Boyfriend asked to be left alone, how much space should I give him?

He seemed to be ignoring me all last week and it was really starting to hurt me and make me mad. Well just two days ago was the anniversary of his brother death which I forgot about and I was upset cause this week he was doing the same thing with ignoring me so I let my anger loose and we had a fight. He told me to leave him alone he didn't want to do this right now. Then he blocked my facebook messages and kik messages. I was mad said a few things like stupid thingsike wanting to break up which I didn't mean at all I was just super super mad and I apologized and told him I didn't mean any of that. He read the messages later that nigh but still nothing from him. I'm going out of town and I've tried to message him to let him know that but still nothing. Was that a bad idea or should I have just left him alone still? Or did I just ruin everything? :(


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I would just tell him you're there if he needs to talk to you and leave him alone. When he's ready he'll come to you. It's not a good idea to push and push when he needs space. It's difficult, but it's probably for the best.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • just give him time. He'll come around. Just tell him "I know you need space but just know that I'm here if you need me."

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What Guys Said 2

  • Yup you definitely ruined everything... You women are best at it :-)

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  • You fucked up big time. You need to give him as much space as he needs

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What Girls Said 3

  • Around 10ft

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  • Just let him be for now. No calling or messaging. he needs to deal with his own problems on his own right now.

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  • I agree with him

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