As a woman would it be considered rude to show a boyfriend the kind of engagement ring you want? (Page 3)

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Hello I would appreciate some input; Is it rude or just ridiculous too show your boyfriend the kind of ring you want if he was to ever propose? For example, I have a page on my Pinterest filled with engagement rings which I would love in the future, therefore would it be rude to introduce this to a future boyfriend? Or should I just let him pick the one he likes the most? Most of the rings I love are from Tiffany & CO and are pretty ridiculously expensive therefore I don’t want to impose something upon any man. Of course I would introduce this only after we have discussed marriage and have been together for a prolonged amount of time. I’m a 20-year university student and I have never had a boyfriend as of yet. Thank you for the input!

Anonymous · Answer

yes. i believe that he should get you the one he can afford, not the one you desire. that wouldn't be fair to him.. there's no use in putting him in debt, over something you'll take off anyway

Dolphinbabygirl · Answer

with my experience no cause the boyfriend will want to know your ring size sometime

red324 · Answer

I think she should like the one I get her. One neck of a way to start off a marriage.

EOTS1 · Answer

It's not rude at all. I want to know what kind she likes.

Tezzy69 · Answer

No harm in showing, hopefully he might honour your wishes. x

LoneStarLaw · Answer

Not at all, in fact as a man that knows little and cares less about jewelry, it would be awesome. hard to get it wrong that way

jordan1998 · Answer

No he'd want get you want you want if he wants to marry you. This is only for if you guys have discussed marriage as he might get shit scared

Anonymous · Answer

if you want guys to run then yeah go ahead and show

MisterSir · Answer

not rude in my opinion just don't actually expect it to happen

Anonymous · Answer

I think the guy should always pick it out because it's nice to see what he would pick out.

Daltonb19 · Answer

Oh no its a good thing. It shows us what type of ring you would want if it ever got to that stage in the relationship.

selfprovoked · Answer

No I don't think it would be it's not like he has to listen to you and get that exact ring you're jut showing him what you like.

askmealright · Answer

i think its fine. it does help the boyfriend consider the type of eing you want wether its gold/silver etc..

internettabby152 · Answer

Absolutely not, this girl I was talking to the other day said she picked out her engagement ring with her boyfriend. It's not rude at all!

hidbd · Answer

Not rude at all, more of a hint for him to choose which one is best.

Anonymous · Answer

it doesn't matter. the marriage, wedding day and proposal and everything are already for you so why shouldn't you be able want insane expensive rings?

bwaters1112 · Answer

no, if anything it'll take pressure off bc he would know the ring you want

Anonymous · Answer

Sure it's would be very helpful for any guy trying to pick a ring

Anonymous · Answer

no not rude according to me... I would take it as an idea of what kind of ring you would like

FakeName123 · Answer

I wonder why you didn't have a boyfriend, yet.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

No, it is not rude. Presumptuous yes.

DodgersGM · Answer

Unless he asks, it seems tacky and presumptuous.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

No that is not rude at all

Patriots512 · Answer

Take what you get and like it.

blondfrog · Answer

That wouldn't piss me off.

Fk7676 · Answer

Sounds dumb and desperate

Anonymous · Answer

Annoying maybe but not rude

Roadcruiser1 · Answer

You could give a hint. 😉.

Anonymous · Answer

Well just let him choose what he can afford..

zombiebabe · Answer

let him pick...

depeche2015 · Answer

yes in my opinion

ahsan6666 · Answer

I think let him decide for you

chuy10 · Answer

its the thought that will count

pixema · Answer

for a guy like me that would be much helpful

Berki · Answer

yes its

Taratara12 · Answer

nope

Iraqveteran666 · Answer

You could hint.

CT_CD · Answer

Yes...

grapes_101 · Answer

Nah makes it easier

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

Yup.

Nahid1234 · Answer

A little bit

Midget_Hug · Answer

I don't think so.

IAmBlueThunder · Answer

Yes.

Lumberman53 · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

yes it is rude

Alexandrufs18 · Answer

nooo

bigstick45 · Answer

yes it would

niel-mari · Answer

no not at all

va078 · Answer

It is OK

boyinlove · Answer

nope. kinda cute

shawtyc18 · Answer

no at all

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