Is 15 to 18 too big of an age difference?

[Random_chick_2384]

Just wondering peoples... 😂

[Mekkalyn]

Well... seeing as how you're a minor and he isn't, you're breaking the law.
If you're okay with the potential consequences if you have sex (statutory rape), then by all means go ahead.

My 15 year old sister thinks she's mature enough to date seniors.
I always tell her she's not ready and has no idea what she's doing with her life, while the senior typically has more concrete plans (already has a college he/she is planning to attend, or a trade school or what not)

Every time she ignores me and gets screwed over.
I have a feeling this will be the same thing.

The funny thing about advice is that the person rarely wants to know what others think, they just want affirmation that their opinion is correct.

That's how I feel about all highschoolers that ask for opinions... whether that's right or wrong, you decide.

[Random_chick_2384]

Wow...

[Mekkalyn]

Wow what?

[Random_chick_2384]

That you typed a lot. Lok

[Mekkalyn]

I always type a lot! lol

[DivaMonae]

Not really considering it's only 3 years... But at the same time it is because you're young. You're either a Freshmen or a Sophomore and he's a Senior.

It's only going to comoliment things. He could be using you , hopefully he's more mature than you, and then not to mention he's going to be leaving you and off to college.

So in the end it's up to you and your parents but it's better to not bite off more than you can chew. It won't make a difference in a couple of years but while going through puberty/maturing it will.

[Random_chick_2384]

I went through all my physical changes last year and crap. I've also know the guy since I was 10. He is a family friend. He comes to all our parties. He also isn't going to use me. Right now he has been to shy to make a move well he tries to make small moves.

[DivaMonae]

Oh wow... Well in that case go for it. I mean your parents will clearly accept and he's obviously into you. So go get your man! 😉

Lol

[Random_chick_2384]

Thanks! 😊😊

[KitKat93]

No. My first boyfriend was 18 while I was 15. You're young, so your dating situation is probably going to be fluid. Just try to be cautious and look out for yourself first.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay thank you.

[Mustachekitteh]

Yes it is and creepy due to your age.

Dude your 15 please don't go crazy overboard.
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[Mustachekitteh]

Well who ever ur wanting to hook up with that is in that age gap is going to jail.

[Random_chick_2384]

I'm not hooking up with anyone. Lol I'm waiting to marriage to have sex. And the guy refused to have sex with this girl lol. I've also know him for a really long time.

[Random_chick_2384]

Love the gif by the way

[Mustachekitteh]

Still that guy is creepy. The only time 30-33 year olds hooked up with 12-15 years olds and got married. Was the middle ages. Now those people can go to jail and be tormented if others found out why they are going to jail.

Plus the fact that he would ever want to hook up with any girl in high school is extremely sad. That or he thinks their pussy would be tight enough. Plus I'm sure that guy would lie his ass off just to get in their pants someday. I wouldn't trust him at all.

[Random_chick_2384]

An 18 year old? A senior?

[Mustachekitteh]

even at 18 with a 30 yr old. I wouldn't trust the guy at all. Even if you are close to the person or have known them. I doubt they would show their true dark intentions to anyone.

[Random_chick_2384]

Wait? Where are you getting 30 at?

[Random_chick_2384]

I've talking about 15 and 18

[Mustachekitteh]

XD I read it wrong. :D I read it as if your were saying is a 15-18 age gap between people huge. As in like a 15 year old having the age gap with a 30-33 year old. My bad :D

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh okay. lol 😂😂 I was so confused! I was like were is she getting 30 from!! 😂😂😂

[Mustachekitteh]

:D naw that isn't a huge age gap. Only issue i would see is that once he starts college he might want to date college women or something. Still it could still work out.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Okay. Age differences matter less than life experiences... Its completely concievable for a 50 year old to be at the same place in their life as a 80 year old (retired, kids grown up and moved away, just want to settle down etc etc). Naturally the age range with comparable experiences drops as you get younger. A 21 year old and a 25 year old will have more in common than a 20 year old and a 16 year old. You follow?
An 18 year old has finished manditory education. And is either looking at higher ed, or work. Either way they are an adult looking at adult problems like paying the rent and buying food. A 15 year old is a teenager. They need to worry about school, homework, hobbies/afterschool clubs and school yard politics. Its too big a gap.

[JoshTheKnight]

For a teen it is certainly a bit too big, due to even more important factors, namely maturity and different life stages. At 18 he is in a transition from teen to adult, learning to take the work and responsibilities a grown-up has to do, like earning a living, getting a job or into college, and surviving in the society, while at 15 life does not get far from school and other respective cliques and groups. The mentality and daily schedules are a lot different between you two. It will be hard for you to cope with each others' lives.
The age range widens at adulthood, but for now it safer to go for someone no more than a year's age difference since than minimizes the differences I mentioned.

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh okay.

[micahis18now]

The age difference isn't a problem the fact that there's an adult involved with a minor might be but 3 years isn't that bad at all.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay. And yeah I know.

[jacquesvol]

3 years in jail.

[front2back]

Yes. I can say I probably changed a good half or more of my personality, body, lifestyle, etc. by the time I was 18.

[Random_chick_2384]

I changed a lot in the past year. Like a lot... It's crazy.

[puncakegirl]

If you're talking about age difference in a relationship then YES that is one hell of an age difference

[Random_chick_2384]

3 years?

[igfunnyboi]

Do you date only 22 year olds? @puncakegirl

[puncakegirl]

Oh I thought you meant 15 to 18 years of difference.
No three years is not too much at all.
@igfunnyboi

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh okay 😂😂

[jacquesvol]

WAY in my opinion it'sWAY too big: you're 15, he's 33
Completely different responsibilities, life, independence past experience, financial means, work situation. He may have a child your age (with a baby mother and and ex)
A slanted relationship thus.

[Random_chick_2384]

You read it wrong. I'm 15 he is 18. Lol you're the second person to d this.

[jacquesvol]

If he touches you, it's jail: statutory rape.

[jacquesvol]

That guy is a CREEP.

[jacquesvol]

My bad, sorry.
At 18 I didn't even look at 15 yo girls. If they tried to talk I was suddenly too busy.

[Random_chick_2384]

I'm very pretty and I was told I have a good personality. Lol I have a lot of confidence in myself. I was also told I was out of this guys league.

[Random_chick_2384]

I found it funny that you are the second person to do this. I'm so glad ya care :)

[jacquesvol]

Tthe way your question is worded it can be understood in two ways: a 3 yr agedifference or a difference ranging from 15 years difference to 18 years difference.

[xOGxDub]

i wouldn't let my 15 yo date anybody till she was in her 30's

#OverProtective

[Random_chick_2384]

I hope you don't have a 15 year old daughter. Your 15.

[xOGxDub]

loooool i mean when i have one... and she turns 15

[Random_chick_2384]

I got you. Lol and we have known the guy for forever. He is a family friend and a cute one at that

[xOGxDub]

In that case i might but only in the living room at 2 separate sides of the room under close supervision

[Random_chick_2384]

Gosh dang. Lol

[jacquesvol]

a family friend?
Clearly abuse thus. If he touches you, it's jail: statutory rape.

[xOGxDub]

@jacquesvol
I won't call the cops ill handle it myself,
id hang him from his feet and everytime he says a ow is another hour hanging up there

[slatyb]

It's a big difference, too big for me. He'll be out of high school soon, and you'll still have three years to go. I generally don't like the idea of high school students dating people out of school. Maybe 17/18 or 18/19 but no more than that.

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh okay.

[xXiTacoXx]

It's not that big an age different, but I advise you to wait until you're 16 to do anything sexual since it most states 16 is the legal age of consent.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay. And that's good advice.

[spuitkaas]

No a good friend of mine also had a boyfriend who was 18 and she's 15 (now 16). They stayed together for quite some time. I think it's fine.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay 😊 glad to hear

[Helpmeplease44]

15 year olds too immature.

18 year old can easily take advantage of you

[Random_chick_2384]

Nope nope nope. He is not getting anything from me. Maybe a kiss.

[Helpmeplease44]

The fact that you think I just mean sexually sort of reinforces my point. Just be smart. At this age even one year Is a massive difference. Compare the you now to when you were 12 years old. See my point? Tread carefully.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay. Thanks you.

[vishna]

Kinda weird a senior would be creeping on a 15 year old, but maybe it's just me.

[Random_chick_2384]

Nah. I've know him for forever. Are family are friends too.

[vishna]

Oh you're interested in him/he's interested in you.
Hmm, just saying, just cause you've known the guy for forever and your family knows his family doesn't make it more right or less right.

[Random_chick_2384]

I guess.

[Ihav2fart]

Noppe, but when he goes off to college you two will be in very different stages in your lives

[Random_chick_2384]

Yes that's true. Oh well I'll enjoy it while it lasts if it does last.

[Ihav2fart]

Wish you two the best :)

[Random_chick_2384]

Thanks:)

[Zorax]

No, it's not, but more than 20 years is too big difference.

[Random_chick_2384]

I was talking about 15 and a 18 year old lol

[Zorax]

Oh, I see, well, I guess it's not much of a difference, if it's legal in your country :)

[abc3643]

That was the ages of my parents when they met.

[Random_chick_2384]

That's awesome. lol

[PizzaGuy22]

yea I would never do that

[Random_chick_2384]

Why?

[PizzaGuy22]

cuz she's basically a little kid and I'm considered an adult

[Random_chick_2384]

My tits don't say little kid. 😂😂

[PizzaGuy22]

lol ok but you don't know what's out there. if only you knew what my friends as seniors said about the freshmen girls...

[Random_chick_2384]

In a sophomore. Lol and yes I know I've heard what they say about my friend. Thy won't tell me what they say about me tho... 😁

[PizzaGuy22]

you don't wanna know trust me

[Random_chick_2384]

Yes I do! What crap do they say?

[jacquesvol]

A little kid with boobs thus. So what?

[apple24]

Yeah i don't think so!

[Random_chick_2384]

So it's not to big? ( that's what he said)

[apple24]

yeah u both young and think alike ! hahah! since your young but since your young and he might be going to college u might want to rethink a relationship!

[Random_chick_2384]

Eh it probably won't last anyway I hope it does. He is cute so I'll just make out with him ( I sound like a whore )

[Random_chick_2384]

I hope it lasts*

[apple24]

HAHAH make-out with him! hahah... just makes sure u didnot get in trouble with the law will him since its legal ! and please don't let him take advatnage of u!

[apple24]

illegal

[Random_chick_2384]

He is super cute and likes me back 😊 and don't worry. I'm waiting to have sex. lol

[Random_chick_2384]

Is there such thing as taking advantage when the person is good looking? It seems like a win win to me. Lol 😂😂

[apple24]

Is it legal? Careful don't get him in trouble or yourself!

[Random_chick_2384]

Don't worry. I won't.

[apple24]

okay!!! Please take care! <3 Apple for GAG QUEEN!

[Random_chick_2384]

I got you!

[apple24]

I feel so sad ): don't u hate it when u cling on to someone way to much!

[Random_chick_2384]

Not sure what you mean...

[apple24]

ohh sorry just a side note nevermind me! Love while it last!

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay I hope it does! 😊

[Zanecyber]

nope, I think its just fine

[Random_chick_2384]

Kk. Thanks!

[Barnone]

Yes it's too big of an age gap for dating.

[Random_chick_2384]

3 years.

[Barnone]

Yes a 15yr old should not be dating an 18yr old in my opinion.

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh okay. Thanks fam 😊

[AppleGoppy]

divide by 2 add 7 for the guy that is

[Random_chick_2384]

Oh. Cool. Judging my your xper I'm guessing your new. WELCOME TO GAG!

[AppleGoppy]

thanks but ya that's what the normal thing would be but to be honest if the girl doesn't mind nor does the guy then its fine as long as its not toooooo big of an difference

[meatballs21]

No. filler filler

[Random_chick_2384]

Thanks fam.

[OrangeBoy]

Naaahhh
Just give him/her a big big kiss : D

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay. Lol

[Zendrya]

Absolutely.

[Random_chick_2384]

Why or why not?

[Zendrya]

It's huge because you're just starting to really become a teenager and he's just becoming a man. You're a child. It's legal so do what you want but I think he's disgusting for considering it

[1zzzzzzy]

No. Love is love.

[Random_chick_2384]

I'm guessing by your xper level your new. WELCOME TO GAG!

[KaranSharma55]

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa h

[Random_chick_2384]

? Ummmm