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Some do, but many cute girls don't.
I am sure there are plenty of girls who are just used to be treated well by seemingly everyone, especially in public. They probably wonder how they've never had a bad experience with the workers at the grocery store and such.
Women only have that power over weak men. Strong men.. the kind of men most women want... can easily tip the balance of power in their favor.
Upvote-worthy honesty is upvote-worthy.
sorry, not "up-vote" worthy. The fact is that with all young men, they are after sex. But that doesn't mean it is all they are after. Most men are looking for a relationship also. But ultimately, at least early in the relationship, men are going to do whatever they need to do to show her he is sincere to get sex. Unfortunately, young women place WAY WAY too high an importance on the meaning of sex and treat it like it is some ultimate sacrament. If they just had sex and got it out of the way, they would be much happier in relationships. It is important in any relationship. If a guy bails right after, he wasn't worth having. So why not find that out quickly. Luckily, when women get in their 40's, they turn into men in their teens. Women I date are sexually ferocious and most times sex happens by the 3rd date at the latest.
@godfatherfan I'm not sure I understand how that relates to anything
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This was fucking hilarious for some reason.
Girls have complete power in dating, guys are more easily attracted and often go out of their way to impress/ win girls over.
Girls even when interested (no where near as often) dont go near to the extent of men.
I don't have to manipulate to get a man... this is wrong and incorrect on so many levels. I was brought up to never go chasing after a man, and to never throw myself at one either. i know that if I'm meant to be with a guy , it'll happen naturally. if you have to manipulate to get someone then you're better off working on yourself or being by yourself. before trying to be with somebody.
That is the biggest problem with women today. You want equality. But you have been told not to go after men. If you want to be equals then you should have to go after men like we are expected to go after women. I would love to have a woman do that with me. I have basically stopped dating. I put myself out on POF, OkCupid and Tinder. If a woman sends me a message, and I am interested, I will pursue it. At least I know she is truly interested and not just out for free dates. I have had a number of women that just wanted free meals.
You make the assumption buying things for women helps to win her heart. That's bs, and actually an insult too.
I don't know for anybody else, but i don't want a complete circusact trying to get laid. Because al those generous things you do is just that: an act.
Just be yourself otherwise it's just fake.
Either there is a click or there's not. Buying things or "acting" generous don't matter.
Attractive women = yes
Average looking women = maybe if they really try
But ugly women? = hell no.
Girls have complete power in dating, guys are more easily attracted and often go out of their way to impress/ win girls over.
Girls even when interested (no where near as often) dont go near to the extent of men.
stop repeating this tired bullshit. it is false.
They don't have power over all men. I've never had difficulty ignoring or walking away from a woman. Flirting or not.
In fact the moment a woman starts flirting with me, I'd still be no more inclined to buy things for them.
I've been single by choice for over 27 years, I'm still immune to women's advances.
Also I am perfectly straight by the way.
Girls only have power over pathetic boys.
Wealthy, handsome or intelligent boys are not that pussy kind of people you are describing.
I don't really use that "power" unless it's something I find harmless to the boy, like homework.
I wouldn't ever use it to get free stuff or a slave to carry my stuff around or be my personal driver, simply because I'm not a bad person.
Its still more power than guys have.
Girls simply need to be average and up on looks and guys seem to swarm them with attention and special treatment. Most guys seem to be attracted to girls who are friendly and moderately attractive.
Where as most girls aren't even attracted to handsome guys, they need to meet all these requirements before they csn feel attracted and have the power be equal.
Only pathetic boys. There are a lot of them, yes, but that's their own fault. They just need to stop being stupid and realize there are prostitus and sex toys so they keep they stop humillating themselves for sex.
Guys who are financially mid-class and/or average looking can be smart in that regard as well.
I don't use my "power" to manipulate guys lol, its either I like you or I don't, I don't want to play with you. And girls risk things almost as much as guys if not more sometimes, we not all manipulative
Its still more power than guys have.
Girls simply need to be average and up on looks and guys seem to swarm them with attention and special treatment. Most guys seem to be attracted to girls who are friendly and moderately attractive.
Where as most girls aren't even attracted to handsome guys, they need to meet all these requirements before they csn feel attracted and have the power be equal.
Like I said a girl can get played in the same way, and it's not bad to have a preference everyone likes what they like and that doesn't mean we all have impossible standards
I'm sure some do.. But like others have said.. A lot of guys allow the girls to have the power over them.. If guys weren't throwin themselves at girls sexualizing themselves it would be easier.. On the same end.. Sometimes it can't be helped that the power of girls is too much for the guy only to fight.. So I see both sides..
Even if that's true (which still needs to be established) you make it sound like guys have no choice but to give them whatever they want. We are all rational beings capable of rational decisions. Ifyou consider what a woman asks you unreasonable, then just don't give it to them. Easy.
I thought it was that simple too, until I saw all these men complaining about their lack of will power.
@estoydorado1 Yes, that's pathetic seriously
Women only have the power that you give us, just as men only have the power than we given them.
In other words, grow a spine.
Men dont gove women thag power for no reason. They give it because they so much more/ easily attracted to women
This is a very subjective opinion. I've known girls who do this but it's only few girls who truly can do this. In my opinion, it's only women who are very attractive or instagram models who have this "power". I don't think this is usual for the average woman.
Girls have complete power in dating, guys are more easily attracted and often go out of their way to impress/ win girls over.
Girls even when interested (no where near as often) dont go near to the extent of men.
I feel sorry for you if girls have power over you. Honestly, you need to realize how much power you, as a guy, can have over a woman. Once you do, you'll have so much fun.
So so so much fun... xD
@akadatank44 GAG would be so much better if all these guys who complain would understand they power they have... tsk tsk
xD
I would not call that power, I would call that men willing to do anything for sex. A lot of men are desperate. So you are telling me that I can get a house and a car from a guy just by flirting. Please tell me how. Also if that was true then most girls would have an easier time dating
Isn't that called marriage? :P
Yup it's called marriage (legal prostitution)
Literally what they said. Men are just more strongly and easily attracted to women so they sre blind more
@asker and whose fault is that? You can not get mad at something you do
It takes skill to tell a woman that they are oppressed and deserve XYZ while simultaneously telling them that they rule the world al la Beyonce. But that kind of skill pales in comparison to the abilty to get women to ignore true suffering of women in other parts of the world in lieu of say... 'tampons aren't free, and my office is too cold.' (insists on wearing the skimpiest outfits while the mean are forced to wear suit and ties to work.) Oh the oppression!
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They only have power over those who lets them.
Lmao 😆
I guess I'm different. I've never had a guy go out of his way for me. Lastly, I've never been really specially treated. At most, I've been told I'm pretty. I mean I guess I "could " manipulate a guy bit, I've never been taught how... let alone I just want something real. I want a guy to not just want me sexually but, to love me. I don't see any real point to play games. At the end of the day, he's going to know who I am one way or another.
So you've never felt like guys suck up to you because your a girl?
Nope. Then again, I have a long history of crappy boyfriends. Honestly, I'm usually the one doing all the gift giving and romantic jesters. I've never been taught how to find nice guys nor how to get them. The jerks are the ones that usually "go after me". Aka, only ones that have ever asked me out. As result of this and contribution from a bad home life, it's destroyed my self esteem. I honestly wish, just for once, I would be able to feel as special as all the other girls. I wish I would someday get even just flowers. Even if it's a weed from the side of road. It would make me feel just even remotely special.
Im sorry:( I've never had a girl go to that much effort more me either
I go probably more overboard on my end then I should.
Of course they do! Why else do you think there are such things like prostitution, gold diggers and bitches, who lead guys on and simply extract resources from sex-starving boys?
But that power is only active while they are in their teens and 20s. After that it's not as potential anymore.
Hence I do not let myself being manipulated by the "magic of having the vagina".
But I am glad, that not all women are like that. Plenty of good ladies may be found.
I realise. Makes me a bit wary and uncomfortable though because most men misinterpret my niceness as flirting and I don't want to lead anyone on so I try my best to make my intentions clear.
1. Are you straight?
2. Do you feel like girls have more power over guys?
1. no I'm bi
2. In a way yes. Most girls can easily manipulate guys and guys tend to go out of there way to be nice to girls.
very few women can get guys to do things that they truly dont want to do, and in those cases when they can they usually had to make the guy invested in her, typically by putting out and having sex with him before. After that she can probably ask the guy to do significant things for her.
If they dont know each other and are just flirting, women might be able to get a free drink at most, but i wouldn't call that having any significant kind of power.
all women are bi