Would you let someone look through your phone on a first date?

[moonpie89]

I saw this on snapchat. After they looked through each other's phones, they had to decide if they would want to go on a second date or not based on what they found.

Yes, they can go through my phone

No, I wouldn't let them

Other

[Akesuke]

I show some things from my phone to my boyfriend, personal things like chats with others, notes about my thoughts, a little artsy selfies, silly stuff... I want him to know and love the real me, not hiding anything from him, but if it's (absurdly speaking) a new person who wants to date me , why would I show me "naked" suddenly when real love needs time to build ❓ silly...

[IAmRedThunder]

I guess if they really wanted to? I'm an open book and don't lie, so sure. Whatever. I don't know if I'd go on another date with them tho. If they're already annoying and untrusting like that, then I don't want to get in a relationship with that.

[i_research]

Not on the first date. That doesn't feel right.

If we get close, he can have access to my phone. I am not secretive about it.

[Anonymous]

Hahaha weirdly enough I have given my phone to a girl on the first date... even gave her the passcode (I was pretty fucking drunk and at this point I legit thought she was the one since it was the best date I've even been on and I never felt that type of chemistry/connection with so I didn't eve think twice about it), so yea I would. I have nothing to hide.

[moonpie89]

That's so cool. Are you guys together?

[Opinion Owner]

nope, I left that first date thinking fuck I definitely found the girl I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. I've never felt that that way before, it was really different and I've been with a lot of girls. We dated for 2 weeks and things were literally going perfectly. She even told me she was falling for me by date 3. She then dissapeared out of nowhere. Like the morning of our last date before she disappeared was her asking me to walk her to work because she wanted to spend as much time with me as possible, telling me she never wants me to leave her, and she wants me to stay with her forever. Then bam cold as ice for a month. She comes back into my life with a giant wall up on our first date since those 2 weeks. We have another date to "talk" she starts crying and telling me she cares about me so much but can't see me because she lost herself in her previous relationship (she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years 2 weeks before we started dating) and needs time to get her shit

[Opinion Owner]

together so she doesn't end up hurting me because she's a bad person and had cheated multiple times in her previous relationship. She said it was terrible timing and she would love it if we tried again in the future and would like it if we kept in touch every now and then. She was literally crying and hugging me and wouldn't let me leave her. We continued the date where she basically made me out to be her soul mate telling me she's never felt this way about anyone before and that I'm exactly the type of guy she's been looking for and will definitely come visit me when I move in a bit less than a year because I'm the type of guy she'd instantly fall for all over again no matter how long we're apart, she then had a serious 30min convo with me about our future babies, what they'd look like, their names, and how many... remember this is after she had broken things off. Then she took me back to her place to take polaroid pics together so we can have a physical reminder of each other.

[Opinion Owner]

I contacted her 2 days later asking to her because if what she says it's true she shouldn't risk losing me and that we can work through it together. She asked for space. Went no contact for 2.5 months and I tagged her on a fb post on something I know she would really like, just wrote her name nothing else and she blocked me. Talk about a complete mind fuck. I've never had my head more fucked with in my life and she has been the toughest girl I've been with to get over. I'm still not over her and don't think I truly ever will. I fell really hard for this woman and from everything she was saying and doing (she literally could not keep her hands off of me and was kissing my hand by date one) I truly believed we were on the same page. I trusted her when she told me why she couldn't see me and that she wanted to try again. I flat out told her to just be completely honest with me and if she was simply not interested that it's ok and not to give me false hope. Yet she did and then she blocked

[Opinion Owner]

me for no reason. I've never been blocked before and to have it done by her was soul crushing.

[mfpx_grej]

Go for it. I don't have anything on it anyway, I don't use it much. For me its primary purpose is to call and message people (primarily my parents), and occasionally Internet and stuff
As long as they don't do stupid shit like texting or calling people, and stealing my information.

[buttercupstar]

I have nothing to hide but , who asks to look through your phone on a first date

[NYkid27]

I don't have anything to hide but I wouldn't let someone look through my phone because I think it's none of their business

[Walrus_au]

With the caveat that I can run a full backup first so if they decide to mess with things I can get it back easily.

I think it would be very interesting, and would probably be a good way to get rid of unwanteds.

[Nahid1234]

Not on the date but in another time yes, they would have to ask and cooperate with me. ☺️💕

[Saad_1992]

What if they run away with it. Lots of con artists do that so they can make money by selling it.

[jjhere38]

on a first date? Hell no lol If we are in a relationship then sure go right ahead

[Anonymous]

No, lol, not on first date, maybe on a second after I make it a G rating

[llorando]

Hell no, don't know them and wouldn't trust them stealing my information.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't let someone I'd been in a relationship with for 5 years look through my phone.

No, I don't have anything to hide either.

My phone is exactly that, mine.

[PrincessPie]

No i wouldn't.

[Lopezz1999]

Why not? I honestly don't have anything to hide.

[Toad-1]

Nope. I don't trust them yet

[Deadpool76992]

I don't let ANYONE look through my phone as it is

[martyfellow]

AWFULLY impolite to even ASK that!

[mrmeseeks]

They aren't taking my memes😒😒😒😒😒

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sure. They are not gonna find nothing special.

[AlexBlack007]

Nah, not even after a million dates.

[momo770]

Hell no

[bebe_blue]

No way in hell

[Words_and_Wisdom]

If they wanted to see my artwork, sure.

[Dansglabella]

What if they see the search history...

[ravedave]

Hell no

[Sojex]

I don't have a Snapchat so joke's on them

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't let them

[IAmBlueThunder]

Nope.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Lol nope

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

Nopers...

[Patriots512]

What?