First off I considered Tinder a joke I only wanted something legit, funny thing is I found a girl there and matched who does too, anyway she said she'd delete Tinder because it was a bunch of gross guys and she doesn't do hookups so I asked for her actual phone number which she happily gave, anyway we've texted everyday for the past 5 days and she's opened up about quite a bit, he'll she even invited me to follow her on Instagram and said I have a good sense of humor, however she's not good at keeping a conversation going, she replies often with short answers, rarely asks about me etc normally I'd take that bad but I doubt she'd invite some guy she's not interested in to follow her on social media and also she even admitted she isn't good at holding a conversation, she has almost like a social anxiety and she I very shy it sounds like. So her replies seem more based around her being shy.
I've tried being hinty or flirty sometimes but she kinda draws back-replies but dodges it so I finally asked her what she wants in a guy, she said someone who can make her laugh (she said I have good humor) and someone who makes an obvious effort,,,, I almost wonder if she implies she wants me to be straight up?
anyway I'm conflicted as its only been a week of messaging and she's shy so I don't want to scare her by asking to meet, but I can't see this texting where she is super cautious being much more fruitful either since I've talked to her about a lot of topics, so girls do you think it's too soon to meet up? I know plenty enough about her to hold my side of the conversation I'm only worried how she'll take it, I find her shyness cute but don't want to scare her away. I mean she does know I'm not some pig guy from Tinder obviously or she wouldn't have given me her number but still..
I've tried being hinty or flirty sometimes but she kinda draws back-replies but dodges it so I finally asked her what she wants in a guy, she said someone who can make her laugh (she said I have good humor) and someone who makes an obvious effort,,,, I almost wonder if she implies she wants me to be straight up?
anyway I'm conflicted as its only been a week of messaging and she's shy so I don't want to scare her by asking to meet, but I can't see this texting where she is super cautious being much more fruitful either since I've talked to her about a lot of topics, so girls do you think it's too soon to meet up? I know plenty enough about her to hold my side of the conversation I'm only worried how she'll take it, I find her shyness cute but don't want to scare her away. I mean she does know I'm not some pig guy from Tinder obviously or she wouldn't have given me her number but still..
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