I had a date with a guy I met online a few months back. It didn't go horribly wrong, but I felt no chemistry, he was talking too much about himself and then at the end he just said "see you some other time maybe". I am not dumb, I get the message = I dint like you. I dont feel bad because I didn't like him much either, but I would like to know what was that he didn't like about me, so I could work on it. Is it weird to ask? Via Facebook. Thanks.
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It's a little weird. No doubt it would be helpful to know, but at the same time you have to be yourself on dates since you is what they'll be with if it turns into a relationship, right? You can't keep up a charade forever.
There's also the concern (from both parties in a situation like this) that it'll turn into a fight or argument. "What, you dumped me over that? You jerk, I didn't say a thing about the way that you... etc etc etc"
Someone you dated doesn't owe you anything. Personally I'd just move on and not dwell on it. Usually if you're compatible, you feel it right away.0