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Way to make a completely wrong generalization. Are you trying to build yourself up or something. You have that mentality that i see with a lot of girls on here who post stuff like this just to get praises from the men commenting get a life and stop making assumptions! For the record before someone comes with some B. S I don't expect expensive first dates but I'm not eating McDonald either that's mostly do to the fact that I'm vegan though :)
Personality and culturally based expectations.
Personally, I believe that a date should be about the time spent together, and the effort to make each other happy.
Women like that are essentially whores. What they are doing is "trading on vagina." It's absolutely denigrating to men. It's an implicit statement that male sexuality is worthless.
I'm actually a virgin and while I didn't expect that on a first date it was greatly appreciated and it would grant the guy brownie points in my book. I make quite a bit of money and my family makes money too so I'm used to things the average person isn't used to lol My guy now and the guys before him had similar lifestyles as mine. Also my general area is quite traditional and I'm a traditionalist as well. I'm not trading my vagina as you put it or anything else before someone assumes otherwise. I haven't engaged in any sexual activities and I've only kissed two guys one being the one I'm with now lol. I also don't think men's sexuality is worthless at all I value my man above all others :)
@asiag299 That is wonderful to hear. Once you eliminate money from the expectations, then other, more important things are able to come into focus much more clearly. You are rather wise for a woman who is well-to-do.
Look at this shit:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1768450-when-a-man-doesn-t-bring-his-a-game
I unloaded on that girl with both barrels.
(Notice I called you a woman and her a girl.)
I realize it sounds bad I really do but I just haven't met anyone that hasn't had money if that makes sense. I wouldn't discriminate if he made less but he's have to be very secure my aunt said that dating a man that makes less is harder because a man is used to being a provider by evolution standards and it could possibly make him feel inferior compared to me which I wouldn't want. I also know that making less money doesn't mean he would be more insecure but from the marriages I've seen when the woman has more power or makes more money the man tends to feel useless or unneeded which leads to cheating :/ Also that lady was definitely insane lol Dating isn't only about the woman's time the guy is taking time out of his day as well. I don't think you should be trading your vagina for dates anyways you could just be a prostitute I think you'd make more money that way too. Then with that money you can pay for your own expensive restaurant lol :) I don't think money is everything by the way
Although it comes off that way to some. I'm actually very independent but I'm also very submissive and attending to my man's needs lol it's in my nature which is why I'm so happy he's a traditionalist too because he doesn't see me as some money grubbing whore if you know what I mean. I feel like before I was in a relationship guys would turn me down for being more traditional in my way of thinking. My new guy understands though and I'm more than happy to attend to his every need as long as it isn't sexual but he knows that and is willing to wait until marriage if that's what I want :) I couldn't' be happier! It's pretty rare to find someone around my age ready to commit you know.
I like a romantic date, doesn't have to be expensive but passionate and feeling great. Which I'm not getting, so I give up.
I'd rather have a cheap date.. Because there's less pressure to act all classy... preferably somewhere like the public pools or bowling
An expensive first date is a waste of money and time, you would wanna spend time getting to know each other, not being fascinated by the $800 napkins
Yeah I don't get it either... I'd be fine with what you mentioned. Except for Mcdonalds, its kinda gross.
omg i love ncdonalds tho
nah after I saw supersize me I got totally put off. I appreciate quality food :P
hahahahaha i haven't watched it yet 😬 and won't haha
better not. It's also because of my culture, I was raised to appreciate quality food.
ah i see.
i was raised to eat good food but i love cheap greasy food from time to time xD
lol it's cool. As long as you don't eat it too much.
i dont... sadly
Because those girls are gold diggers and want guys with deep pockets.
some girls see it as the guy isn't putting much effort or he thinks you are not even worth investing in on the first date. also it could mean that he is cheap. It's a first impression and shows that you don't value her that much or cheap or didn't put in the effort
First date:
Went for a walk and then went to a party at a teacher's house! It's definitely not one I'll forget!
Obviously it worked though, we're still together!
I don't care, I'm good with anything as long as I'm with the person. I wouldn't care if we just stayed home, cuddle, eat pizza, and watch Netflix.
Because they want a fairy-tale and a first impression is the biggest.
Lol in the UK we expect men to take us to the local Nandos. 😂
Have I seen so many guys do that! XD Just take their girl to Nandos.
well i dont care bring me to mcDonalds or KFC and i will be okay😂🙌
Well I know what ur asking my friend insists on making her date suffer by making him buy her really expensive stuff to show him that she's high class its a stupid thing really n cheap character
I never been on a date. I don't want expensive just a fun date!
Sometimes guys like to show off how much money they have. Or they just like showing that they can take someone out somewhere nice. It's not that Mcdonalds won't suffice, I would just be worried that the person I'm taking out might think I'm cheap or that I don't care about my date.
honestly I'm more into the cliche type of dates. like walking on the beach with an icecream cone or going to the movies.
I don't expect expensive first dates.. I just want to have fun and want it to be memorable.. :)
I don't know, they want to be treated like a Queen. ... Like all the time. .-.