My girlfriend cheated on my birthday?

[Anonymous]

This double shocking is making me reconsider the relationship and her remorse. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and my birthday is on April 7. I had marriage in my mind for some time but she threw it all away. Well to make a long story short, last way she nearly stood me up on my birthday but stop at 10:45 PM, when the day was practically over and the people were leaving. She got my present and apologized profusely and how her boss made her take a double shift. I believed her because it seemed real and I no where did it cross my mind that she would cheat on me, much less on an important day. I found out she cheated last week but I didn't think it was on my b-day. She didn't want to answer the when question claiming that she didn't know exactly and that it would be too painful. This made me even more pissed off and after I kept insisting, I finally get the answer. It had to be that my last year's b-day party, the day she almost stood me up. It had been a regular day, I might have maybe consider work it out but now I don't know. She has been in tears since then and is begging for another chance. Out of all the days in the year, why on my own damn b-day?

[ShesRad80]

if she had any kind of thought process that included you and your feelings, she wouldn't be sorry because she would not have done it. She is in tears? You deserve better than that. I am really sorry that happened to you, only you know if you can trust her again or not. for me I would never be able to trust that person and on your birthday? just wrong on so many levels. she should have been grabbing you a cake and some balloons or even a card, not jocking some jabroni

[LinaAshhx]

Birthday on not, this person cheated on you. Lack of trust, respect or loyalty is based within that relationship. I feel sorry for you but you should move on and not feel remorseful over what happened.

If you had given her your all; you can do way fucking better and tbh she don't deserve none of you for sure.

[RichTheC]

Dump her (off a bridge ideally).
Her feeling bad and sorry should be the default reaction, not any kind of special reason to take her back

[cavmanier]

Because she probably doesn't care about you or respect you much, and she's probably cheated other times too.

[jennifer_bloom]

I cheated in monopoly on bird cake day.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Well, at least you didn't find out she's the type that will cheat on you on your birthday after marriage. If married, and then you break up with her because she cheated, she'll take half of your shit.

I honestly don't know why you guys consider marriage. You'll get nothing out of that sort of deal. Women get to do whatever the fuck they want (like cheating) and then they'll walk away with all the cash and prizes.

[stepyo99]

Don't fall for her crocodile tears. She has 0 respect for you and even if it wasn't exactly on your birthday, it was still near your birthday, which is just adding insult to injury. Dump that skank immediately.

[Radicalash]

Dump her. Even if you take her back later. Don't just forgive as it will often happen again

[JesseP1nk]

I would just laugh at her face while she is crying and begging for another chance i would dump her and would tell her to f3ck off. Because i know at some point someone is gonna cheat on her. Karma won't let that slide :)

[Kiss_Me]

Run, don't walk. Run away from her. You will thank yourself later.

[FreyaRed]

At least she gave you an unforgettable gift. Of course not that kind of gift you wanted.

[luvstoned4him]

Lack of respect man...

[PragmaticProfit]

Run away. Don't confide in such women.

[Shamalien]

Fuck that cunt straight to hell