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"What the fuck is this motherfugger?" Seriously. No tip-toeing around the issue. This is one of those instances where you must be straightforward and completely direct. Honestly, if it were me no explanation would ever be good enough because he lied, shitted all over the relationship, and basically cheated on you emotionally. I'd leave him immediately especially if my name wasn't on the lease. Hell no, do you really want to be friends or are you just being politically correct? He did kinda sorta really stab you in the back with okcupid... why would you want to be his friend?
1. Call him out.
2. Dump him
3. Walk away and never look back.