Can you describe your tongue wrestling technique? How do you kiss?

[Anonymous]

Any kissing tips would be good, especially on closed mouth kissing, I'm not sure how to do that properly.

I prefer tongue kissing

I like a bit of tongue

I prefer not to use tongue

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Please can someone describe how to do closed mouth kissing properly? If you're grabbing/pulling each others lips does that count as closed mouth or is it open mouthed without tongue?

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Does anyone else have any tips?

[Anonymous]

open your mouth and that will let her know that you want tongue kissing, if she opens almost instantly then she's wants to do, play around with each others tongues stroking your tongue with her tongue, also move your tongue around the roof of her mouth. tongue kissing can be quite tiring so if you feel the need to pull away then pull away and start kissing her neck or touch her

[Asker]

That would mean getting my tongue right in if I were to reach the roof of her mouth... when I've tongue kissed before it's just been an inch in or so.

[Asker]

Do girls like it deeper?

[Opinion Owner]

in my opinion it's better deeper but don't over-do it

[Asker]

Yeah, no need to clean her tonsils...

[RationalLioness]

Wow, really? Am I the only one interested in tongue?

I would think that closed mouth would be just grabbing and pulling at each other's lips. You can just press your lips together for an extended period of time for a closed mouthed kiss.

I usually don't do those types of kisses obviously. I like open mouthed.

[Asker]

"You can just press your lips together for an extended period of time for a closed mouthed kiss."

I've done that but it just feels sort of weird/awkward where as lip pulling and using tongues (gently generally) just feels more natural, so I've assumed I'm not doing closed mouth kissing properly.

[RationalLioness]

Lip pulling is a part of it too. I generally consider a closed mouth kiss something like an extended "peck".

[Asker]

I don't think I know how to give peck properly either, when it's just lip touching I feel I'm being somewhat awkward.

[RationalLioness]

A peck is a 1-3 second touching of the lips. That's it. If you want to learn how to kiss better, watch videos on it.

They will definitely help you. You just need to imitate it.

[Asker]

That's what I do, but some guys would give better pecks than others wouldn't they? Or is there not much more to it then touching lips briefly?

[RationalLioness]

I personally see nothing fun about pecking. And you can't be a better "pecker". It's literally putting your lips together gently. Nothing erotic about that unless if you're just starting up. No, there's nothing more to a peck.

A closed mouth kiss would be longer than a peck--holding the girl, putting your lips together for more than 3 seconds. You can open your mouth a little to grab her bottom lip--but again, I'm more of an open-mouthed kiss person.

[Asker]

Oh so maybe I am doing it properly, but it's just not as much fun as more full on kissing.

[Asker]

Anyway, thanks for answering.

[RationalLioness]

You're welcome.

[Sexualchrist]

Smash mouth.

[Asker]

Very helpful...

[Asker]

Feel free to elaborate.

[Sexualchrist]

Can I also feel free not to?

[Asker]

I would expect so.

[Sexualchrist]

It was a joke. Smash mouth is a style of prifessional wrestling

[Asker]

Oh okay.

[TheEmma]

Don't wrestle, caress.

[Asker]

That was just meant as a joke... I think I'm fairly delicate in the way I caress, I don't get more vigorous unless she does.

[TheEmma]

That's good. Some people just shove their tongues inside your mouth and it's awkward as hell. It's like they're trying to clean your gums or something. eek

[Asker]

I expect her to meet my tongue with hers or I'll just withdraw my tongue if she doesn't seem into it. Do you have any advice for the actual technique? I just do what sort of feels right at the time, but I don't really have a thought out technique to it.

[TheEmma]

I've always done what feels right in the moment. Go with the flow and it'll be fine. Don't use your tongue as a brushing device lol you know what I mean, right?

[Asker]

I'm not sure... do you mean it should be more like licking than scrubbing? (Not that tongues scrub...) Do you just mean gently so it slides/glides over her tongue?

[TheEmma]

Just play with the other person's tongue. Push a bit, movie ir around, etc. What I meant is don't scrub her teeth or gums.

[Asker]

Oh okay, that's more or less what I do. What about just gently (and briefly) running my tongue over the underside of her incisors?

[TheEmma]

Not my thing but it doesn't sound that bad either. Maybe some girls can enjoy it but not me.

[Asker]

It'd just be like a gentle lick really, half a second maybe then I'd be focusing on her tongue.

[TheEmma]

Then it's ok :)

[Asker]

Okay, thanks for answering.

[TheEmma]

No prob

[girlinthemirror]

one tongue touch another

[Asker]

Can you elaborate on that? How far in? How do you move it?

[girlinthemirror]

only should know it how far, cuz there is no rules to things like this

[Asker]

So you don't have any advice for techniques or what impresses you?