You want to make her happy. Bending over backwards for her seems like an obvious choice. But it will fail 9 times out of 10. The time it does succeed you'll be miserable. Concern yourself with making your self happy. Once you do that give whatever you have left to her. By always being there for her at her beck and call, it will lead to conflict. Everyone wants to be challenged from time to time. No one likes a person who always agrees with everything. It sounds like you are willing to be a doormat. You don't need to stop being sensitive, just have a spine.
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Keep it up and you'll die old and alone.
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You want to make her happy. Bending over backwards for her seems like an obvious choice. But it will fail 9 times out of 10. The time it does succeed you'll be miserable. Concern yourself with making your self happy. Once you do that give whatever you have left to her. By always being there for her at her beck and call, it will lead to conflict. Everyone wants to be challenged from time to time. No one likes a person who always agrees with everything. It sounds like you are willing to be a doormat. You don't need to stop being sensitive, just have a spine.