Albanian men don't want serious relationships? (Page 2)

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Why do Albanian men not want to marry or have serious relationships with Canadian girls?I guess if there are any Albanian men reading this, I would really appreciate your response. I fell for an Albanian guy who I basically had a great sexual relationship with but he told me from the beginning that he just wanted "fun". Of course, I'm an idiot and I thought he would fall for me. He was really sexually attracted to me and I know he really loved having sex with me but now he is engaged to a virgin back home and is planning to marry her soon. He still wanted to sleep with me but I just can't handle it so we stopped everything. I told him recently that I loved him and he was making a mistake marrying this other girl. He told me that he never felt love for me and it was only sex. I'm really hurt and heart broken by the whole thing. We had such a close, passionate intimate connection and I just don't understand how he couldn't have fell in love like I did. Try not to be too hard on me with your response because I'm pretty emotional about this. I just don't understand how he could so easily give me up?

Anonymous · Answer

They like untouched and beautiful women. If you are either not beautiful or virgin they won't fall for you no matter how good in sex are you. They will actually consider you a slut. There is no religion involved, no tradition, not anything just preferences. They want their woman to be only theirs and no one else's. Usually Albanian guys like to have two or more girlfriends but only to one they will give their heart ( to the virgin and beautiful girl). And, trust me they would leave their life after them. Also they do not like to mix races and they Albanian women are really beautiful and they always understand and stand for the Albanian guys and are loyal before all. I am sorry for what happened to you but make some research for Albanian guys before you get to go in e relationship with them.

Anonymous · Answer

The same thing happened to me, more than once.  I was with an older Albanian man, who went back home and got married.  I was upset but I got over it. I started dating another guy from Kosovo and we were together for four years.  One summer he went back home and got engaged to a virgin bitch whom he knew for less than a month.  I was very hurt but I loved him so much that I stayed with him a little longer.  The next summer he went back home to marry the tramp and I begged him not to get married on my birthday, June 29.  I got a message from his friend on June 29 saying he was married.  It sucks but that's how these foreign f***s are, they use us like a piece of meat to satisfy themselves until they settle down.  I also believe that's why they went to war and were slaughtered by Serbians, because they are worthless SCUM! :)

Anonymous · Answer

HI! I am a girl from Albania who actually live here in Albania. I think the reasons of your situation are: First of all there are many possibility that guy may be from suburb because from the difficult condition on life they are obligated to move to emigrate, in the other hand in suburb people follow and live with tradition when boy have to marry with girl who choose his family even if she doesn't love her.  I guess he may fell in love with you but his can do it because  he can violates  his parent. I hope that my reasons have gave you a clear idea. Best regards!

questioner1991 · Answer

I have never met an Albanian guy... That I know of anyway. But this sounds like typical guy behavior. At least he was honest with you. He may even felt pressured by his family to marry another Albanian girl.

DanielSan · Answer

him being albanian had nothing to do with it...he was a guy who told you he only wanted sex and didn't love you...im sorry for you it must be horrible but he used you like most guys do for sex...its not only albanians that do that...

Abhi2015 · Answer

I am from India but I really like Albenia and Albenian girls they are very sweet and cute and a perfect marriage material according to me, I am very serious regarding love, sex and life and according to me only one in your life have that right to get all of those from a guy... I love to be called one women man..

Sugarfoot · Answer

If any man from any country tells you from the beginning he is only in it for sex than you need to believe what he says! Never go into any relationship thinking you can change anyone, and most women shouldn't have casual sex because we get hurt all the time. Sounds like you confuse great sexual chemistry with love.

TheAlbanianguy · Answer

That motherfucker must have been with another albanian girl before you. I am albanian too but fuck him he must have been a childish boy.

ProTraceurDGDJ · Answer

Albanian Men sound like true MEN I'm impressed they're very similar to me...

Anonymous · Answer

Albanian men are not worthyour tears. Speaking from experience as I am an albanian woman and I hate albanian men. They are two-faced and manipulative. Seroiusly is goodthing that he rejected you believe it or not because if you got married to him you would have ended up in a controlling sad and depressing relationship. TRUST MEE!

Anonymous · Answer

I know this question is old, but I'm dating an albanian now and I'm curious to know if he was born in Albania or in Canada?

missalbanian92 · Answer

A lot of albanian families want their daughter or son to marry another albanian

Victoriag · Answer

I love India. I am an Albanian American women engaged to an Indian American man. We have a lot in common because we are first generation Americans :)

Anonymous · Answer

I'm an albanian girl. Sorry to break it to you, but albanian men marry albanian women in the end. In most cases

Anonymous · Answer

Well said albanian-guy. These day is hard to find a person like you

Visar · Answer

Well all Albanians are not same :)

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