I don't think it gets boring, if you're interested enough. With my bestie, that lives in another country, we're texting every day through the whole day for almost two years already, since the day we met. We were in a ldr and we kept on doing that. Now we're not together anymore, but we keep texting the same way and I think it's better than one call per day, because with that one call you might miss on some small events. And also we call almost every night. So it's up to the interest you've got for the person.
I agree with you. I'm in a long distance relationship now, too, and he is texting me every day, sending me photos, "I miss you baby" at least two times a day and it's starting to annoy me... I don't check my phone often anymore cause I feel otherwise he could text all day lol
Its only boring to text them daily if they're not interesting enough or you dont miss them enough to contact daily. I was in a LDR where we texted daily along with a phone call almost every night or every other night and we never got bored of eachother.
This is an area that is going to be different for each couple. Some people's love language is words of affirmation so having that exchange of communication every day is going to a lot more important than for someone else.
I would ask Your boyfriend what he thinks. Be gentle and stress that You love him and love talking with him but that You don't feel a need to every day.
Online works exactly the same way as offline. Nobody should feel forced to do anything, it should all come natural. Sometimes the two of you might not have much to talk about and rather be alone. Thats perfectly fine as long as its in balance with moments you enjoy spending time together.
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Naw m8 as long as there something to talk about of course. I think if you get along well enough there's always something to talk about. Depending on the type of person homeboy is, he might be laughing it off with his boys while pounding other poon.
To me it's boring if they don't know how to hold a conversation. Or they just do the "hey. How are you? What's up?" thing.
But there a lot of people I text every day and I don't get bored because we actually have interesting convos
That is why long distance relationships don't work and people don't go out anymore. It is a miserable way of life. That's why I changed my mindset and outlook on life.
even if he did cheat there's no way of you knowing just saying why even get into it in the first place
LDR's suck. Consider dating someone you can actually see and be with. That's what dating is all about anyway.
Yes, I don't see the point in being in a relationship if you aren't in regular serious contact. Seems more like a friendship than anything.
me and my girlfriend text and call every day , I think it's just different for everyone
yeah.. its right... because just with text she also gets bored... some physical touch must have in relationship
agreed, keeps some mystery in the relationship as well
Yeah, not really much point to constant texting. A couple times a week should suffice.
i don't respond to texts from lovers only friends. i don't believe in ldr
If I was him I'd be banging co eds on the daily
You should not expect much
It's whatever both like.
And if you have different tastes it's probably going to not last.
No I'm clingy I prefer constant attention..:-(
I prefer texting over call me
I agree. Texting would be too lonely and boring
yea no its pretty boring
relation build only on sex n love not chat
... and you fell off the rails...
I agree
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