Just tell him. Telling him no will never sound rude. What's to be embarrassed about? I'm not a fan of friends with benefits. Been there, done that, and I don't like the idea. I would rather stay single than have one. I've turned down guys who wanted FWB's and I'm chill with that. If they don't like you enough to want something real, they aren't worth your time. Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. Just say "I'm not interested in that" and walk away.
Just be upfront and say that's not what you're looking for. That you prefer to be in a relationship than just a friends with benefits. He's been honest with you , so just be the same with him.
Asserting your own wants and needs isn't rude.
Just tell him plainly "that is not what I am looking for. I'm looking for a meaningful relationship".
Wow, that's "old school"? lol. Lots of people feel like you do. And all you have to do is straight up tell him. Be blunt and honest but nice also. Just something like "I want more than that but I appreciate you being honest with me". Just tell him that's not the kind of relationship you are looking for. At least he told you this!
Blunt and to the point is the best way. How you put it here is perfect! Tell him you are old school, and you don't want that with him. That's fine.
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Just tell him you don't want to. "I'm not interested in being friends with benefits. I'd be interested in dating you though."
just say it , its not like he is your boss or something , he is being rude not u , just go right at him and say it
and maybe kick him in the nuts... jk
Just tell him you don't do casual relationships because you respect yourself and he should to if he wants anything to do with you
Hey Im not just in it for the sex so if its nothing more than that to you guess you won't be having sex with me..
just say the truth. tell him you liked him more than that and you can't be casual without liking him more
sounds rude. "hey, no. I'm not into it. bye." if you'll be soft and smooth with your words he'll keep trying in you thinking you're really interested.
just be straight up
your opinion is important on the matter
"I'm not interested in a friends with benefits, but thanks for the offer."
There's no reason to be embarrassed. Just tell him you're looking for something different than him and that's it.
Just say "i'm not into that" in a public place with friends around so he can't freak out
Tell him your only interested in a fully committed relationship and no friends with benefits or fuck buddies.
Just tell him straight up. You only have sex when emotions are involved.
Loops common issue nowadays for chicks. Tell him straightforward
Say, "Sorry, that isn't me."
He's the one that is rude. Just tell him no.
You say your question title to him
Just say so, it's not rude at all.
Just be straight up with him.
"I don't want to be friends with benefits"
Just tell him no. It's not rude in the slightest.
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