I don't want to leave off on a bad note as the last time I saw her, we didn't even kiss good bye.

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I've been seeing this girl for the past month and a half and last night we got into a bit of a fight over something petty, but I think it exposed a bigger issue at hand. I am leaving to go to another country for 4 months, and I believe she had a pretty serious boyfriend that last up until 3-4 months ago. This is the text I got, and I need help figuring out what this means.

"To be honest I'm scared of commitment right now in my life. And it sucks because I really like you and I never expected this all to happen. It sucks that your leaving for 3 months, and I don't want to hurt you or lead you on because your one of the nicest guys I ever met and you make me smile all the time! but I'm just so confused and lost, and I don't want to come across as a stupid girl playing mind games because I'm not. I just don't know what I want.

there were a few small messages afterwards, but I stopped responding because I felt so upset over it.

I leave in a few days, and 4 months isn't a very long time, I feel like coming back to her when I get back. I don't want to leave off on a bad note as the last time I saw her, we didn't even kiss good bye. Should I even bother going and telling her how I feel before I go, or just let it be?
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I did what you suggested, we talked, and both agreed that when I got back we would re evaluate where we are. Hopefully all works out, but does anybody think that this is just an excuse until I leave, and when I get back there will be nothing?
I don't want to leave off on a bad note as the last time I saw her, we didn't even kiss good bye.
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