Would you want a very affectionate girlfriend?

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Guys, would you want a very affectionate girlfriend? Like a girl who loves cuddling, hugs, kisses, being held, and just displays of affection? And if you could give a short explanation why that would be great. Thanks and I'm choosing MHO! :)

Default_Hore · Accepted Answer

I want a very affectionate girlfriend because it's what I want to give to the girl, I want to make her feel special and important to me in every way possible, so kissing, hugging, cuddling and just holding her for hours on end making her feel wanted and loved, so I do want it back to an extent, but in a different way, her just giving her time and attention to me makes me feel loved and cared for, showing interest in things I'm interested in or passionate about, that's how you'd make me feel special, showing interest in things I'm interest in.

I'd also want somebody romantic in a way where they'd surprise me with small things like I'd do for her. Coming home after a long day of work, listening to her and giving her a massage, maybe taking a bath with her and reading to her while we cuddling in the tub, or just lay and relax talking about things we like about each other. I think they affection I crave is a lot more emotional than it is physical, but I do enjoy both, as long as she makes me feel important to her.

Yes, I'd want a girl very affectionate. I'd consider it a requirement, actually.

Datboi · Accepted Answer

Yeah personally I would want a girl more like that. Now if she was just too much and I mean like just going beyond the limit and doing inappropriate things in public or whatever or doing this too much to the point where it didn't mean anything special than no.

But generally speaking yes. I want the girl I date/marry to love me and be romantic and let me hold her and stuff. I want to feel like a man with the most beautiful girl in the world next to me. I wouldn't want someone that's overly shy and can't be physical with me (not sexually).

It's kinda like me asking you-"would you want a guy that doesn't kiss or hug you or carry you?" Basically the dudes not romantic at all. Most likely every girl would say no.

GreySkies · Accepted Answer

Can I answer too?
I like to have someone who reciprocates the desire to cuddle and hug (especially hug and hold hands! I love physical affection) especially when I feel down I just want to hold someone and someone to hold me... and for me when I'm being all cuddly is my way to show I trust someone very much and care about them and want them to know without having to say it...
man, I really want a hug right now hahaha.

mooky06 · Accepted Answer

I like leaving my scent on my territory  I love affection overall though. Makes me feel all mushy and squishy inside

archiz · Accepted Answer

I would want a very affectionate boyfriend cause I am really cold and he d balance that side of me and soften me I guess.
most guys are colder and more reserved reason why an affectionate girlfriend would do them good and warm them up ;)

ObviouslyOriginalMe · Accepted Answer

I love affectionate girls and guys... Girls are adorable when they truly care...

InsertAUsername · Answer

Do I have to explain? It's self explanatory. Who doesn't loved being huged, kissed and cuddled. It's not only very appreciative on the guys part but extremely adorable from the girls part which just drives us more in love! Plus, I'd be just as affectionate back!

AleDeEurope · Answer

Yeah, I only want a girl like that. I want "love" to be shown with actions, not words. I want a girlfriend to hold, to kiss, and to appreciate, and I want that to be reciprocated.

theintrovert · Answer

I love being kissed, cuddled, hugged, other displays of affection. I tend to be a very affectionate person myself. I would love for her to share this trait with me. I mean if she didn't do this I would spend all of my time questioning our relationship.

RedVulcan · Answer

Yes
I would love a girlfriend who I can be intimate with a lot, someone who I can let into my personal space all the time with no fear, someone who likes me that much and wants to let me know exactly how much she likes me. Hell, I don't think I'll ever be that person who turns away genuine affection, because that shit is way too precious.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

There is only one kind of girlfriend to me, an affectionate one! The more intimate with snuggles, kisses and hugs the better!

I don't think I could be with a woman that did not have that quality. I just think It would be an empty relationship if she could not express herself through touch!

iCroissant · Answer

Yes. Because I've never had one, and all I want out of a relationship at this point is the ability to be myself and still have someone love me. An affectionate girlfriend is just a girlfriend who I know isn't fake.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would, because I'm very affectionate and romantic myself, and I wouldn't have to hold back like I do with most girls. I could be myself with her. Also it would great to know that she really loves me enough to want to do those things with me. Something I've always wanted to do is just hold a girl. Nothing else. Just feeling the warmth, the heartbeat, the love...

ggAimless · Answer

I think every guy would like a girlfriend who is affectionate. Even if the boyfriend doesn't show the same, he will still love it. The cuter a girl acts the more the guy pays attention. Make him some dinner and wear his things ( hoodie, t-shirt,). Try wearing a little revealing white / rose gold , show him your new outfit privately, AND THE BIGGEST thing every guy wants even a little is shyness from a girl, A girl should me modest and be a little too shy than guys. I personally would love my girlfriend to be modest and shy. If she was, without any question i would have put a ring on her finger, making her mine.
REMEMBER affectionate, modest, caring and loyal. And nothing more.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

But of course. I may be a reserved guy that isn't fond of touching or hugging others, my gf/wife would be the only exception.

JSmuve · Answer

Fuck ya, op, I want that shit. It makes me feel wanted. I can't stand it when chicks are emotionally distant. It makes me feel like I'm insignificant, which causes me to withdraw. Affection keeps me engaged. Disaffection has me walking towards the door.

zorro8888 · Answer

No, I want a distant one that shows no affection towards me.  Who wouldn't want an affectionate partner lol... come on now :P

BernieforLife16 · Answer

Yes, my current girlfriend and I are very lovey dovey with each other. Lots and lots of flirting and love talk. I love having an affectionate girlfriend and I'm pretty sure she likes have an affectionate boyfriend, I'm a very affectionate guy.

ProbablyTooMature · Answer

Hell yes. More affection is better. Hug, kiss, cuddle, hold hands, lay on me. More more more.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Yes! Lots of affection is good to me. . . at home, but only holding hands in public. I would feel way too awkward if someone else was there.
It makes me feel like she really cares about me if she is the one initiating the closeness. That kind of closeness can be more desirable than sex too, to just hold each other and talk.

Latinamoon · Answer

Well as a guy I like cuddling and kissing so yes I would want someone that's show her emotions this way 😊

godfatherfan · Answer

That would be awesome. I would also love to find a woman that came after me the way I am expected to go after a woman. One that loves PDA is nice also.

Luci92 · Answer

I know I'd want a mildly affectionate boyfriend, yeah :) Just nothing over the top.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Yes I personally would. I can get quite grabby myself. I've also been told by gals in the past that I give good hugs (apparently there's a way to give bad hugs?🙄🙄

Jager66 · Answer

Yes of course!

Men like feeling desired as much as women do but often women are content to let a man do all the initiating, or they just don't like this stuff at all, and both of those scenarios are pretty shitty.

MatthewBatman · Answer

Yes!!! lots of cuddling and kissing while watching movies and just hanging out :P

Muhammad1999 · Answer

Yeah but not girlfriend , i want to have a wife like this in future.

Nothanks700 · Answer

She loves it, or she demands it? There is a huge difference.

Anonymous · Answer

Thats a requirement for me. I've broken up with women for being too distant. If a girl isn't affectionate enough, I don't feel loved.

Plus, i find it adorable when a girl just clings to my arm and tries to kiss all over my face, etc.

JuicyBrain · Answer

Yeah, I am a sucker for that. I am a very tactile person. I love to touch and be touched all the time.

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Absolutely , I love affection. I think it's not only great showing it but it brings you closer together

wheels26 · Answer

Yes it shows me that I'm not putting more effort into the relationship then she is and that she feels the same way I do

suhMason · Answer

YESSS, My Girlfriend is always around me when were sitting down and stuff she's loves to cuddle and kiss and i love that it just shows how much she loves me..

worldscolide · Answer

I absolutely love it. My wife is very cuddly, and its amazing. She also knows when to give me my space which is equally good.

WhoStoleMySock · Answer

Yep! I would want an affectionate girl in a heartbeat! All their actions just show that they care so much and that she's all yours. I would be very lucky to have a girlfriend like that.

Boldstrummer1 · Answer

I love an affectionate girlfriend if she's coming from her strength and not doing it because she's insecure. If she's being clingy because she's insecure that's a turnoff

ToruMatsuda · Answer

Yea I'd really want a girlfriend like that😊cuddling lots, sharing milkshakes, and carrying her randomly, and the kissing😍 I'm very affectionate I take love seriously

AhGojira · Answer

Yep, that's definitely a positive and essential trait.

Grace_Rdz · Answer

Looking at the answers, I should probably try being a bit more affectionate haha 😳

Malcom_Reynolds · Answer

I'm not a fan of public displays of affection, but short of that yes.

Alexious · Answer

If she isn't like that then she won't be my girl. Simples

hotstuffSRD · Answer

Yep  I'd love it  It shows that she cares about me  But it's hard to find affectionate girls at my age 😂 LOL

ForeverAloneBrah · Answer

Yes I wouldn't mind it as I could do with being a more affectionate person, sometimes I forget I am human as I have more in common with a statue.

TruExo · Answer

There isn't any type of girlfriend better than that for me

Flurr · Answer

No, just a moderate level of affection. I don't want someone hanging all over me all day.

dave1558 · Answer

at times its ok but after a while its like knock it off and get back to sucking my junk

Maxemeister · Answer

Yup, very much. Why? Keeps the emotional and physical connection alive

anonman32 · Answer

yes, i want a girl like that because i am like that too.

admles · Answer

Yep. I love it, and to be honest, I wouldn't want a girl who wasn't.

Sojex · Answer

I'd be down with thay cause even though I'm a tough guy, deep down, I adore that lovey dovey shit

HulkkSmash · Answer

By affectionate you mean clingy? And to that i say no

lacorine197 · Answer

Hell yea, no girl that needs mind games to get her.

Anonymous · Answer

I like it at times but sometimes it can be a bit much so it's almost like I would have to be in the mood

ParamountArmada · Answer

OMG! yes she would be my dream girl.

jamesdegod · Answer

na just tell me how beautiful i am 4.5 times a day and il be happy.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah of course that would be ideal. Everone wants to be shown that they're loved.

sa230e · Answer

Of course. Who wouldn't?

Mesonfielde · Answer

That sounds great as long as she isn't needy

abc3643 · Answer

Syre! It's the best thing in the world!

StickStickity13 · Answer

Not too much, it gets annoying after awhile

Marinepilot · Answer

Yes. I need to feel wanted. If not, adios !

brewersfan01 · Answer

not my first choice ill be honest.

APRU5 · Answer

Yeah that would be dope

SpecialWael · Answer

I think yeah coz i'm damn COLD

Fingold · Answer

I sure would, I like that.

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