I'm just wondering.
Most Helpful Guy
A lot of people don't get this... guys and girls think VERY differently. Girls are more emotionally impulsive, guys are more logically inclined. This typically carries over to relationships.
Girls are more likely to fall for guys that they don't have a chance with, even craving it (could be celebrity, the popular guy, the thug) with no logical foundation, the guy may not have shown any interest but girls believe guys think like them and they would be able to "change him". That is a fantasy of a lot of girls.
Girls can fall in love very quickly and it's generally not a conscious decision to follow. More of an impulse that happens early on.
But girls also fall out of love much more quickly, they can end a relationship on some small things and typically get over it relatively quickly.
Guys can have a relationship without feelings for as long as they desire. This is why one night stands are easier for us. We won't have any feelings for the girl if we don't think she is worth the time (i. e perhaps she doesn't have much of a personality or is too simple so is boring and can't hold a conversation) But she might be hot so is ok to fuck.
When guys decide to fall in love and allow themselves, it's serious (not a fake love you forced to say). We settle and commit, so ending it isn't easy. Some studies suggest guys don't ever truly fall out of love but for most it takes months2
Most Helpful Girl
This is a joke. It was created to make you "sensitive" girls feep better when a breakup doea happen. Not true at all. Most guys will be happy that its over. If the girl did the "breaking up" the guy will probably move on way quicker.0