I just found out my boyfriend still has an OkCupid account. He's bee on there as soon as August 25th. I went through his messages, and he's having conversations like, "how are you? your someone I would like to get to know." His status also says Single on there. He told me he was going to delete a long time but when I ask him he would say that its deleted. I want to brreak up with him because he lied and this is disrepectful to the relationship. He has had this profile for years and someone has told me before that he had it. I moved in with him and everything, should I wait for the end of the lease or just tell him that I want to be friends?
Most Helpful Guy
Make up an account and arrange to meet him, then when you do dump him.4
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I had the same situation with my ex. In March he asked me to move in with him, since we've known each other for years. In May I found his OK Cupid account, since he told me to look up his screen name for YouTube and this other streaming site... he used the same name for his OKC account! I was shocked, it said he was on it that morning.
I asked him if he realizes there is still an active account, with his Single and looking for women near him, with a lot of his pictures. He said he's had it for a while, and forgets to delete it. He said, not to worry, he will. Two weeks later, still there and he still logged in. I got curious, and looked at PlentyofFish and he is on there, too. Saying he is single and looking for a relationship.
I told him I am getting mixed signals, since we've been together for 6 months and he asked me to move in with him. He says he wants that, but keeps forgetting to delete his profiles. I gave him one more chance, and a month later he was still on them, and actively using it, so I dumped him.
I would explain to him how this makes you feel, and ask him to delete or at least deactivate it IF he wants to be with you. Why waste your time with someone who is looking and chatting up other women? That is so disrespectful to you, and you deserve better.0