I just found out my boyfriend still has an OkCupid account. He's bee on there as soon as August 25th. I went through his messages, and he's having conversations like, "how are you? your someone I would like to get to know." His status also says Single on there. He told me he was going to delete a long time but when I ask him he would say that its deleted. I want to brreak up with him because he lied and this is disrepectful to the relationship. He has had this profile for years and someone has told me before that he had it. I moved in with him and everything, should I wait for the end of the lease or just tell him that I want to be friends?
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"What the fuck is this motherfugger?" Seriously. No tip-toeing around the issue. This is one of those instances where you must be straightforward and completely direct. Honestly, if it were me no explanation would ever be good enough because he lied, shitted all over the relationship, and basically cheated on you emotionally. I'd leave him immediately especially if my name wasn't on the lease. Hell no, do you really want to be friends or are you just being politically correct? He did kinda sorta really stab you in the back with okcupid... why would you want to be his friend?
1. Call him out.
2. Dump him
3. Walk away and never look back.0