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I'd say men. Ladies my age are usually crazy and / too picky.
*crazy and / or too picky.*
lies.
@Afrochick The truth hurts, I know. ;-)
I personally believe that women put more effort into relationships than men. My main reason us because we women are mostly the ones to remember the anniversaries, birthdays and are always showing affection. That's just my opinion.
but we dont care about that. its a nuisance. you do it for yourself and we are obligated to play along or get in trouble
Women put more effort into remembering dates? Wow.. lmao.
How much you put into the relationship all depends on the person. Usually the more you care, the more effort you will put in.
@YourName123 you're funny. But your opinion is your opinion in the end.
Men because we must select the right woman, one wrong choice and we can be fucked for life.
Use a condom bruhhh 😂 😂
@YellowCactus or just do anal lol.
Of course, women was mostly voted by women and vise versa. lol I voted for the ladies regardless of being a guy, though. 🙂
I think it's about the same. In a healthy relationship, both should be putting same amount of effort.
Popular belief would have you believe it's the guys. All the worthwhile women will prove otherwise.
Spoilt brats are boring, anyway.
Well honestly i think it depends on the person personally i feel that i put in more effort in dating/ a relationship than guys do for me so yea thats just me i guess
Maybe your doing the wrong thing then? Mostly, it should be a 50/50 feeling. If your feeling like you put more effort in. Useally there's an issue.
Men have to put WAY more into it and I don't even think it's close
It's kinda equal.. Guys usually at first and then girls later.
At most, it takes a woman 3 hours to get ready. It takes 3 years for a man to get a good paying job.
Wow, bam.
Men most definitely at least for myself, I'm shy guy who can't open up to females.
I feel you bro
@sweetshyguy Yep so true
Has a bold huntress asked you out?
@sweetshyguy No, not yet hahha
There are more guys out there fighing for any girl thay can get... So the guys have to put in more than there share to get the girl...
Is this poll about initiating and catching attention or about maintaining a healthy relationship?
The scenarios have different answers.
The guy does he has to do all the pursuing while the woman sits and do nothing.
I think it depends on the person or couple. Sometimes one person may put in more effort than the other
At the beginning? And I'd say most woman yourself don't worry about anything anyway.
It all depends like there may be times or days that one puts in more effort than the other. Personally I do worry about stuff I'm not like the majority of women.
How many guys check you out during a day? Or hit on you? Lets get real here... and you worry? Woried about? You look perfect. These days, that helps find people. Not sure what your worried about?
Lol um not too many besides older guys😂😂😂 lol plus I'm in a relationship
Good for you :) At the same time, define relationship?
Basically two people who are dating
This isn't a question it's a fact. A woman can literally find a sugar daddy to give her all the shit she wants while guys have to work for everything.
why do women have deal with "self maintenence and looking good all the time" and men dont? wtf
Neither for me. If I were with someone else definitely me.
Men have to prove their worth. Women just have to be pretty. Women usually seek a provider.
the approaching stuff sucks for shy guy, it's impossible for us :(
You're confusing gender and sex
Sex is the bits between someone's knees; gender doesn't exist.
You're needlessly differentiating two words that mean the same thing.
@RedVulcan In reality they mean the same thing, but in the sake of specificity of language, I decided to omit the modern conceptual use as unrealistic.
... and then you did nothing after. What was the point?
It's about equal, but I would say men, at least where most of you lot live. Men are expected to pay for everything for some reason.
It's obviously men lol
303 people would disagree with you so I don't think you can use the word 'obviously'.
They do the approaching most of the time tbh
Yeah, but it was an all inclusive question, not just about the approaching. It wasn't what I asked.
The putting on make up is to do with women competing against each other... the amount of women who get defensive and say 'we dont wear it for men'. Men pay and approach. Some women do approach but likely on the very best looking guys (because those men do have sex with average +
@Jamesol1 @Elarra I actually agree that it can go both ways, I was just talking about the way I have seen it.
No, she's right. It is obviously men, out of the girls who said it's women.. I wonder how many of them cold approached their boyfriends and risked getting rejected to ask them out, I wonder how many of them always chose where to go out and always pay for the date in full etc etc. Obviously not all guys do these things, but the number of guys that do is FAR higher than the number of girls.
@Kkaos why do men seem to think they know everything. that there are NO women who approach men. i have approached men before i don't give af about getting rejected. it's a part of life. people are people... they either do approach or don't it's nothing to do with gender.
@PlanetOfTheIdiots Did I say there are no women who approach men? No, I didn't... So your comment is irrelevant. I'm sure there are many women who do approach, however approaching was just one part of my comment which you seemed to pick out on and it doesn't change the fact that it is mostly men who approach as a whole, as I said... I wonder how many women proclaiming that women put in more effort take part in the things I mentioned, it's a question... Don't get defensive.
@Kkaos you insinuated men do more approaching than women, and this is complete utter bull. you can only speak for yourself or your friends but you can't speak for everyone. which i find funny that people seem to think they can speak for everyone these days
@PlanetOfTheIdiots "you insinuated men do more approaching than women, and this is complete utter bull." Yes, I definitely did insinuate that and it's also 100% true. What.. You seriously think men aren't more likely to approach than women? If so I'd like to see some proof for that because the very fact that there are very few female pickup artists seems to disagree with you.
"You can't speak for everyone".. No I can't nor did I ever.
@Kkaos you pretty much are. your ignorance is captivating. show me more wisdom senpai
Wait, are we still talking about this?
@PlanetOfTheIdiots Ahaha yeah, I think you'll find I "pretty much" aren't. And oh please, do tell me how I'm ignorant... Actually no wait, don't bother... I'll save you the trouble of having to think too much.
Men do but women worry more about being in one than men.
The gender that can get stabbed to death trying to keep guys from mugging/raping you.
No. The gender that risks being creepy on every approach because of other assholes of the same gender raping people.
All girls have to do is sit back and enjoy the show while we do everything and babysit them -_-
Most definitely the men as women have such a large dating pool to choose from whereas men need to have multiple options when it cums to dating 😁
Definitely men as for the paying and approaching part but it does take a lot for women to get ready all and all
If you're not putting in equal effort, you're not in an equal relationship.
Men and women have their strong and weak points. In the end it equals out. I agree with you.
@PinkMichae I think initially men put the effort but when there's an actual relationship then it's equal
Early on I think men. After that I think it comes down to the individual relationship.
everything's up to men. women just have to chose whom to accept and whom to reject
it's equal. men still have to find well paying jobs, and do all that stuff, but, it's VERY difficult to maintain your appearance, trust me
Which one has to, or which one actually does? There's a difference.
No there's not.
Yeah there is.
Which one has to? Both. They should both.
Which one does? Guys at the beginning, then once they have the girl they sit back and let her worry about him all the time until she gives up because he doesn't seem to care anymore.
Obviously this isn't in all cases, but it happens quite often to the people I know at least.
Men. Sometimes I feel like us women have it easy.
You do.
LOL look how self-centered women are as always. Look at the results.
really hope you're being sarcastic considering he actual results so far
@jarofawesome 49% of girls said women, he's right lol
@Kuqezi yeah and comparatively, 211 women said women and 336 men said men... so which is winning in self-centeredness?
Not to mention 114 women sided with men and only half that, 55 men sided with women.
@jarofawesome Not self centered if it's obviously true. Those 49% are all single/soon to be single women lmao
A lot of people don't like the truth.
@Kuqezi What is considered truth if not the blatant fact staring someone in the face? The "truth" about this post (setting aside stereotypes) is that the percentage of men saying that they put in more work is roughly 1.5X larger than women saying the same thing.
On the other hand since roughly 2x the amount of women voted in favor of the opposite sex as opposed to men (excluding "Other"), it can be concluded that both sexes agree that men have to put in more effort.
This does not mean though that the men voting for themselves are any way less self-centered than the women voting for themselves. Since the percentage of men voting for themselves is higher it can be concluded that they are the more self-centered of the two.
While I agree with your assumption of the soon to be single women, I also have to assume based on your assumption that you are just as narcissistic and therefore also in that same boat as the women you joked about. :P
@Kuqezi You're right, a lot of people like to avoid the truths that don't justify their own way of thinking about the world.
we do all the work and try hard, and when she like "Im not interested" you invested so much time and effort, only to be spit on
Men. It is not even a contest
Both have to put effort. Some people more, some people less, some people don't have a chance.
It sucks for both genders
Men at first, women later.
True. You take care of us when were old. Instead of putting us into a nursing home
But you get a nice home for yourself and every thing else us men do for you
so basically he has it coming to be looked after when old
It's been decades, when is later coming?
when we are to old to look after ourselves
@Iron_Man in my culture, both men and women work SO hard to make things go right. It's all about sacrifice. And in our culture the woman do a lot. We cook everyday and serve the men and children food, we clean, we do the interior designing, we do the gardening outside, we stand by our men like iron walls, we sacrifice and dedicate our lives to the children, we never complain/whine, we work full time jobs and then come back and take care of household chores. I know this may not seem like a lot to you, but this is what makes a relationship strong. Anyways, this is how it is in my culture and this is how I'll be when I have a family of my own.
That means so much to me datgirl. I was shocked to read your words. No one in my country is like that anymore. I would love to find a wife like that big time. I am tagging my friend @Avaguanine you have talked to her a long time ago about India, I want her to read your outstanding words. I am very impressed thanks so much for your time. 😊
@Iron_Man thanks for tagging me. :)
Well you are right. I want to do that for my husband someday :)😃
I think they are equal.
in my opinion they'd both have to put in the same amount of effort for anything to work
definitely men
I'm pretty sure it's pedophiles.
Yeah, 'cause they have to dodge the law while they're at it... geez lol
Boy howdy.
Women, they have to deal with self maintenance and looking good all the time
Men at the beginning, and then women later on.
Interesting. What happens later on?
@RedVulcan I'm not sure exactly, I haven't had many long term relationships, but I feel like women become more emotionally invested much later on, like say, after marriage. Obviously this isn't always the case but it's what I've noticed.
Now that I think about it though, it's probably mostly even, but again it depends on the circumstances and the relationship.
that don't make any sense..
@lacorine197 I wrote this last night when I was extremely sleep deprived lol.
You're right, it doesn't make sense.
@lacorine197
it really doesn't make sense
@relaxrelax Thank you both for helping me realize, it didn't make sense in the first place, hence why I said it didn't make sense. LMAO. :P
MAN, GUYS, DUDES, BROS you get the point OP
Men, I think we have to do everything haha
I'd say in most cases men.
Depends on how high maintenance either party is.
Ugh... one of those questions again.
Honestly I think it's equal.
Men, duh.
Depends on the relationship
Me, because im the ugliest ever
itsboth just in diff ways.
Where tf is the "both" option
How many guys you ask out?
@Gustafsone12584 Quite a few
I'm just fucking frustrated
how hard is it to ask a girl out you ask her will you be my girlfriend if she says yes then you and her are boyfriend and girlfriend that's all there is to it I'm sure someone has done something harder than just asking someone out
I mean it ain't like you're fucking taking a car apart
true. it's all in all just a stupid question with an open opportunity for MGTOW and faminazis to go crazy
@PlanetOfTheIdiots thanks for sticking up for me by the way
I appreciate it I really do
sorry if I got a little bent out of shape
I just tired of all this fighting all it makes me want to do is start crying
this is not the best place to come to find decent people. i recommend a different site.. maybe yahoo answers? you seem like a decent guy, you just need to surrounded yourself with decent people. and lets be honest... this place is toxic. i am not usually sexist to men... i just come here to troll... (it's even making me toxic)
@PlanetOfTheIdiots I try to be sometimes but it doesn't always seem to work that way I have my moments from my ADHD
sites like this are not good for any disability, too much nasty vibes going around. you need to find positive things. maybe a site where other people have disabilities? so you can find common ground and ask questions there without the judgement you may get here. it's not a very friendly site. the post we were on, the girl had the right idea leaving this site. it just makes you more depressed knowing how insensitive people can be (kinda hypocritical since i purposely come across sexist to get reactions) lol but i never really intent to hurt anyone... only sexist men i want to hurt haha :)
i am going to go sleep now.. try find a better site with people who have disabilities too who you can relate to. forget about the lame stuff on here. you are a lovely guy from what i can see. sweet dreams and take care.
@PlanetOfTheIdiots I know I can tell by you're words and the way you talk
sorry if that creeps you out
I don't want to come off creepy
aww thanks sweetie and sweetdreams to you as well okay
i have dealt with creepy and that is not it. trust me haha :) no worries. please find a better site than this, find positive people. cheer yourself up. there are good people out there waiting for you to meet them :) bye x
@PlanetOfTheIdiots okay later
Ofcourse men, lmao.
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