dated. He's very experienced. he even has kids. but he's single. and he's really nice. he even tells me about his kids. he's always telling me that i look nice and he tells me im so sweet and we get along great. he told me i was pretty hot. so i guess yeah. he must like something about me. for weeks he would stare and i'd pretend i wouldn't notice out of being nervous. even though i'd tease him and smile at him a lot and try to be around him often, i think he may have gotten the idea i wasn't interested. its just that i was nervous.
so im not sure if it will be a good idea to tell him that im like that because im completely inexperienced or if i should just keep my mouth shut. he says he likes quiet girls and im quiet so he should know i won't be very forward.
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Its not bad, and you know some people wait till they find the one so that sex can be really special that time, so don't worry its actually a good thing, most of the guys i know would rather be with a girl who's never had sex before than a girl who's a ho and has slept with like over 10 guys, they want a pussy not a bucket. Trust me guys don't express this but they like it if the girl hasn't had sex before and he's the first, most people even regret loosing their virginity at like 14 some don't care.2