He's been hurt a few times and he's associated that difficulty with American women. That may not be fair to you. the issue may be he is attracted to the wrong type of person and thus he isn't drawn to you because you aren't messed up like his sub conscious mind requires. Make sense... he needs some counseling... like 6-12 months. But how do you convince him to get counseling when he views it as the other women are the problem.
Why do you want him so much, he's hurt? it may say something about you as well.
That said, philippino women, I've seen several examples of, are simpler and good catches for wives. They just aren't as emotionally complex, spoiled rich, difficult. I've seen multiple men go there and find wives and be happy with them.
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He sounds controlling and manipulate. Probably why the girls cheated. Look at how he articulated women in America. He sees them as baby producers. He refers to them as the worst wives and mothers. Says nothing about personality or work ethic. Would you really want to date him?
He keeps going for the worst kind of women without realizing it.
Though that kind of happened to me, after 12 failed relationships. The only one that's worked out amazingly and till going after 4 years, is a dude from Portugal. :D
My ex was "good" guy in people's eyes but behind all that... ugh I just hate him... you need to ask him why that's the only way to change his mind or yours (maybe?)
Who cares, he sounds like an idiot anyway. He's just bitter and you should find a guy who doesn't make a big deal about what country you are from.
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Oh come on, so every girlfriend he's been with has cheated on him, and it's his fault? xD You're just proving his point that American women are the worst.
He sounds bitter due to his past experiences... I don't blame him though, getting cheated on must suck, and 5 times, by 5 different girls, every girlfriend he's had? That must be really tough.
Just forget about him, why would you try getting this guy when he wants nothing with you? Move on.You're a bitch for putting any sort of blame on him for being emotionally hurt. Change your ways. You would probably be a terrible girlfriend anyways with that attitude always putting blame on him for your mistakes and when he makes a mistake it's the end of the world. Do us all a favor and stick to just casual sex and don't go into a relationship please.
I don't blame him tbh. I kind of want to leave the country and find a good husband bc American men suck
So the 5 girls cheating on him is his fault for being a bad boyfriend? lol. I'm sorry, but that's the only part of this question I could focus on...
He's had his heart broken five times... I'm assuming.
That doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with him.
Maybe he's worried it'll happen again. Ask him to give you one chance, might take some convincing.he's not at fault. He just know himself. Dont lash out because of that.
is this really the kind of person u wanan date?
I've never been able to feel a romantic connection with anyone from my country, but I have with girls from mainland Europe. Maybe it's a familiarity thing or something?
What shithole is he really from?
5 gfs? Who could blame him.
hun I wouldn't date you either
forget him
well i dont blame him
He has issues
uhhh what?
What an asshole
What a dick
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