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Maybe for a short fling but not for a relationship.
It depends. Probably not because I'd have moved on already, but life is full of surprises, who knows.
it really depends if its like a shallow rejection fuck that guy if its a im not really looking for a relationship Ok im good if its im already chasing someone else depends on why he wants me now like was he dumped or did he dump that guy or was it something to do with stupid shit
No , because I would have very quickly written her off & forgotten about her , men have to develop harder hearts & learn to move on double quick time , as we deal with the bulk of rejection & most men do have less options than most women. Women are in demand , men are not in the dating world. As per aficionado , I also have self respect , hence I've never been " friend zoned "
I said maybe because of the only experience I've had. We were good friends, I became crazy about her, I man up and ask her out, but she wasn't looking for anything. She asked to be friends still, but now she's acting differently and treats me better than my closer female also single friends. If she asked me out this time, I would. But that's unlikely.
I have never been really rejected but one guy was not ready for a relationship and then after a while said he was. Then he again wasn't, and so on... Now I would say I would probably not give a second chance to a guy like him. But with him I never know, he surprises me with his behaviour and manipulative words. But I guess it depends.
It all really depends on whether I still like them or not. They could change their mind and start liking me only to find that I don't like them anymore. Or they could get lucky enough to still have my love. Its unlikely, but if they were asshoels the first time I MIGHT just play the shit out of them but only if they REALLY hurt my feelings that first time.
Yeah, I've dated several girls who've rejected me the first time I asked them out. I've noticed that girls are often very skeptical of guys at first, so they'll reject guys who approach them almost out of hand. But the very act of asking them out puts the guy on their radar, and the balls he shows in approaching makes her instantly gain respect for him. So then her attraction for the guy starts to build, and later she comes to like him enough that a second approach is often successful.
It really depends. If they were with someone else at the time, or were not at a place in life were they thought they couldn't satisfy my needs. But if they were just being an asshole, then I would definitely be rude AF...
Unlikely. Only few exceptions like their dad was dead-sick and they just weren't in the mindset to start dating or soemthing.
depends on how the first rejection went and generally how they treat me. but i wouldn't discount a potential relationship just because they said no once
It depends on why the rejection happened in the first place and if I had moved on.
Nope. To me that would seem as if I must be that desperate to take the one who didn't think I was good enough, yet wants me now. Nah, never gonna happen.
Depends on how long ago the rejection was and how harsh it was. Maybe they had different preferences back then. Maybe I was a different person back then.
I would. I rejected my ex boyfriend two times before we started dating.. So I guess anything could happen xD
Not in a million years. If I wasn't good enough for you then, I'm sure as fuck not good enough for you now. I would rather get a prozzie than be with somebody who rejected me or is friends with me and nothing more.
No. I wasn't good enough for you then, what the fuck makes you think YOU are good enough for ME now?
No, I would never date a girl who rejected me in the past, because she is demonstrating that she only cares about her self interest and my feelings are not important for her.
I probably wouldn't. I would like to know what has changed.
This will probably not work in the long term. I will not recommend it.
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Depends. if my situation is still the same and they find interest in me than yes. But if all of a sudden I go from middle class to upper class or normal fit to muscular, than na.