Why don't guys try to date a chubby,"fat" girl?

Question

I see a lot of gorgeous skinny women date even marry guys that are big fat even, but I've never seen a hot average weight man date a heavy girl. Why? Is it because of what people might think? Bullying teasing for dating one? What is your reason. P. S. This is just what I see. I would definitely date a "big" guy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on so many things. In some regions of morocco (where I am currently living) being Chubby is considered a beauty trait. And most of the men here would have a chubby/curvy or even "fat" woman over a skinny one. Skinny girls are the least attractive here. except for the new generations maybe and the very high-class occidentalized people that live like the europeans.

However, nothing like i've seen in the US. Women here are mostly curvy because of their genetics and the local nutrition habits. They are not the kinda lazy women that don't move. They are active like crazy, and as weird as it sounds they are actually physically more active than men.

From my own experience. I am a curvy woman. At first I dealt with it tragically because I was a dancer and I have been fit my entire life and work out was a great part of who I am until I had to stop after a horrible injury due to a car accident.
Everything changed. I felt like my life was over and I totally cared less about how healthy my food was. I just ate everything I wanted and couldn't work out at all so you can imagine how quickly my body changed. I am a little lucky that I carry my weight mostly in my lower body, so fuller ass and thigh and no fat belly which is more aesthetic and less dangerous for my health, but it was still awful.

My boyfriend is moroccan. Of one the high-class americanized people. And he is very athletic. I mean 6'5, a shredded 6 pack and biceps bigger than my head. He was a soccer player for 7 years and sports are a big part of his life. And he had been with me for one year now, with all my curves.
Actually he has greatly contributed to my loving this body I am in right now and That I was very ashamed of for a while. He kisses every inch of my body, every single stretch mark, every imperfection. And not only that, He really makes me feel like the sexiest human being he ever laid eyes on. He loves my body and never misses an opportunity to show it. And That was life changing.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy, some guys like chunkier women and some guys like their women slimmer or aka "thick".

mch90 · Accepted Answer

I have seen plenty of guys with slightly fatter or even downright "ugly" females.

Wwwyzzerdd · Accepted Answer

I have a shredded 6 pack, I workout at least twice a week. I like to go hiking. I have a nice expensive bike that I ride frequently. I like to travel and by that I mean walk insane distances in other countries.

Why the fuck would I want to get with a fat girl who doesn't eat right, doesn't excercise, doesn't take care of her body, sucks at sex because she gets tired too easy from the cholesterol blocking her artieries/lack of muscles?

Why would I date someone I wasn't physically attracted to? Why lower my standards when I'm not on a higher dating value level than she is?

To answer your question, women get fat later in marriage. It's so typical that it's even become a meme. Dating a fat guy doesn't matter to them because he has $$$.

IwanderIwonder · Accepted Answer

It does happen, you just maybe haven't seen them. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen at all. It happens both ways.
In some cases the guy just likes her or/& doesn't care about size.
In some, he might have a fetish.
Some (these I find interesting), she gets huge after the relationship commenced.

gregnator · Answer

for me personally, I don't date obese people, mainly because it disgusts me. For me, if you're severely overweight, it tells me that you really don't care about yourself, your health etc. a person like that, is just something I really couldn't get with. however, it's not that I'd be afraid of what people think, because it shouldn't matter what people think about you or anyone for that matter, dating a chubby, skinny etc person.

Bvroon · Answer

I have never had a problem with bigger girls and have dated and married bigger girls. The way I see it, I'm far from perfect (short and overweight) so who am I to judge, besides if they accept me for the way I am, then I feel it's only fair to do the same with them. Lastly I almost always try to find the positive qualities in a person before making any sort of conclusions about how I see or feel about them.

Jbsanchez89 · Answer

Yeah I'm definitely on the big side too but also not on the puggy soft type since you can definitely tell I'm working on my weight and see some muscle. I have friends who are fit go out with bigger girls because they tend to be less "bitchy" from what I've been told and seem more opened about everything. Tho I've gone out with girls who were fit and are total high maintenance girls which I can understand because it takes a lot of hard work to get there. But I would rather be with a bigger girl

Bandit74 · Answer

Well just like its more common for attractive girls to date chubby guys than the reverse, its more common for attractive guys to have casual sex with chubby girls than it is for attractive girls to hookup with chubby guys.

So guys have an easier time sleeping with more attractive girls in a relationship while girls have an easier time having casual sex with more attractive guys.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

"but I've never seen a hot average weight man date a heavy girl."

That's just your confirmation bias... I see plenty of fat girls with fit guys.

To answer your question... because being fat is unattractive for both genders, there would also be a lifestyle mismatch: he wants to eat a salad with chicken/soy before spending the evening in the gym/playing sports, she wants to watch netflix with a bucket of ice cream.

Dale1982 · Answer

Any wanker, male or female, who dates to uphold an image or gives a fuck what people think anyway, doesn't deserve anybody coz that toxic outlook on life will only fuck theornpartner up. My ex was overweight and the best girlfriend I ever had. Could sit all day having fun with her, never got bored

RationalMale · Answer

A hot guy who is healthy weight doesn't need to date a fat girl. So he doesn't. Fat girls are not attractive like healthy, slim girls.

TylerAaron921 · Answer

I see it all the time, so I have no idea what you're on about. As for reasons I probably wouldn't is I simply don't find them as attractive. I mean, I like them curvy but when it's too much, it's too much.

shyguy2004jf · Answer

Must be a European thing since you said you live in Europe in another guy's comment. I find women attractive in different sizes... and I see plenty of larger size women who "prefer" and are with skinny men in comparison.

TripleAce · Answer

Cause girls like guys bigger than them and guys like girls small

Tamera952 · Answer

'Try to date' ... huh? Guys only think with the peen.

tsin98 · Answer

You seriously need to get and see more of the world it's true that most men want to have hot slender girlfriends, who wouldn't, but there are many guys whom like average weighted sometimes even over weighted girls and I've seen tons of them.

AdalwolfaSorrow · Answer

I don't know where you've been. I've been seeing chubby girls being dated a lot. By the way, for all those people out there. Chubby doesn't mean "fat"

abundantlyrich · Answer

For the financial or emotional security maybe? Or thry knew how talk to these girls

Anonymous · Answer

Most overweight girls date black and hispanic men for that reason. They don't care as much and in fact like the extra weight.

KcJay · Answer

Some women are naturally fat and chubby and losing weight seems harder for them, I can date such a lady if she has a great personality... whereas if a woman is fat because she eats like a cow and is too lazy to engage in physical activities, then that's a turn off for me

Whycantijustcomment · Answer

Probably because society has told these hot guys they aren't supposed to find chubby fat girls attractive. And since they are mindless fools, they don't make up their own minds. Well fuck them and fuck you. I guess us ugly average weight guys will just keep dating and marrying the fat girls.

darkfoxjj · Answer

I have dated a few that were overweight (bmi25-30) and really liked them at the time.  Personally now I prefer women with a normal BMI because I don't think fat is attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't mind dating chubby or fat girls. But I'm a bit chubby myself so no girls want me. Not even the fat ones. So why huh?

Krodaxun · Answer

It totally depends on where the weight is. I am in a relationship with a heavier girl and I think she loos beautiful.

HelpingMcHelpington · Answer

It has to do with what kind of chubby. I fond some chubby girls cute it's in the right places.

drstrange80_ · Answer

why not , they try, in some case who sees nature of a girl rather than her beauty, they still find beauty in her

rgb008 · Answer

It's a reflection upon her lifestyle. And obviously if a guy is fit and wants a girl with a lifestyle like his, they will not be compatible.

IHaveLists · Answer

Most people don't find fat people attractive and I've never seen any actual gorgeous skinny woman date a fat guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Fat girls are like mopeds both a great ride until your friends see you on one.

ravedave · Answer

I personally don't date women like that because I don't find them physically attractive.

sodaa_popp · Answer

Never? I've been in relationships with two "bigger" girls, both weighing more than me.

Astoriana · Answer

PLenty do. Don't listen to the mgtow idiots who want disposable uteri.

Jonestaylor16 · Answer

Uhhhh that's a lie, actually it's the other way around. You see a lot of chubby girls with skinny to beefy guys all the time! We guys like a little meat on a girl.

Chuhiya · Answer

Um.. That's not my true my ex cheated on me with a fat married woman or to put in a modest term "chubby girl"

DatRandomGuy · Answer

"I've never seen a hot average weight man date a heavy girl", i have seen TONS. lol

player0696 · Answer

I like chubby girls. Nevermind to date someone chubby

AleDeEurope · Answer

Because they're not attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Women often give up sexual attraction for security. Men usually are willing to take more chances for sexual satisfaction.

Wolfbringer22 · Answer

where the hell do you live? Most fat girls be getting it

nickg6 · Answer

i would.. i call her more voluptuous  more of her to love.

MrSelfless · Answer

It doesn't really matter, but exceptions are ithere if she is deseased as lumpy body or too much fat.

CHRIS11796 · Answer

I've seen a bunch of guys dating chubby girls and vice versa.

Anonymous · Answer

Whats this?

Regular1 · Answer

I've boned plenty of fat bitches and I'm rather svelte.

Seppelson · Answer

that's because girls are interested in money and guys are interested in good looking girls

kickme · Answer

women care about how his wallet looks. men care about how she looks

karahiri · Answer

I see it all the time. But I'm American.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess the question is: why do girls date fat guys?

Barrabus_the_Free · Answer

I've seen lots of simps with fat chicks.

tapioca · Answer

some of us like our girls big

RedThread · Answer

I've dated a couple of fluffy women.

girlsarewarriors2 · Answer

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